Depressed

[Teec106]

I've been feeling really sad about ttc. I feel like, even tho I've only been trying for 4 mos, like actively trying, that it'll NEVER happen. I feel a small cramp and I get my hopes up to the sky that I'm pregnant which is so ridiculous. I can't be too upset, I have a 5 year old that I had at 21.  I got pregnant also at 19, turning 20 but miscarried. So basically within a year I got pregnant twice not even trying!! Now it's all I want and it seems so far away, so impossible I just wish and pray that I could be pregnant. I imagine myself finding out and telling my husband and it depresses me even more. I feel like I won't ever get that again. I'm just emotionally tired of feeling this way. Advice?

[Norli85]

Try to calm yourself. I have been trying for the last 3 years with no luck and 3 miscarriages. Knowing that you had conceived successfully before should give you lots of hope. It can be absolutely depressing but never lose hope. Be happy and relax. Just pray for the best. Good luck to you!

[rmmoye]

just enjoy trying and know that u can and will get pregnant.  

I have been trying for 5.5 years. still no luck. Just praying i get blessed soon.

Knowing that u have already gotten pregnant with out trying should give u comfort... also  the average is 1 year.