Passed product of conception, now what?

[scaredincanada]

It is me again, with yet another update. When I went to the bathroom last night, I noticed some sort of tissue on my pad. After closer examination (who isn't curious in a sense when something comes out, or is it just me?) it resembled a beansprout, ET thing. I took it in to my ER where the lab sent it off to pathology for testing, but the on call Dr. pretty much confirmed what I thought it was. Yup, whatever was in my left tube, has been expelled, and I passed a 6 to 8 week old "product of conception" (fetus?). So it looks like right now that my left tube is clear and open, or will soon be. So now I just sit and wait. I am relieved that it is over now, and that I will not be going in for surgery as Dr. figured I would be on the 12th. I am still in shock or traumatised by what I seen and that image will be burnt into my mind for an unknown period of time. Take care, and hopefully, just hopefully, this is sign for more positive things to happen. God listened to all your prayers for me, as mine as well, as a miracle has just happened. Thank you. To all the women on here, I couldn't have gotten thru this without you.

[rita02]

i'm soo sorry for your loss. and yes God does answer prayer. keep your hopes up!

[scaredincanada]

It just seems like my day went from bad to extreme nightmare. My employers have been rather understanding and supportive thru this ordeal. My darling b/f (I would call him fiance, but at this time, do not feel comfortable wearing his ring) has been somewhat there, but tonight, after he consumed a grand portion of cold Canadian lager, informed me that he has no sympathy for me or what I am going thru, that this loss and my previous miscarriage is just karma working its way due to past bad judgement. (To give you an idea, we were apart due to some personal reasons 2 and a half years ago, found out I was pregnant, and induced a miscarriage). That incident happened over two years ago, and to this day, I still think of and feel that loss that I was responsible for. Maybe he is right, that I do not deserve the treatment that I have received as of late.  Our arguement started over him misplacing a pack of cigarettes, and escalated to very hurtful words. Is he right? I am so sorry :,(

[Pippsquike]

Of course you don't deserve this! and what a mean thing for him to say.... Hopefully it was just a "heat of the moment" thing and he will apologize. but i am sorry none the less.

now that it has been expelled on it's own....does that mean no surgery? that atleast is good news.... isn't it? it saves the tube for later right? gosh I'm full of questions. :) sorry.

Just hope it's some closure for you...
and you will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[scaredincanada]

Hey PIPPS, it is good that it expelled now. My tube should be clearing up of whatever else was built up behind it, and to be quite honest, it is not the greatest feeling in the world. As of right now, they figure that I may not need surgery, but a descision will be made on the 11th when I go in for my ultrasound.

This may sound morbid, and I do not intend on offending anyone, but today I guess you could say I held my baby. I am sooooo emotional right now, with everything that has happened throughout this past month and so, and then hearing him say that! I may be sounding irrational, but if and when he apologizes for his words, I do not think that I can forgive him, nor look at him the same. I understand that people say things when under the influence of drugs or alcohol, but something to that extent is like somebody saying that they cheated on their loved one because the were drunk and din't know what they were doing. With everything that him and I have been going thru, and believe me when I say that it wasn't perfect in the beginning, something like this or the last one, doesn't it bring people closer, or is that too someone led me to believe. My heart has been dropped, kicked, shattered, swept up and put thru an incinerater with the remains being disgaurded forever. I do not want a child with him anymore. Thing happen for a reason, is this why this one ended up this way? -*Shrug*-

[mommie12345]

22 years ago I and a four pound son at only seven months. Well two days after the birth of my son I went home and got very ill. I remember the pains being as though I was in labor again.  I was race back to the hospital There was a room full of people working on me like mad, then it goes black. I woke up a day or two later and I felt empty I didn't feel empty after the birth of my son. When I asked what went wrong I was told that I passed product of conception, and I would be fine just focus on my son. Well months later I saw a different MD and he questioned them. He asked me how did I have a baby one day and go a full term in one day and give birth on the third day.  My question is,"Is possible that I had twins." I was young,army wife who did know much about anything.