Remember most infertile couples will get pregnant!
Go to a fertility specialist!(not a regular ob)
Make sure to get fiancé to have 2 sperm analaysis too (make sure they test for motility and morphology not just count)
get your tubes checked, as well as have hormone levels drawn... Ect.
And try to focus on your relationship with your fiancé as much as possible. (
baby will need 2 parents that can hold on to each other and work together through all that lies ahead.
Good luck
It's worth seeing a fertility specialist in such a case. 2 years of ttc with no luck is enough for them to investigate the issues. Though every other case is different. I know my extra lbs also contribute to the obstacles. They tested my amh level and got it quite low. All the rest - unexplained. It would better to know what should we actually fight to achieve successful pregnancy..
what is your current status on pregnancy?i am trying to get pregnant but i dun no..i have some hormonal issues
I am so sorry to the both of you. However, don't worry about nothing. Keeping a calm mind and staying stress free is first. Second is eating right and drinking plenty of water, orange juice and milk. Eating fresh fruits and vegetables with plenty of protein in your diet. Iron pills is a plus with one aspirin everyday is great. Third is exercising with walking and yoga being at the top of this list. Asking your doctor to check for fibroids, blocked ovaries and to check hsg levels is highly recommend. Try meditation to keep you calm and in no time you should be pregnant. I wish you and your husband to be the very best and may God bless you always.
I am in the same boat hun. My husband and have been trying for 2 and half years. I am still waiting on my BFP and hoping to get it this month. I had test done as well. My husband has too and we both are fine. Have you gotten a hsg done to make sure your tubes are opened?? I really know how you feel though. I hate seeing those negatives all the time it's so depressing. I feel like giving up all the time. I'll be praying for you as well and hope you get you BFP soon. If you need to talk you can private message me.
i agree with Canes02 ask to see a fertility specialist and not just your OB.
Hey I am so sorry. I just I am in the same situation, but I am 37 now. And never never get pregnant. I have with my husband 6 year and no baby :( we when to tha infertility, doctor, pill. Try to eat good. Is nothing happened. But the only I can told you. I cry some time like a babie because I cant do this anymore. But I still have faith and God. Now I try to do again, see my ovulation day. :) because we need to have faith. Trust me dont lose you faith. Keep going. Be strong. I know exactly how you feel. This is 6 years ha been so bad for me and my husband. And a couple years we when to infertility and nothing the same we ok. The want me do do IvF, IUI, but we dont have tha money and I don't feel happy to do this too. Because I know God can do my babies. I will pray for you. Please keep going and have faith.
i tryed for 3 almost 4 years before getting my son! i didnt go in and talk to anyone but if you are that worried i would! nothing wrong with asking for answers
I am in the same position as you (2 and a half years of trying...when people ask my husband when we are going to have a baby he likes to say "we try everyday" haha), and I know how each month you try not to let yourself get too excited or attached to the idea that you are pregnant but inevitably you do... and then the disappointment is all the more extreme. Many of my friends have recently had babies or become pregnant (5 in fact) with two having a lot of trouble initially falling pregnant. My advice, though it will be difficult, is to drop the idea of pregnancy from the top of your list. Make a pact with yourself that you are not going to let the thought dominate your head (even just for a definate space of time, say three months), because pregnancy will happen when it happens and stressing and thinking about it will not benifit you, it may even be detrimental, as stress is not conducive to pregnancy. Of the two friends who had trouble getting pregnant, one was on her last round of IVF and had decided to stop after this round...and she thinks this "giving over to inevitabliliy" helped her get pregnant. The other friend is 40 years old and told me after years of stress and tests and heartbreak, she decided to stop trying and to stop having doctors appointments and blood tests every week, she thinks that by putting a stop to all the pressure on herself and her partner she was able to become pregnant without any medical assistance. So there you have it. Get all the tests that you think you need to get an idea on any medical problems you may have, but then let go a little and try to enjoy life with your partner without a child for a while, because as you probably can guess, although it will be amazing with a child, once you have one your life will never be the same again. Goodluck and best wishes, Susie.
luvbug9109,
am sorry you are going thru all that. My dear you and your fiance are still young. DOn't stress yourself and your partner. If you and your partner hav eno problems [you chk hormones such as FSH, LH, Testosterone..etc, ultrasound, tubes,and he made sperm analysis more than once]. then probably your problem is the stress. being "DESPERIAT" will affect your hormons. Enjoy your moment right now and one day soon you will find yourself pregnant.
Am much older than you, and I get stressed sometime because I say "Am getting OLDER", then I go back and say baby will neve come if am so stressed.
It seems things we want so bad, too hard to get.
Good luck my dear.
Yes, ask your Dr for the HSG test. Good Luck
I'm so sorry you have been going through this, i know its hard and hurts so bad. Have the doc checked your tubes to make sure they are not blocked? dont give up and dont lose faith, we are all here for you.