baby blues

[reda1111]

Hi Im a 31 year old woman and i have been married for 15 years. My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for so many years. Well I saw a differnet doctor a month ago and I had to have a DNC done. He also put some dye in me to check my tubes. I had scar tissue he removed and my tubes are open. He gave me clomiphene, and dexamethasone.  I take them on days 5 thorough 9. Now my question is when im i suppose to sleep with my husband. My husband is a professional boxer and has to limit play time in the room. He never has energy to sleep with me is always not in the mood due to working out 8 hrs a day. I feel so horny all the time. I got that sticky clear discharge today so Im ovulating right now. What should I do? I told him this and he has a huge fight this Saturday. When should we sleep with each other, it can only be done once this week if im lucky. PLEASE HELP!

[texasangel343]

If you are ovulating - you have cm - you should be having sex today and tomorrow...and well, yesterday.  

I think you both need to be on the same page - what is going to happen when you do get pregnant and have a baby??  

You can't make one without him - unless you do an IUI...

If it is causing a fight, it might be time to take a break, step back and look at the situation again.  

Hope this is what you were looking for.

[ArmyPrincess819]

I agree with Texasangel. You do both need to be on the same page. TTC is sometimes a hard enough process without adding any pressure from the marriage. I would try to bd tonight and tomorrow. If you can't this cycle I would try to put a plan together for the next one. I'm really sorry you are going through this. Best wishes to you I will be thinking about you. I hope it all works out for you.....

AP