period two weeks and counting

[mrsrobinson717]

My husband and I have been TTC for almost a year now.  Two weeks ago I thought for sure we were finally pregnant.  I was feeling fatigued, very sore breasts, feeling nauseous, and my period was late!  Before I got a chance to take a pregnancy test I started my period.  For the first four days the blood was dark (almost black) and large clots along with pretty bad cramping.  Two weeks later I am still bleeding (now it's more normal; red but still with clots).  But it's been two weeks and pretty heavy.  I haven't had the time to go to the doctor but have been reading on the internet....is it possible I am having/had a miscarriage?

[Kiwi1nabamome]

            I am so sorry to hear this as well...im no DR. so i cant diagnose anything, i can just tell from experience. Last May i actually  got preggors and had no idea i was just in the gyno, and told her i havent had my AF in a month and she was like hey take a test, i did. My now DH, not at the time though, was waiting in the waiting room, and she said hey your pregnant... I was so happy... i felt a bad vibe from my now DH and a week later I was bleeding and didnt even understand.

          It was my first time getting pregnant. I was bleeding lightly. But then i started feeling crampy, and it got heavy! I went to the hospital, and they said you had a chemical pregnancy, let it bleed out and it'll go away. Go ahead and TTC again, and it hurted but not to much... i lost it, while i was losing it i think he felt a guilt and really wanted it... so we said we'll try again... We TTC for june, july , august, (we married aug) and then sept cycle came and i got pregnant. oct, nov,dec, was pregnant, and then i started spotting at 12weeks it turned to medium blood,lost all my symptoms and i knew, and same day i had my schduled US, they told me that i was haing a missed m/c. I was devistated!!!! i grew to love the fetus, and it was just ripped away, plus my sister was preggors.

          I had my DnC the same day, because i knew the obgyn very well and he wanted to help me out asap, instead of make me wait 2 weeks.I bled for a week after and it stopped they said no sex but i couldnt help it. They also told me if anymore blood come out after 2 weeks, come back they would have to remove more tissue.  My DH and i decided to TTC again immediately, and i had jan, nothing but i wasnt expecting it to, because i wasnt really in the BDing mood. Feb i dont think  i ovulated, because AF came a week late. It was a regular AF, it came mar8th. and then nothing for march april.

           I felt like i'll take action and brought the Baby Aspirin, and bought the Preseed. Always take my Prenatals...so this month might be the month, plus now that i look back it always kinda took 3 to 4 months for me to concieve so maybe this is it!!! I feel for you and hope for you to go to the drs. make sure nothing is left behind (it shouldnt since it was so early in) but better safe then sorry, never no if theirs any underlining situations that needs to be worked out... Good luck Mami!! Im hear for you...

[vmvnpv]

I'm sorry you're going through this.  It's got to be pretty terrifying.  I've never had a m/c but I guess it's possible you're having one(?).  Everyone's m/c is different.  But you need to get to the doctor asap to find out exactly what is going on.