Bad news m/c

[SWEETPEA1975]

Just got back from the clinic 1 hour ago and they did not find a heartbeat or a fetal pole
They say the baby stopped growing at 5 weeks and that if I do not miscarry it by Wednesday then I need to call the office to make an appointment for a D&C I am totally devasted
I thought all I ever hoped for was finally here instead now I am left with nothing
Anyway I guess I will just have to see what my body decides to do I rather not have to go through with the D&C emotionally I do not think I would be able to handle it

[rita02]

i am very sorry you are going through this...hang in there sweetie. i know your pain and only time and going through the grieving process will help. know that you are in my prayers....God Bless!!

[projectbaby]

I am sorry to hear about your loss.  I know it completely  S U C K S
I know you need time alone and to grieve but to have friends and family there to help you, may be what you need.  Please take care and YOU WILL get through this.
You are in my prayers.....  Jacquie

[amyls2002]

im so sorry to hear that.my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[Nickey1]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.  As everyone else has said, there's nothing that I or anyone can say to ease your mind, BUT I would suggest to try NOT being alone too much.  My heart goes out to you, and may God help you get through this rough time in your life

[boosty]

oh, that is terrible and sad. i am so speechless. i swear to God, i have tears in my eyes as i was reading your horrible news. i am sorry that you went through this. we were all wishing the best for you and following your great news but unfortunately, it didnt work out. be strong. i know its not easy. your time will come sweetie. i hope you recover quick. and i will be praying for you .
vista

[SWEETPEA1975]

Thank you all for your kind words
You are right though there really is nothing anyone can do or say to make me feel better - I guess I just have to go through the natural cycle of healing whatever that is
I have actually opted to be alone tonight - I insisted that hubby go to work (he works nights this week) and told my sisters and brther to stay away
I am starting to regret it though - I have never felt soooo lonely

[sunshinecyk]

So sorry for your loss.  I know that there is nothing that can be said to ease your pain and all of the best wishes and from everyone does not bring your baby back.  Please just know that people are thinking of you, feel for you and have been in your position.  They know the pain and although everyone deals with it differently, others DO know what you are going through.  I wish you the best in the future and know that you will be in my thoughts.

[mslkpage]

I'm so sorry!

[tina1111]

I am so sorry. I wish I had some magic words to make you feel better and ease your pain. But no one does. I went thru this in Jan and am trying again. I guess that's all any of us can do.

[ZevasMom]

I am soooo sorry to hear this news.  I too know what you are going through and it is devastating!  To be so excited and then to hear this.  Cry, sob, be angry... let it all out... Remember, we are all here for you :o)

[babyadrian]

OMG so sorry you have to go through of this. i know how you feel, i've been through the same situation last year..its so painful!!! just dont hold your self from crying, scream if u want to. my bestfriend was with me on the whole ordeal, of course DH is a great help too..

this is something that you don't wish anybody to deal with even to your enemy..it hurts to hear that you are going though of this..be brave and i pray that GOD will help you to overcome the pain..

((((HUGS))))

[msniki412]

Ohhh....I am sooo very sorry that you have to go through this. Prayers for you during this tough time...

~Niki~

[Lucia07]

I'm very sorry to hear about this.  I have been on this website 2 weeks only and I'm addicted to it.  As most of the women in this forum, I'm ttc and it's been very frustrating for me and my husband.  My heart goes out to you.  The good thing is that you can keep on trying again and it'll come to you.

[phxskymom]

Sweetpea , I am so sorry for  your loss. I know exactly what your going thru as it happened to me just this January. There is nothing you could have done and nothing anyone can do now except be there if you need to talk, and we are all here any time you need us. I hope that your sadness will soon be replaced with peace. Time really does heal.
Tami

[babysomeday]

I am very sorry :( BIG HUGS to you.....my prayers are with you...

[YvetteY]

I know there are no words that can make you feel better.  I can only empathize with you.   I know how awful you feel.  Today I'm having my 3rd.   I didn't make it very far this time, so I didn't have the time to get attached and I was pretty guarded with my emotions.  

TTC is bullsh**!!!!!   THere are so many highs and lows.   I'm sorry you are suffering with this, you were so far.   You're not a loser.  God Bless!!

[dardamico]

I am so sorry!  I know what you're going through since it happened to me last summer.  You have always been in my thoughts and still will.  I understand how you want to be alone right now.  I know how badly you wanted this.  

[Tanker Chic]

I'm so sorry.  My heart goes out to you.  You are going to have to go through the greif, but hopefully you will be able to come out of it with new hope.  Just keep believing it will happen.  Not today, but it will.  

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

I know what she mean I hated when people told me God has a reason for it.  That's why I wouldn't tell anyone that.  I just hope God will ease your pain.

[mami2karina]

I'm so sorry.  I don't even know what to say.  I thought everything was going okay with your pregnancy.  And I did keep you in my thoughts because of the worries you had.  I've never had to have a D&C so I'm not sure what you'll have to go through if you have to have it.  But I am so very sorry that you are having to go through this.  I know how bad you wanted this baby.  I'll keep you in my prayers.
Brittany

[baboojamaica]

Oh my gosh, darling I am so so sorry.  I have been reading your posts for a while and was so happy for you.  God is watching over you; I will pray for you every night.

[jess4me]

i know how u feel went through it last year. It was devasting i was angry everytime someone says god knows best or its gods way. My response to them was if you been ttc as long as we have u'll be devasted too. Everyone deals with grief differently. If u wanna cry go ahead and do that. Don't let it bottled up let it out because trust me i let my bottled up and had a severe anxiety attack that cause seizure type activity. So know one knows what you go through when u here there's no fetal pole or there's a sac and no baby. That is very devasting. Only u know how u feel no one can tell you there be other times. Trust me a had to curse a few people out becuse of their stupid comments like that.

[Brown Eyed Gurl]

Oh sweety I'm so sorry I know how bad this hurts.  I hate that anyone has to go through such pain.  I will pray that God will take away some of your pain.  If you need anyone to talk to I'm a good listener.

Brandi