My heart is broken and I feel just numb. ..I don’t know if I am jumping the gun.

[HopeandFaith39]

My heart is broken and I feel just numb. ..I don’t know if I am jumping the gun.
We had or retrieval of 3 eggs 10/28 our 3 day transfer on 11/1 of one good embryo.
The following days I experienced symptoms of cramping, sore breast and nausea and even vomited one day. I still have the soreness.
I broke down and took a HPT on 11/4 a very light positive was displayed. I realized this could be from the HGC shot on 10/26.
This morning I took another test and it was totally negative.
Do you think there is any hope for us?
We just can’t afford to do this again. Please help me with some advice.

[usuk]

Oh honey. I think you tested too soon. I never had IVF but it's been only 4/5 days that they have been in your body. GIve it some time. None of those symptoms were from PG they were from the meds, the procedure, etc. Good luck.

[babyprayers]

tech. your only 8 DPO 3 days post for the 3 day embie, then another 5 past transfer.. too early

[LilyMF]

Test again on or around Nov. 12.  At least you know the trigger shot is out of your system, so if you get any positives they wont be false.

Good luck and keep your hopes up.

[Mariana101]

you tested TOO early. Don't buy HPT they are EVIL!!!!! wait for your blood test.

[Kathy421]

You tested way too early.

You should wait 10 days until after your transfer.  I had my transfer on Oct 3rd.  Tested on Oct 14th (first beta was 100 (and later found out I had twins)).  I did a home pregnancy test on Oct 12 and it was barely positive (I almost cried when it wasn't turning colors - and all for nothing).

It is soooo difficult to be patient - but this is the best thing for you and the baby.

Good luck!

[HopeandFaith39]

Thank you, for all your feed back I am trying to be patient and positive but it is so hard. I go in for my blood work on Monday.