why i'm not pregnant yet

I had a m/c the end of july and waited the 3 months as told. but me and my husband has been trying since and nothing have happen yet.we start having sex often a week before and after i ovulate. i'm beginning to think that something is wrong with one of us and i shoudn't.  people are telling don't think about it and it will happen. I try not to think about the m/c, but it is so hard  when i  work with pregnant women.and i start to get depress all over again, i know god had his reason why it happen. are we wrong for saying that we are trying?

[cynastixs]

a dear friend of mine suffered 5 miscarriages...3 after have the IUI done.

She was preparing to go thru with another IUI when she was told she couldn't...she was upset, but then the dr told her it's because he can't impregnant if already pregnant....

IF you had a miscarriage nothing should be wrong, as far as reproductively speaking.....maybe it's stress, are your charting your temps?

[wantanotherone]

I had a miscarriage in November and still have not had a period. I started having sex right after my 2 week followup appointment since the dr. told me I could.  I really feel like I'm pregnant again.  I have sore boobs, cramps, headaches, backaches, and mood swings that are out of this world.  If I'm not pregnant, I don't know what's going on.  As for you, some times it takes time.  I know you don't want to hear that but some couples try for years before they become pregnant.  If you are taking ovulation tests, keep doing that and see a dr. to see if there's a problem with one of you (probably not).  Also, a friend of mine said that her dr. told her to take geritol. She did and the next month later, she was pregnant.  Good luck with you.

[woman mommy]

thanks for your comments, maybe i just need a little encourgement and just need someone to vent to. I will keep praying and wish for luck.I don't know what to expect,because I have taking several hpt and one was p and one n but will not get hopes yet. I've also have had symts cramping nausea and a nagging pain on my right side, backaches, maybe it just time for period.

[Lisa289]

I had sex at a young age and im still not pregnant yet.I have tried several times to get pregnant but it never works.Doctors tell me if  you keep having STDS it can damage your body and stop you from having kids and that's really true b/c my 1st boyfriend nutted in me three times and my pregnancy test still comes back negative and now im with someone else he nutted in me twice but my pregnancy test is still negative.So more than likely i cant have childrens and now i feel bad b/c i shouldve used a condom but make sure you always use a condoms at all times NO MATTER WHAT!!!!!!!

[ashort]

woman mommy-  I'm so sorry to hear about your m/c.  I also had a m/c.  I had mine in June and it took me 14 weeks to get af back so we started trying in Sept.  I am also getting a little worried b/c every month we bd like crazy and nothing happens.  I was even on clomid for 2 months b/c I didn't o sept into Oct.  I o'ed with the clomid and last month on my own.  Still nothing has happened.  I know I'm o'ing so I'm not sure what my problem is.  They say it's not a problem until it's been a year...it's driving me crazy waiting.  I wish you the best of luck!  Try to be patient...I know it's hard.

[5lonely]

I was pregnant at age 16 n had a mis carriage I'm now 35 n still cannot get pregnant again. I went 2 some dr but nothing I'm worried