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hi ladies, this is my firstFirst progesterone mc10 First progesterone mc5 First-progesterone vgs 100 First-progesterone vgs 200 First-progesterone vgs 25 First-progesterone vgs 400 First-progesterone vgs 50 First-testosterone First-testosterone mc day on this site and i could help but join and i feel relaxed(just a lil bit) that there are people out there who share the pain i have. Those who get pregnant without complications never know the world like the one we live in does exsits. A world where we spend thousands of dollars, max out credit cards, pain, crazy emotions, endless prayers just to know what it feels to be called mommy. Well enough of that, i am 25years old. been married for 3 years and have been ttc for 2 and a half years. i was diagnosed with pcos and one blockedBlocked tear duct fallopian tube. i have done ivf twiceTwice-a-day and got a bfn on both. We then decided to do iui and today is my 6th day post iui and the 2ww is killing me. I want to test today as we speak but i am soo scared. I have cramping occasionally and my nipples are sore so is that good or it doesn't mean a thing? please ladies tell me something.
TThe sympoms can be from progestrone if you are on that or evnt tthe "trigger shot" if you took that it can sttay in your system anywhere from 5 to 10 days depending on the dosage....So its early...I m 2dpiui and will test on 1/6 good luck and baby dust to you keep us posted!
thanks soo much. I got carried away and forgot about the meds. I was hoping they were signs of a preg. i test on 01/02/08. what a way to start the new year right? well i'll keep all of you in my prayers and hope you test is pos on the 6th. Merry Christmas
Welcome aboard!!!!
It is so true about some people not knowing about the world we exist in...It can br really trying but faith in God and supportSupport Support 500 from groups like this help to make the ordeal that much more bearable :-)
I am 7dpiui and have littleLittle noses decongestant Little tummys symptoms as well...The sore boobs can be from the trigger shot as that makes your body feel pregnant. The progesterone may have something to do with it as well. I know it is hard, the 2ww, but try and stay occupied so that the time can pass by smoothly...I know, I know, easier said than done :-)
oh you are soo close. I hope you get a BIG POSITIVE in a few days, that way you can start off the new year in a perfect way. I will try to keep myself occupied like you said and wait for my test date. Merry christmas to you all.
I just don’t feel like going to any of the family dinners. I am marred for almost 6 years… everyone gives us the same advise..( we should have a baby) as if we don’t know that….this is my second IUI and in last cycle I took 13 indictable + Hcg. This cycle I had to do the same thing….. I just don’t know what else to do….
Ok, I am being a little too ungrateful. We have our health, parents and siblings by our side. God has been kind to us. No complains…… when it is the right time god will give us the gift.
I am so glad that all of u r here. This is a wonderful forum. All of u give me the courage to go on….
I can feel your pain. My biggest pet peeve is when my friends who don't know what i'm going through ask me "what are you waiting for". My immediate family and my hb's are the only ones that know what i have going on. Where i come from its kind of a taboo for people to hear that i can't get pregnant on my own. Yes i know civilization still needs to hit that part of the world. Ok well not like that. I just don't want anyone to know because some will talk, some have empathy, and some will make fun of it. Go have fun with your family and it will all be ok soon.
Good morning I hope everyone had a great Christmas! We are up and ready to tackle the malls :) I am now 4dpiui and feeling fine just sensative nips and nothing else at this point it seems as if the last 4 days went fast and Im hoping the next 10 will to :) Just wanted tocheck in...God Bless! :)
Just got my AF this morning. I am actually ok. I kind of knew it was coming all week. But I am not as upset this month as I have been previous months. I head to the doctor on Monday for my blood work and we are starting injections for the first time. I will keep you posted on how that goes. I know in my heart a baby will come it is just a matter of when that will be. So I am trying to stay positive and we will see what 2009 brings. I just have to keep telling myself God has a plan for me and when it is meant to be it will be. So we will see! Hope you all had a wonderful holiday! And we all just have to look forward to what is to come for all of us. I just know we will get BFP in 2009.
I am 7dpiui and the nipples are not as sore as they were so i'm more worried now. My case is different because i am not expecting my AF like others. With my PCOS, i don't have regular periods. dimps1978, i admire your positive thinking and will learn from it. Everyone on this site keeps me from not going insane and i am greatful for everyone of you and your words of encouragement. Time to shop and i'm off to the mall.
dimps sorry to hear that af cam even though you were prepared and you are right God has his plans we are just trying to hurry them (lol) keep us posted !
missy: try and stay positive in 06 with my first pg I did not get bfp til 6 days after af was due and i took a hpt the night before i went in for b/w!!! and that was the ONLY sign I had was a late cycle! God Bless I just returned from the mall! :)
I am new to this site and glad to have come across a wonderful forum with such caring women. Here's my story. I am 35 and my hubby is 36. We've been trying to conceive for 16 months. We had 4 failed IUI's - 2 with clomid and 2 with injectibles. We've been diagnosed with "unexplained infertility." My hubby has very good count/motility and I have no issues. Anyhow, we are starting our first IVF journey in January. I am currently on BC and have my ER tentativley scheduled for Jan. 23rd. I've done a lot of research but still quite nervous and overwhelmed about the whole process. I am going to try and stay positive but if anyone has any type of information, like what to expect etc, etc. it would be greatly appreciated!! Thank you and baby dust in 2009 to everyone!!
Welcome this is a great supportive forum. I cant help with ivf info (I wish we could afford to go that route) we are currently doing our 4th iui and will be testing on 1/6....Good luck baby dust to you
ok i am a total wreck right now. I am 8dpiui and i tested today and got a Neg. I am soo worried. Could that change by day 14? i nervousness just tripled. prayongforbaby888
welcome to this forum. Like you said it is an amazing site so welcome onboard and enjoy.
I wouldn't worry yet. From everything I've been told, there is no way that you would be able to find out after only 8dpiui. Implantation would probably occur sometime around this time (or even later) and it's implantation that starts the whole string of hormones that eventually causes a positive pregnancy test. I took a test 14dpiui (on Christmas Eve) and got a BFN...pretty sure that's a solid time to test, but I still haven't gotten AF yet so I'm still hoping!
Has anyone ever done clomid, injectables and ovulated (I know I did b/c my progesterone was 52) and not gotten AF? I'm not sure what to make of this all....I'm currently 17dpiui. I may test again tomorrow but I just hate seeing BFN!!
all of those are positive signs but because we are on so many meds its hard to tell! I think you should retest in 7days if no af and you may have to do b/w .... in 06 i had a hpt 5 days after af was due and bfn...went to re's office 12 hours later and had bfp with b/w and hcg was 533!
I just wanted to say that I am new here and 3dpiui(beta 1/8/09), just searching for people who like me, are desperate to make the 2ww faster. I wish all of you the best of luck and I know 2009 will be our year!! I also want to say that for those of you who test early, keep the faith. I tested at 12dpiui and got a BFN. 2 days later I went for my beta and lo and behold BFP. I didn't believe it. At all. So I POAS and that came back negative too. So those sticks don't always know everything!! I ended up m/c at 8 weeks but I think if you can get your doctor to do a beta 14dpiui or so it's the best thing. Although I'm not kidding myself or anyone else here and I know we'll all POAS before the beta anyway!! This cycle I'm finding it easier to be relaxed because we've already got the backup plan in place. It's onto injectables if no BFP for us.
I am so glad to have found this site with others in the same boat, going through the same thing at the same time. I am 4dpiui and test on 1/7/09. Just realized, too, that the progesterone is probably causing the tatas to be sore. But I also constantly have a "pulling" feeling in my lower abdomen which I have felt since the IUI...but it could be all the food I've eaten over the holidays...
This my 1st posting and I have the same feelings as well. My husband has a low sperm count and my Levels are way too high so the dr. told me in the middle of my 1st IUI, that will be the 1st and last time we do the IUI and we are going IVF next month and I have a consult next week. I am 8days after my IUI and I am still holding on to the chance that this might have worked...but the dr. is not that optimistic. I am 34 and my husband and I are trying to be positive. I did menopur, 5 viles a day injections. Like the ladies above I think that my symptoms might be because of the drugs.
I am 12dp IUI and I don’t have any symptoms? one in a while I have AF like crams, it lasts for 10/15 seconds and that’s about it? I am taking progesterone but my BB’s don’t hart …. Does this mean my IUI didn’t work…. I am just toooo afraid to take a hpt. I don’t want to see a BFN. My beta is on 1/3/09. did any one get a BFP without any symptoms?
prayers: Welcome and we are on the same cycle...I test on 1/6 which is dh's bday so good luck baby dust and sticky vibes!
B74: Welcome...Good luck to you and keep us posted!
babyday: welcome if you google pregnancy with no symptoms there are 100's of women that have no symptoms at all but a late af is the clue! Good luck baby dust and sticky vibes to you tooo!
I am 6dpiui and I have been hot flashing, heartburn, and little twinges here and there...no sore boobs, oh and I have been a little more tired, peeing lots, and eating more nausea I know that does'nt come until implantation but I know sometimes you can implant earlier than 10 days......I hope this means something but with me these are the same symptoms that I get with pms but I am holding on to faith and saying when I get bfp on 1/6 instead of if I get...Just updating :) Baby dust and stick vibes!
Hello everyone. To all that are still in the 2ww, hang in there. If you feel some sharp pains going on down there, don't worry about it, it might be a good thing cause thats what happened to me. I admire the positive energy, it makes me feel so warm inside to see that alot of women care about each other. 2009 has alot in store for us, like I said its again the year of the baby. so god bless everyone and keep your head up.
Good morning ladies. today i'm 9dpiui and i just woke up with abdominal cramps. I don't know what to think about that. Maybe i ate the wrong food, i don't know guys.
Hey girls - after a BFN on Christmas Eve morning, I took another HPT this morning b/c still no AF. It was BFP!!!! I guess 14dpiui was a little early for me to take the test. I'm extremely sore right now (have had cramping on and off for over a week) but I'm pretty sure that's due to overstimulated ovaries. I go for bloodwork tomorrow and can't wait. Good luck to all in the 2WW....it was long and I analyzed everything. In the end, it was the absent AF that was the most positive sign!
To Missyzane08....I also had cramping around day 9piui and on and off ever since. I assuming it all has to do with implantation.
YEEEEAAAAHHHHH!!!! I told you to keep the faith! Congrats to you and sticky vibes!!! You were symptomless???? Keep me posted I wish you sky high beta numbers! God is soooooooo good!!! :)
OMG CONGRATS. what dpiui did you test? i am even scared to test on the 2nd which will be my 14dpiui. I am soo happy for you. Well now that doesn't mean you won't check the post board right? you got to keep us posted. Take care and best of luck to you.
Okay today is 7dpiui and I woke up this am with very minimal cramping and twinges on both sides?? Not sure if thats something or if its the oreos and milk I ate at midnight...lol...I am waiting on the re's office to call with the results of my progestrone...Im sure i o'd because of all of the hot flashing...baby dust and stick vibes :) I will postafter they call with the numbers...
That is terrific! Congrats! Please keep us posted on your blood tests this week.
ALL:
Well I went to the RE this morning for my bw & us. I am starting 150 of Follistium tonight. Then I go back in on Wednesday for a check up on it. Anyone else take this drug? Any side effects I should know about?
Re's office called and progestrone is 58.3 so we are just playing the waiting game now :) Good luck to everyone...sticky vibes, baby dust, and everything crossed for all of us!!!!!
Hello every one I am on day 14dpiui. I am supposed to do preg test on the 12-31-08. I'm afraide. because very time I wipped I see trace of blood, I feel the mini cramps I My brest are sore and time to time I feel nausiated. But that is also myperiod sympthoms. I did my progestrom level test 12-19-08 and it was 14 so I don't know if its good news I'm going to be a mother this year or bad news starting over. either way I asked for little prayer. this is a lot to deal with and sometimes famiy and friends just don't understand.
It's been a while since I've posted. I took a couple of months off. I was having a hard time with all those crazy meds. I felt it was only a matter of time before one of my loved ones would haul off and slap me. I just had my 2nd iui on 12/26. Today is 3 dpiui. This time my RE added 150 u. of Bravelle to the 150 u. of Menopur I took the last time. Took the injections for 7 nights. Now I'm in the 2 week anxiety driving wait!
It's amazing how many people are posting and in the 2ww. It is truly such a comfort to know that there are many of us facing the same obstacles.
Bfromthed: I periodically check in and have followed your posts. I am praying for you.
didi: Welcome and good luck to you...is this your first iui? You are in my prayers
natty: I was wondering what happened to you...welcome back in the dreaded 2ww...thanks for the prayers
All: I was just curious about some things and called re's office...I asked could high progestrone levels make you tired and they said yes so thats why they dont really count on that for a preggo symptom...I know im only 7dpiui and that is the only symptom besides these minimal cramps that I had this a m for about 2 minutes...I have been having butterflies like tickling all day but they are all through my tummy...I don't know what to make of all of this I am just praying and hoping that this worked this time!
I test on 1/7. I have a question...I am taking the 50 progesterone each night, but have not had a test done. I had my iui on Christmas Eve (Wednesday) and do not go back unitl 1/7 for blookwork...also, no symptoms except BBs VERY sore from progesterone...well, except a twinge here and there, kinda, I guess...does willing it to happen make it so? I think most of it is in my head :(
Hey girls - had my beta today and it was 933. She said I'm roughly 4 weeks, 5 days so they were happy with that number. A few of you asked about whether or not I had any pregnancy symptoms...I did have some cramping that started around 8dpiui and sort of continued all the way until now. I also have a bitter taste in my mouth which started right around 15dpiui....sounds very strange, but I had the same symptom the entire time I was pregnant with my son. Other than that, I've just been extremely sore and very bloated from the stimulation of my ovaries. Usually this should clear up about a week or so after being off meds, but I guess the ovaries actually get more aggravated if pregnancy occurs so that was another hint for me around 17dpiui. I go back to the dr. Wednesday for more bw. Good luck to all!!
I hear you guys talking about your progesterone numbers. i am doing the vaginal one. Is anyone doing that or just me? My dr. didn't ask me to come back for any blood work. She told me to do the hpt 14dpiui, if post call for bw, if neg i can either call to start another cycle or not call if i'm not yet ready.
Prayers: I am not on any progestrone and I have no symptoms (7dpiui) just sensative (no sore) bbs that can be from ovidril so I amm jus patiently waitng...I will keep you posted...good luck :)
jll0802: Great numbers mommy!!! Keep me posted...I don't have sore bbs just sensative nips...so I will post if anything develops:) Stick vibes....and don't become a stranger we need the encouragement!
I am also doing the lovely suppositories :). I was not told to take a hpt. I go for bw on 14dpiui, if pos then go back 16 dpiui to hopefully see numbers go up 60%. Example I was given, if 1st bw shows 500, then 2nd should show 1000-1100 to be good news...
Unfortunately, I am now contradicting myself and when I o'd...my OPK never came back positive at home, but now thinking back, I think I did on Saturday 12/20 because I remember having some "signs" but when I took the test, it didn't show positive for o. Which would have been 3 days early!! I normally do on day 11. That would have only been day 8! I also took the trigger shot on Monday 12/22 and had iui on Wed 12/24...now I'm totally thinking that I missed the mark!!! Can anyone give me any positive feedback on my freaking out a bit???
I too did iui and go for my bloodwork on Jan 2nd. I am really nervous and want it to work. I've had SUPER sore breasts from 3dpiui, been sleeping more and increased appetite. I have been bloated since 3dpiui and have veins on the side of my belly, upper thighs and breasts.
I've been placed on progestrone suppositories and estrace - so I don't know if the symptoms are 'fake'.
I really hope everyone in here gets a BFP!
To EVERYONE:
What are some of the symptoms you guys are feeling?
You are about a week behind me. I wish they would tell me what my beta count is. The military only tells you things if something is wrong, so I guess since they didn't say anything then nothing is wrong and the numbers are ok. Good luck!
Welcome this is a very supportive forum! Progestrone can make you tired if the numbers are high and can also cause you to have pg symptoms this is why we call it the dreaded 2ww...if you took a "trigger shot" also it can stay in your system 7-10 days after you take it dependant on how many units you injected...I will be testing on 1/6 and right now unfortunately I am 8dpiui CD24 and having hot flashes, some cold spells, and no sore bbs just tender nips...but those are also pms signs for me so I will just have to wait it out...in 06 when we did get pg my bbs were so sore the shower water would hurt them so I don't know I just have to leave it in Gods hands...good luck and keep us posted...baby dust to you!
Hi everyone. Today I am 13dp IUI . I took a hpt this morning and got a very faint positive line…. But I am having AF like cramps. This cramps are lasting for 10 to 15 sec… I am very confused?
My beta is on the 1/3/09. I will be very very disappointed if I find out that actually it’s a BFN. Please tell me is it normal to get AF like crams and still be pregnant?
Another thing is I don’t have any major symptoms. My BB’s r fine. I am just a little nauseous, and tired….
Thank you - its so good to have some support from women who are also going through the same struggle.
B, my iui was 12 days ago (I hada double). I test on Friday and am really nervous. My bbs hurt, especially on the sides and the middle.
Late last night I had cramps for approximately 10 - 15 secs - but they didn't seem like AF cramps. I am on 100mg of progestrone suppos. twice a day.
I am getting so tempted to just go to a walk in clinic and ask them to do a blood test! They normally give the results the next day! Friday seems really far away.
I am already feeling depressed.
Babyday: That is GREAT! You should take another one tomm - it may get darker!!!
Congratulations to everyone that got their BFP this month. I think I am in the dreaded 2WW. I promised myself this month I would stay off this website (that didn't work), I promised that I would chart my temps and I didn't even use OPK's this month. I just hope that as many times as we bd'ed that it worked I got AF on 12/11 and I would say for the last 2-3 days my bbs are KILLING and am so nauseous pretty much all day long. I so hope that I get my BFP -- we have been working at this for 3 years and 2 miscarriages later.
i can smell baby dust in the air for you. Like spoc said it will get darker. take in a deep breath and do it again. Best of luck to you and keep us posted.
Congratulations! You must be so excited. I sure hope that day comes for me soon. We did first IUI in December and it didn't work. So we're trying on our own before we try again. This is our thirteenth month trying to conceive. We did HSG in Oct. and tubes were open. Husband has high count but abnormal consistency and Dr. has him taking Mucinex.
To all: I hope we all have double pink lines in 2009!
Hope all is well. We are all in this together and it is good to have people to feel, share and understand the struggles of infertility.
With that said, I did my bloodwork and u/s this morning and RE's office called me to let me know the results. They are unfortunately a BFN. Suprisingly, I am ok. Still have not told my DH yet but it is what it is.
I hope those remaining in the cycle get their BFPs and those that did already, MUCH CONGRATS to you and your family.
Two more days until the new year so let's start off on a positive note :-)
Meeting with the RE on Tuesday to discuss the next step...Will keep you posted.
babyday....we are going to claim this mommy!!!! Take one the first thing in the morning and see if its darker!!!!! Baby Dust and Sticky Vibes...I will be watching for your post! :)
spoc: all of that sounds like implantation things so keep the faith...that is allllll positive signs...stay focused and dont become pee stick addicted...lol God Bless!
All: I took a hpt today just to see if it would be neg to see if the trigger shot was out of my system and it was I know its too ealy to look for bfp because I am on cd 24 and only 8dpiui so I am just waiting my time out and still symptomless today but still faithful and hopeful...
Thank u sooo much for ur support. I didn’t take a test today. I will wait till 3rd because I don’t think I can take a BFN. I had 2 miscarriages before and the cramps that I am getting r a little strange (they r quite instance).
Do pray for me… I will keep u posted.
A happy new year to all…
Lots and lots of baby dust…
baby: I truly understand your concerns..best of luck to you and Happy New Year...keep me posted :) God Bless!
All: cd25 and 9dpiui I woke up this a m with a temp of 98.1 which is only up .1 from yetsreday but I do have mild cramping that comes and goes and mild lower back pain...I have to work today and tomorrow but I am wishing everyone a blessed, safe, prosporus, and baby filled 2009!!!!
I am in tears as I write this - I got a bfn this morning - its been 13dpiui. I went bed to bed and cried.
I kept staring at the stick to see if another line would come up - but it didn't.
Its so hard to keep going. I have no signs of my period. I've called my fertility clinic and asked them to test me tom instead of Jan 2nd.
I can't even stop crying.
I really pray that all you women get a bfp - we would all make great mothers.
Don't count yourself out yet!! I tested at 12dpiui and it was BFN, went for my beta at the fertility clinic and was sure it was going to be BFN. Got the call that afternoon and it was BFP. Immediately went to POAS and it still came back negative. So keep the faith!! A BFP could still be waiting for you!!
EVERYONE-
I hope all of you in the 2ww are able to find a few moments of anxiety-free living during these stressful days!! I had cramps 3-6dpiui. My bbs are a little sensitive, but I'm taking 2 100mg progesterone suppositories so it's probably a side-effect. Although last month I didn't feel nearly this tired and sensitive. Keeping my fingers crossed that this is all of our months!! Hang in there...our wait is almost over. To those who've been blessed with BFP's for their New Year, CONGRATS!! You will all make wonderful mother's!! To those who got BFN's, stay strong, the New Year will bless us all with beautiful healthy babies!!
Remember, amongst eveyrthing else, we are a few hours away from witnessing a NEW YEAR. That in itself is truly a blessing. I know this infertitlity business seems to get the best of us. Just know that we are not alone in this ordeal. We will all be blessed with our miracles one BFP at a time. :-)
Here's to hoping you all have a wonderful New Year.
Spoc: I know that it is hard I am doing my 4th iui now and have no signs and I am now 9dpiui but we have to have faith and turn to God for strength! He can do things no man can do trust in him and trust that he will give your re the right combination...God Bless you sweetie :)
All: Happy new Year may God sprinkle all blessings upon you and yours in 09!
Hey ladies, HAPPY NEW YEAR in advance. I thought i should check in and see whatz up. I have been crying all say because i am 12dpiui and did hpt this morning and it was a BFN. I really don't think at this point two days would make a difference but a tiny part of me is still hanging up to faith and miracles.
I didn’t cry this time… this morning I have started spotting. I don’t now what to do or even what to think.. my beta is on 3rd ..i will not test before that..
spoc: Most of us in this forum know what u r going through. There r some things in life that is not in our control. We can only try our best hope for the best and pray….. we will have to be strong ( actually I am saying this to myself) we both still have hope as I found out that many women didn’t get a BFP till the 16th day…. Hmmmmm and there is always next time ……. Right ?!!?
Just wishing youu guys a blessed and Happy 2009! I am now 10dpiui and only having af symptoms so I am losing hope for this cycle....but not Faith I know it will happen for all of us...baby dust and sticky vibes God Bless! :)
Thank you for your kind words. I know you're right - we always have next month and should'nt give up hope.
Babyday - Maybe the 'spotting' that you are experiencing could be old blood?? I go in for my b/w tom and will know for sure what's up. Are you feeling any other symptoms? Sore bbs, nausea?
Bfromthed: I started feeling AF cramps on day 11, 12 and 13. But they are not frequent. I am noticing my bloating has also subsided. The veins are still very obvious - but I think I am a veiny person to begin with :-(
Hang in there B - because I hear a lot of women have AF like cramps but then their AF never comes :-)
Have any of you tried Vitex, baby aspirin, B6 & B50??? I am looking into that.....
Actually, has anyone here tried vitex??
Happy new year and may all you ladies get your BFP and then have a healthy pregnancy in 2009 :-)
i can't say enough how much courage your positive attitude towards your BFN has given me. i really do admire that. True there is always a next month but we all wished it was this month and not another. I do wish you all the best on your bw anh hopfully things turn around. Keep us posted.
Bfromthed: thanks for making me think positive. i don't know if i want to test tomorrow which is my 14dpiui. Maybe i should wait a few more days. I am soo scared just thinking about it. Happy New Year to you all and lots of BFP in 09.
i read all the posts, and i wish you all the best luck this year. the most important thing is to stay calm and and think that nothing comes easy! i too have had a very bad experience.
i lost my first pregnancy at 27 weeks, and i had 2 misscarages after that including an ectopic pregnancy, i have been trying to have kids for 5 years, and will all these problems it feels like hell. i had iui 4 days ago, and now i have to wait 14 days to see if it is going to work out for me this time. since i did the iui i've been having ovairian pain and i have a bloated stomache as if iam 3 months pregnant is that normal??? anyway i really wish you all the best and sooner or later you are all going to become mums! everything happens for a reason and it all happens in the right time, just keep youselves relaxed and stress free if you can !
missy: The first time we had bfp I didnt test til 6days after af was due cause we were scared but it was bfp in 06.... so do what your mind tells you but stay positive and keep us posted
spoc: The only extra vitamine I take is prenatal and folic acid let me know if you hear anything on the other med...at this point we will do whatever...:) Keep me posted with your progress...
spoc:Yesterday I was having cramps in my lower abdomen. I had the cramp 10/12 times in total. Today I was carefuliy monitoring and had only 1 cramp so far. I am so worried because besides having a faint positive line (12dp IUI) I have no symptoms. BB’s r fine I was a little nauseas and that’s it.
I am very worried….
I am hoping and praying that tomorrow u will have a BFP. I have my beta on the 3rd that means I will get the report on the 4th.
Lots and lots of baby dust and a very happy new year.
p.s for last 6 hrs i had no spotting. please pray for me....
Lily: I had my first I iui 14 days ago and will go for b/w tomorrow - my clinic gives the results the same day so I'll find out tom if I am or not. In regards to the symptoms, I've had SUPER sore breasts and belly was VERY bloated. 4dpiui I had stabbing pains in my uterus and that stopped....from 2dpiui to 10dpiui I've had twinges, weird cramps on both ovaries. I've also been eating a lot but today everything seems back to normal. I don't care to eat and my bloating has subsided.
After the back to back iuis, I have been placed on progestrone suppos. and estrace. There is a possibility that ALL of my symptoms are due to the meds :-(
Missy: Please stay positive (its really hard) but I keep telling myself that God will bring our miracle soon - maybe its not ready to come be with us just yet :(
Babyday: I soooo want to tell you to POAS because I think the line may be darker - but at the same time if its not that would just break your heart. The fact that you had a faint line is awesome. In regards to the cramping, I had AF like cramps...but they are very subtle. And back pain. The bbs are still sore.
Bfromthed: If I am not preggers this month, I plan to do the following 'recipe' for the month of Jan. They say Vitex helps balance hormones and promotes mutiple egg growth during ovulation (I think that what I read) and baby aspirin helps thin out the blood which increases blood flow to your uterus...so here is a recipe that I found:
Whole Cycle:
1 prenatal vitamin daily
1 baby aspirin (78 to 81mg) daily
1 50mg B6 vitamin in the morning
1 B50 complex in the evening
From day of cycle day to ovulations only:
2 Vitex 500mg in the morning
2 Vitex 500mg in the evening
The most important ingredient:
Positive thinking and a prayer!
I have read a lot of women have had positive results with vitex and baby aspirin....and the dosages are in moderation so I plan to try this next.....anything for a BFP!
Hi All! I haven't posted in a while but wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year!!!!!! Congratulations to the new BFP's and for those who didn't get theirs, 2009 is a brand new year and the year belongs to YOU!!!!!
I am now about 9 1/2 weeks along after a successful 2nd iui. My DH has zero count so iui with a donor was our only chance to have a child. I am feeling pretty good. I am tired and hungry ALL the time but have had very little nausea. The downside of no nausea is that I'm keeping everything I eat down so I'm already getting a bit of a pooch in my belly. We heard the heartbeat on 12/23 and go for our 3rd u/s on 1/6.
I will be praying for all of you. For those that are new to the site, you have picked a great spot for love and support. Everyone on here is wonderful. Have a wonderful New Year and remember - THIS IS YOUR YEAR!!!!!!!
I've read a lot of posts about women that barely have any symptoms.....you never know....you may be one of those that don't feel anything before a BFP :-)
Sometimes I think its better to have no symptoms then fake ones that come through meds :-(
Molson,
Congratulations to you and yours :-)
It would be great if you can tell us what you felt before you got your BFP? I know I would love to know and so would Bfromthed :-)
I forgot to answer your question.....you can get Vitex at a local GNC or any other health store. Its less then $10.00 and I've read from the other posts that it does not have any side effects...but then again all women are different and our bodies may react differently.
Happy New Year. Well at least I hope it will be a happy year.....we all get that special gift we all hope for. I am 6dpiui. This is my 2nd iui and unlike the first, I am not experiencing any symptoms either apart from the fact that my DH and I both had the stomach flu for a couple of days that ended yesterday. This was my first new years without any kind of alcohol. I am trying to stay hopeful. I went for my progesterone test yesterday. My RE said that he would call me if my level was low so I could start the prog. suppositories. No call so I guess that is good. It's funny how you start the 2 ww so hopeful. It really gets hellish in the middle of the 2ww when you start to analyze every minute detail of what you are experiencing. Today at lunch, I mentioned to my DH, that every woman I look at is pregnant! So frustrating.
Re. Vitex - aka Chasteberry. I actually bought it and took it for one day before I saw my RE for the first time. He said he did not advocate herbals as there has not been enough published data to prove the efficacy for fertility. When you research the drug, there is a lot of info about Vitex related to both fertility and menopause. For fertility, it is said that this herbal aids the pituatary and hypothalamus glands - each of which is reponsible for the production and release of various hormones that stimulate egg production. The reccommended dosage is 3.5 to 4.2 mg. daily. Typical side effects are headaches and abdominal upsets. It is also prescribed in Europe for PMS (something I will definitely consider taking when all is said and done).
Aspirin - My RE does reccommend 81 mg. daily. Data shows that in addition to helping ovaries respond to procedures such as IVF by improving blood flow to the uterus and ovaries, it also boosts your immune system. Studies have also shown that taking a baby aspirin daily helps women develop more and stronger eggs.
FYI.....I am not a physician. Most of the above info, I read on-line or in books such as Getting Pregnant by Niels Lauersen, MD.
Lastly, I ache reading some of the posts by those of you who feel like your getting your AF's and can only relate to that deperate sadness. Don't give up hope. I know that pit of despair. It *****! I am 39 and have been ttc for 9 months. I never thought I wanted children until a couple of years ago. Naturally it has become the center of my existence.
Stay strong ladies. G-D speed to us all in our quest.
Hello Everyone,
I am new to this group. I am on day 9 since I had my IUI. This is my second time doing this and it has been all natural both times. The first time I tried the IUI in November was a very trying time. I had no idea what to expect and pretty much obsessed until I ended up getting my period a week early.
I was curious if someone would be so kind to explain to me the lingo you use on here. I do not know what AF means or POAS. I am actually not sure what BFP or BFN means other than positive or negative. I'm sorry if I sound ignorant.
My situation is a little different than the other ladies on here but I do completely relate to all of you as well. I am in a same sex relationship and been with my partner for 7.5 years. We decided to try to have a family after we bought a house and I finished my undergrad.
Anyways, I have been through a gammet of tests and everything looks good. I had an HSG and was cleared. My doctor at the IVF clinic said I didn't need meds for the first few times. I am wondering why not though because it seems a lot of women do take meds.
I go for a blood test on 1/6 like a few of you. I am excited and nervous because I am fearful of receiving my period. So far it's different from last time in that I don't feel as anxious.
Any reassurement or advice would be so wonderful!
Thank you
Welcome..and I will help with the lingo I know Af is your periof, bfp is big fat positive and bfn is big fat negative the poas is the home pre test if I am correct. I too will be testing on the 6th but I am totally symptomless and losing hope for this cycle....This is my 4th iui and I am prepared mentally for bfn but prayerful for bfp.....good luck and keep us posted :) God Bless
Thank you for all your information. I think I'll try it in Jan.
Hi Bfromthed,
I just returned from the clinic and they will be calling me with my results in the afternoon. I am so nervous.
Missy,
I am sooo sorry. Its is really tough, in just a couple of hours I might be posting my news of a BFN :-(
Please stay strong.....your time will come...this is a test to make us stronger women :-)
Hi All havne't written in a while jsut wanted to check in on everyone and say hello! I started with the injections last week. I went this morning and as of today I have three possibles on the left side and two on the right. I have to go back on Sunday for a follow up visit. Then I am assuming the iui will be either Tuesday or Wednesday. I will keep you all posted.
2009 will be our year I feel it! Welcome to all new comers. This is a great site and one that I love to be on. The women on it are wonderful and super supportive they have made the last few months bearable.
I hope you all had a wonderful new years! And I am only praying for good things to come in 2009 for all of us!
gagnon - Welcome! I, too, am new here during my first 2ww. I am also on day 9 and test on 1/7. (This is my 1st iui).
Missy - I'll send you a note
All - crazy thing happened around 10 pm last night. I had the strangest "cramping" in my lower abdomen, it felt like it was right at the front towards my belly, not deeper in my body. Kinda "shooting" like that almost took my breath away...not completely painful, just very strange. I felt it go up a bit, then down to, well, you know...it lasted about 5 seconds. It definitely was NOT gas (tmi) unless that feeling has all of a sudden changed. :) I don't know. It was just very weird and something that I had never felt before, ever. I was hoping that it means something positive, like implantation or something, but you know how every little thing makes us think of something or another...
any suggestions?
Oh, something that has really helped take my mind off of things for a bit of time...playing Wii. I go back to work on Monday, (1st grade teacher) so playing games has actually helped me not obsess while playing. But as soon as the games are over, I head right back to the computer.
Hi All- I am 14 days past my first IUI and went in for my bloodwork this morning... these past 2 weeks have been hellish... the stress alone is enough to push anyone over the edge... Hopefully good news will come.. my husband and I have been ttc for 16 months.... we have unexplained fertility... I just think that means something is wrong and they can't find it.... oh, good luck to everyone... its nice to know others are going through what i am... :)
I am somewhere in the 2WW -- not sure how far into it though -- I didn't OPK test or chart temps. I did however feel ovulation pain and have EWCM on 12/24 - and lately my bbs are exremely sore and I have been so nausious I can't even stand it -- I so hope it is a good sign and not my body playing tricks on me -- I WILL SCREAM!
I too should be hearing from the clinic between 12 and 2. I am trying to stay strong but my hearts hurting.Are you feeling any cramps?
I wasn't feeling any cramps this morning but they've kinds started back up this afternoon. A little part of me is hoping for a miracle but a big part of me knows that when the nurse calls and tells me 'its a negative' I'm going to break.
But just like all of you, I will pick myself back up and despite the pain, stand in line to get on the roller coaster for this cycle.
I've only did IUI once (December) and it didn't work. My question to you all is...How many times should we try IUI before moving onto something else?How long should a couple try before inquiring about IVF? I just wanted some opinions.
My doctor did 2 IUI cycles with clomid. Now this cycle I am doing Follistim & IUI (which will probably be Tuesday or Wednesday). The doctor said we will try this twice then if it doesn't work we will move on to IVF. I have unexplained infertility so the doctor said for that the highest success is with IVF. But thankfully my inusrance is covering all of this so we have to exhaust the cheaper options first before moving on. I hope this helps!
I AM SO SORRY, IT WILL HAPPEN WE JUST HAVE TO KEEP THE FAITH, MY SECOND IUI FAILED, LAST MONTH THE FIRST WAS IN AUGUST, I CAN ONLY HAVE IUI IF THE FOLLICLES ARE ON THE LEFT SIDE B/C OF A COILED TUBE ON THE RIGHT, SO FIRST IUI WAS AUGUST, THEN NO IUI SEPT. OCT. OR NOV. 2ND IUI WAS DECEMBER WHICH FAILED.
MY DH AND I HAVE DECIDED TO TAKE A MONTH OFF OF GOING TO RE AND MEDS, I REALLY NEEDED A MONTH TO JUST FEEL LIKE MYSELF, WITHOUT CLOMID IN MY SYSTEM.
IT IS ALL SO EMOITIONALLY DRAINING THAT I NEEDED TO TAKE TIME TO JUST...BE.
Thank you for your kind words....
Still very teary eyed...but I keep telling myself that there are worst things that can happen.....we have our loved ones and need to appreciate them.....most important....WE NEED TO APPRECIATE OURSELEVES AND RECOGNIZE THE LENGHTS WE ARE GOING TO, TO HAVE OUR MIRACLE...(trying to give myself a pat in the back)...
Mollie: Have you heard yet.....please let me know...praying for you...
Jen: This was my first IUI...I too am taking a break in Jan from the meds....but will try vitex and baby aspirin....lets see what that does...I've read a lot of positive posts with that...rightnow I am just waiting for AF to come so I can start....have you ever tried vitex?
I think I'll eat something now....didn't eat anything out of nervousness....
I think I am out of the race this time...11dpiui no symtoms but all opposites...lots of energy, no sore bbs, and my temp has started to trend down...last time my progestrone was over 50 (it is 58.3 this time) and I got bfn it took me 41 days to have af because my progestrone stayed so high! This is iui number 4 and I wish we could afford to goto ivf! I also broke and took a hpt and it was bfn...If this cycle is truly a bust I think we are going to try two more times and thats it it's becoming too taxing mentally and I am 3 months from being 36 years old! God Bless :)
Hi Everyone - well, the nurse called earlier and its was an unsuccessful IUI...... Of course we are heart broken...... I am so ready to just stop all this craziness.... it was only our first IUI and my doctor said he will try it 2-3 more times before going to IVF... we have to decide if we should up the clomid dose from 50mg to 100mg... unfortunately it makes me a bit crazy (moody, weepy etc..) so an increase in that makes me nervous... plus this becomes so stressful on a marriage... my husband is wonderful and supportive, its just been so consuming... thanks all for listening.. and lots of baby dust to those waiting for their bloodwork results ....
spoc: I am really sorry…. Next time it will happen. We have a whole year in front of us…and we are still young… be strong friend…. Our prayers are with you..
Bfromthed:Today is my 17dp IUI I am going for my beta…. Though I promised my self I will not do hpt. I did it….. it was a BFP … I am hoping that the blood test will give the same result… after 2 natural pregnancy which ended up in miscarriage and 1 failed IUI I am hoping that this time god will be kind enough to give us a baby…
I am talking to much… ok now... I am coming to the point.. this time I had NO Symptoms. Nothing…. Only thing was.. as I said before I only had intense cramps in my lower abdominal (13dpiui and 14dpiui). Crams lasted for 10/15 seconds. The whole time my BB’s were fine and I have shifted to a new home so can’t say there was any lack of energy.
So please be positive… till AF comes there is hope….
babydaay: I told you mommy...congrats I am praying for sky high beta numbers keep us posted!
all: today I am having all af symptoms no cramps just irritability and everything else that goes with her coming...she is due Tuesday the same day I am supposee to test but I have a feeling she will come before then and my temps wentt from 98.1 to 97.2 this morning...im a little sad but already prepared to try again next month!
Congratulations, after all the darkness you may have faced...you are finally seeing your light.
Bfromthed,
I am so sorry about your af like cramps..my af is due either this weekend or on Monday. I have already started taking baby aspirin and will start the fertility blend from GNC immediately. I've read great review from it....especially from women over 30....when I read that I though about you...
Mollie,
Its always heartbreaking to get a bfn...we put so much emotions and money into these attempts and when they fail its really tough.
Mollie....perhaps you can look into Fertility Blend.....it has great reviews and apparently increases fertility by 33%....(atleast thats what I read)...
hi ladies, i am sorry i did not get on yesterday after my initial post about my failed iui. I was in sure bad shape to even think right. Thanks for all your support.
PrayersDreams: thanks for all your encouragement, it meant alot.
spoc/molliegirl: i know exactly how you feel, it does hurt bad, a pain i have no words to explain. This is our year and i pray we all get positive results sooner than later. Good luck to you all.
Babyday: you have won the new years best gift. I am soo happy for you. You deserve it. You will remain in my prayers all through your pregnancy. You shall make the worlds greatest mommy.
I read up on Fertility Blend, never heard of that before.... since I want to go drug free this month, its seems worth trying... do you take your prenatal and folic acid supplements with it or without it?
M
Hi Ladies,
I'm new to this forum. I've been reading your comments and I too am in the dreaded 2ww! I'm 12 post iui! This is our 4th one. Diag-PCOS did 4 rounds just clomid no luck, Had HSG tubes are open. Then moved on to IUI w/clomid and HCG DH has great count and motility. I'm 31 and he's 33. We are so praying for our miracle! I've had really soar nips for the past couple days. I've had that before and then still got AF.. I think it's side effect from progesterone leves. Did b/w 6 days post iui Projesterone was 26.
I wish you all the best of luck and hope you all get your BFP's!!!!
Welcome this is a wonderful forum with great people..I am 11dpiui and the 4th for us too pcos also don't think it worked this time....I too have sore nips but my progestrone is 58.3 without any progestrone meds and last try it was 53.6 I had 21 follies and still negative prg and took me 41 days to have the next cycle cause af will not start if its that high...Good luck and keep us posted! :)
i was reading the forums yesterday and im glad that most of us share the same experiences.
i had my 1stIUI on dec27 and will be back for blood test on the 13th Jan. Fingers, eyes and toes crossed!
during this 2ww, my breasts are so sore and i have slight cramping at night. no other symptoms than that.
the nurse advised me not to cycle, swim and jog. anyone has any idea about this?
Hi Ladies,
I'm new to this forum. I've been reading your comments and I too am in the dreaded 2ww! I'm 10 post iui! This is my 1st one and I am scared my bata in 8/1.
Welcome ladies this is a great plce to be fo support and encourgment! Keep us posted on your progress...I am 13dpiui number 4 and unfortunately I am having symptoms of af not pg...I truly wish you both the best of luck...baby dust and sticky vibes to all.
Bfromthed and Mollie - I am assuming you two ladies are in the States...so you will be able to get Fertility Blend. I just found out Canada does not sell Fertility Blend because Health Canada has not approved some lame ingredient thats in it!!!!
CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS!!!
I am going to start with the Vitex recipe this month...I've read lots of success stories with it.....
Babyday: High number thats great maybe a double blessing:) Congrats!
All: Well I am out of the race this month af started this a m I am heart broken yet again but still encouraged to start the next set of meds :) Sticky vibes and congrats to all the bfps! :) Can anyone tell me what the "fertility blend" is...is it just the baby asprin and vitex? I want to start is asap
Hi ladies,
I have a question. I have now been on clomid for 8mos first 4 was with OB so no ultrasounds or anything just bding every other day. Last 4 with RE doing IUI. Has anyone else experienced weight gain on clomid? I feel like I don't even have control over my body. If this month doesn't work out we are on to IVF. They said that is our next step. We REALLY were hoping not to have to go that route but we'll do whatever it takes. I still have a little hope for this month I haven't officially started yet but feel like it's coming. I have feeling by tomorrow or Tuesday it will be here? The good thing about doing IVF is I get a month to be on bc. Level off my hormones which is much needed!
Congrats to those who got there BFP's! That is great news! Always gives me hope to hear of others who got there miracle!
Lucky: Be careful with the clomid it can thin the lining which we need a nice fluffy place for or miracles to implant! Good Luck :) I did not have weight gain with Clomid just headaches!
I am just catching up with the posts. I am so sorry to hear. I am praying for you! Stay positive and think happy thoughts.
babyday: Congrats to you! That is wonderful news and your beta was nice and high. Keep us all posted and I hope you have a very easy 9 months ahead.
As for me. I went yesterday morning for my last ultra sound and I have 3 follies again 2 on my left side that are 17 & 18 in size and one on my rigt which is 19. So I gave myself the trigger shot last night. Now I go in tomorrow 1/6 for my IUI. So my 2ww will start tomorrow. I feel like I jsut got out of the wait yesterday. This time is flying by. So hopefully January is our lucky month!
Thanks for the encouraging words...I am going in tomorrow to start monitoring and see what the med plan is for this cycle...I do know that we wont be doing clomid my re does not like to use it alot considering Im almost 36 and we want my lining to stay nice a full I also will be getting the "Fertility Blend" from GNC and starting that tomorrow:) Good luck to all and God Bless I will keep you guys posted :)
Congrats to all that got a BFP this month! I so hope I am right behind you all.
Dimps Good luck with the IUI fingers crossed for you
As for me I am somewhere in the 2WW didn't test or anything this month for ovulation. I was sick on Friday with the stomach bug -- how horrible that was -- and then lastnight I was neaseated again and then this morning I have been feeling that way -- I am due for AF I think on the 11th (since my cycles seem to be 32 days long) but I felt like I ovulated on 12/23 well had the ovulation pain and the EWCM so maybe it was more like xmas eve. I don't know at this point all I know is I want a BFP and a lil baby to hold.
Thanks for your well wishes. You might be better off not knowing what day you are on. It makes the two week wait go a little faster.
What type of procedure did you do? Are yuo on injectibles? This was my first month with the injectibles. I am hoping first time works. They were such a pain to do everyday. My RE already told me that we are only going to do this twice with IUI then move on to IVF. I am unexplained so this is even more frustrating because the RE can't figure out why I am not getting preggers.
Well I will be in the waiting game soon enough then I really start going crazy! GOOD Luck to you!
HA I know how painful the 2WW can be. I am actually not doing any meds or anything we are trying natural -- we have been trying for 3 years, had 2 miscarriages, every test under the sun and we both are fine -- we too have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility -- so I pretty much just said we will just try au naturale -- but this month I stuck with my promise and didn't temp or OPK test so we shall see what happens.
I did in the past do IUI with clomid and 1 iui with injectibles didn;t get pregnant either time.
Sorry to hear about the BFN's. I am 10 dpiui. I had some slight bleeding this morning. Feel's like af is on it's way. I am starting to feel really down. I was told that one should expect af exactly 2 weeks from trigger shot. Does anyone know if this is true?
We were trying for 1 year when I started with the RE. I will move onto IVF after 2 more cycles. Thank goodness insurance is covering all of this. My husband and I are the same way have both been tested and we are both fine. The RE told me that with unexplained fertility the best success is with IVF. Our success rate goes from 25% to about 65-75% with IVF. So at this point I just want to get there.
nattydivine: I have heard the same thing about getting your af 2 weeks from the trigger shot. But for me personally i get my af exactly 2 weeks to the day that my IUI is done.
Hi ladies!
I'm really benefitting from hearing all your stories. I don't wish for anyone to be going through this but it's nice to have people that understand! Today I'm 14 piui and AF is on it's way.. Started spotting last night and will officially start probably by tomorrow :( I'm very dissapointed as this was our 4th IUI. Our RE said our next step is IVF. I too am considered unexplained infertility at this point and they said the our chances with IVF are much much better. Unfortunately my insur does not cover it so we are dealing with that! I know we can do 1 but if that doesn't work than I don't know what we will do! It's A LOT of money and so worth it to get our miracle but we don't have the luxury of doing a bunch! I'm hoping and praying that we all have some postive experiences early this year!
Baby dust to everyone and I'll keep you all in my prayers :)
I have a couple of questions, maybe some of you can help me understand.
First, what does vitex and baby aspirin do? (Right now the Dr. just has me on prenatal vitamins.)
Second, I notice lots of people talk about "beta levels" and going back between IUI and af or taking preg test. My Dr. never even mentioned this (I'm not going to an RE, just a regular OB GYN) What are "beta levels"?
Third, does anyone know an estimate on the cost of IVF and are there payment plans or do they want the total amount up front?
I would recommend you go see an RE. my regular OB put me on clomid for four months till i went to the RE and found out my tube was blocked. IVF is very expensive. we did it twice and it averaged about 8-10grand.(meds included) find out where you live because some jobs have insurance that would cover some form of infertility. My job covered 5grand(one time only).
bfromthed: Getting a BFN, AF, is a feeling we can't explain for a "healthy" female to understand. I am soo sorry to hear about your af showing up. I thought crying would help but it didn't so i stopped. God has plans for each of us i know that. Let us all be strong and this too shall come to pass.
Hi all,
First of all a belated Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you,I am sorry I haven't been on but I have went through all the posts to keep up to date with everyone.Congrats to all of you that finally got you BFP!!!!
Hugs to all who haven't YET!
As for myself I found out christmas eve it didn't work this time,it was so depressing for me and ruined my christmas.I was so sad!I got AF on Boxing day and stayed in bed the whole day crying.
Anyways i am already into my next cycle I started Gonal F again and went for my first round of B/W today and my estrogen is at 883,they were like wow at RE's office.I take gonal tonight again along with orgelutron shot to stop me from ovulating and go for B/W and U/S tomorrow to see how many follies are coming out to play this month.I am staying positive....well as much as what I can.
I'll keep everyone posted with my news and still love reading everyone's posts as it gives me so much faith and I know I am not alone.
(((((big hugs)))) to all
Jenn
Hello all, I am new to this discussion. I just had my first IUI in December and it failed. It was such a disappointment. DH and I have been TTC for 4 years with no luck. I had tried Clomid in the past with no luck stimulating follie growth. Last month was my first month with Follistim and it did help. I think the hardest thing is getting AF and then having to turn around quickly and get started on the next cycle. I don't want to take a break since my head is already in this. I am again doing Follistim and am crossing my fingers for more god follies. I wish you all luck for more BFP this month!
Thank you guys for the well wishes my heart breaks but my faith gets stronger! God said to be fruitful and reproduce and I know it will happen it is just so heartbreaking and hurts so bad when you look at all the babies that are thrown away, not wanted, and born on drugs and us who would be marvelous parents because we have struggled to have our dreams go through hell to get there:( God has me and I know he heres our cries...I pray for you guys before I pray for myself...I know things will happen I cry but I keep pushing forward...God Bless!
I am soo sorry about the BFN. It will work for you, I know it will. Just stay strong and keep pushing and it will happen. I wish I could pass my good luck that I have onto all of you out there that have to do more then 1 IUI.
On another note, I have an appt on the 13th to finally hear the baby's heartbeat and I am only like 5 weeks away from learning the baby's sex. I cannot wait.
Hello well I went this morning for my IUI and I am getting alot worse cramps this month then the two previous months. THe RE said it was normal because of the follistim I am on. He also said that it is a good sign that means he was able to get the sperm right into the Uterus. I am pretty uncomfortable now. Thankfully I am working from home today so I can relax a little.
Anyone else out there get this uncomfortable on Follistim?
Well I test 1/22/09. So hopefully it worked this month. I am trying to be optimistic.
I used Follistim on October with my IUI and I was very crampy that day (I think alot of it is ovulations cramps). The next day I woke up and they were all gone and it worked so I hope this helps.
Thanks for the info. This is my first month on it. I am hoping it does the trick. I just am so crampy and bloated today it stinks. I am just really uncomforatble. I am hoping for good things to come from this. My follicles were a great sixe this month they were 17 & 18 on the left side & 19 on the right. My DH's count was 15 million after the wash. So I am just hoping that these are all good signs.
I will keep you posted. I am very hopefully right now but it is also only day 1.
Were your bbs sore on teh follistim I am very sore there also?
My bb's werent sore until about 9 days into my 2ww. When I had my IUI done this time I had 2 follies I think like a 21 and 14 or something like that... I forget without looking back where I wrote it down but its close to that and my husbands count after wash was 13.9 mill. and it worked. When I used Follistim and IUI in 05 I had 3 follies on 1 side (cant remember sizes) and husbands count was 11 mill after wash and both of these worked so I must say Follistim worked very well with me. How long after the trigger shot did you go in for IUI?
Kisstin Im so glad to hear the little one is moving right along and thanks for the well wishes!
dimps1978 good luck in the 2ww about time you find out we should be done or alomost ready for the next iui...I will post after re calls with med plan for this month :)
Hi, I did my trigger shot on Sunday night. THen IUi was today so the IUI was done approximately 36 hours after the trigger shot.
What was your dosage of follistim. I was on 150 for the first two days then I only had to take 75 the other 4 days. So I guess my eggs were growing pretty quickly. I am still in pain. It is just such an uncomfortable feeling I hate it. But hopefully it will work this month. I think third time is a charm (at least I hope). The RE said this morning that it is normal for my bb's to be sore. Because they said the drugs are stronger. And boy do they hurt. It is insane that started yesterday actually.
Bfromthed: Thanks for the well wishes. Good luck this month and remember stay positive! Happy thoughts will get to the end result. I know this is all so painful but hopefully our little miracles will happen soon. Good luck I will be thinking of you this month.
Well today is my first day back at work since my IUI on the 20th of December. My 9 year old was off of school, so I spent time with him, plus I was trying not to think about it during the 2WW, so I didn't get on and read the posts very often. Congratulations to those with the BFP's!!! And it will happen for those of us waiting our turn. Unfortunately the IUI didn't work this month either, and I am having a very heavy flow.
I just wish we could get preggo so bad. Our insurance doesn't cover IVF- except for $5000 lifetime. Doc says it is about $15,000 so I am not sure we are ready to go that step yet. We are going to continue IUI's for now. Doc suggested switching from 100 MG of Clomid to 50 MG of clomid and one Follistim shot. Insurance doesn't cover the shots either, so that would cost about $100.00 for the one shot.
Anyway, I go in tomorrow to make sure that all of my cysts are gone, because they had measured so big at the U/S prior to IUI.
Welcome, babydust, and goodluck to molliegirl, spoc, babyday, gagnon1977, and jfisch!
I have a 600 IU of Follistim that is refrigerated that I would be willing to sell you. And depending on your dose that would give you quite a few shots. Let me know if you are interested.. Also, Clomid is not very good being that it thins the lining. I think you have the best shot with just injectables.
Dimps1978:
They started me out on 100 this time because in 05 I did 150 and they said they didnt want me to move quite as fast because I had IUI on cycle day 10 that year. This time they started me on 100. Well the 100 actually made me move really slow. I did 100 for 5 days, then 150 5 days and then 225 4 days and then the trigger shot Friday at 7 am and then the IUI that next day at like 10 am so I had IUI like 27 hours after trigger shot. My cycle ended up being VERY long and my belly button was soooo purple and black and blue around it from all the shots and I thought for sure it wouldnt work because it was soo different from when I did it in 05 but it did. They say you react differently to the meds each month.
I did only one shot a day of follistim. My IUI was done on day 11. So it moved pretty quickly for me also. My schedule is like clock work at 28 days. And I have gotten my af exactly 14 days after iui so my whole cycle will be a lot shorter this month. Hopefully a doesn't come at all. But it is moving pretty quickly. I didn't even finish one full 600 of follistim this cycle so I have enough to start next cycle. I jsut hope that pushing this process along faster isn't bad for me. Cramping is still here. I just want today to be over so I can fell a little bit back to normal.
Hi~
I'm really sorry that your IUI didn't take. Are you planning on doing more?
I had my very 1st IUI on Christmas Eve. I took a HPT this morning and it was negative. I did do it at 13 post IUI, so a part of me is HOPING I might still get a Postivie, but the other part of me just "knows" that it didn't work. This is my 1st IUI and my dr.s office is reasonably priced for it, but the place that did my husband's analysis, blood testing, and wash was $$$$. I'm not sure I can afford to keep doing it. The only good thing out of this was the fact we learned that I am "OK" and more than likely it is my husband's medication that is causing the unexplained infertility. The day of the IUI (he didn't take his meds) the count was way higher than the day of the analysis.
it's so nice to know that there are others out there who are in the same boat. I feel like I don't have anyone to talk to about this as it isn't a usual topic to bring up w/ people.
Im 3 days post iui and had some bleeding yesterday, took the progesterone last night and it has stopped. anyone have bleeding after iui. this is my 4th one and have never had that.
dont get your hopes down, you should get period 2 weeks after the hcg shot.
if it's just slight bleeding 10dpiui, it could be a good sign. somtimes you might get slight bleeding when implantation is happening, and that happens 6-10 days after fertilization.
anyway i wish you all the luck and keep your hopes up !
How is everyone. I am due for good old AF to come on Sunday 1/11. And so far I have no idea what is going on. My bbs have been severly sore and burning, tingling you name they feel that way -- LOL I had the nasty stomach bug on Friday but since then I am constantly nauseated more so after I eat -- and today I feel crampy on my left side and left lower back -- I so hope this is my month. Anyone ever have their bbs feel that way and get a BFP?
Kramik sounds like those are all good signs keep us posted!
All: Went to re's office today and and Im starting Gonal F 112.5 and 75 Menopur tonight until Saturady then back for more bw/monitoring...I will keep you guys posted! :)
Hi ladies, as you all know my iui failed. My Hb and i were thinking of taking a month off before doing it again for financial reasons. Now my questions to you guys is, Would it be benefial for me to continue right away or would it reduce my chances if i skip a month? i have an appointment on 01/08 for my baseline u/s.After 2 failed ivfs and 1 failed iui, i feel like i have tourtured my body too much. Please give me any advice on my question. Thanks.
We were thinking we would move onto IVF, however have since decided to give it a few more tries. We have had 4 IUI's, however only 2 post laproscopic surgery. I understand that the highest conception rates tend to come 6-18 months post lap surgery. For now we are going to keep going. My husband and I do not drink at all anymore, we have reduced our caffeine intake to 8 oz's a day, and he is on fertility blend for me- sold at GNC. So far, that has caused his counts to increase... but it takes 72 days to make new sperm so we will see what the counts are this month.
Good luck! It is great to be able to talk to someone in the same situation.
Let me find out from the DR what does I would be on for the follistim, and get back to you. I see them tonight, so I will know more either later today or tomorrow. Also, what would you be wanting for the follistim? And where are you located?
Got AF this morning. I am waiting to speak to RE about IVF as he had recommended should I not be successful with IUI. I beleive he said something about waiting one month. After the 1st iui he had me take b/c to shrink a 3 cm. cyst I have on my right ovary. Turns out it is a endometrioma (had laparoscopy 5/08). I don't think b/c will help so I'm not sure why he'd have me wait a month.
noel5670: I hadn't heard that conception rates are higher 6 months post lap. That keeps me hopeful. My DH and I are in the same boat as far as alcohol and caffeine. We don't have as much fun these days. His sperm count was excellent the first time I did iui. Per the RE, he had been taking L-carnitine, zinc. "C", and B-Complex. This last iui, he was taking his vitamins daily and his sperm count was half of what it was last time. Stay on your DH to take his vitamins.
Just a question my cycles are usually around 5 days including the "spotting days" on Sunday I had spotting, Monday flow (cd1) tuesday spotting today nothing? Can a cylce be too short? You would think at 36 I would have a little more knowledge on this???
I am in Pennsylvania. I am not sure how much a 600 IU box costs. Does 150.00 sound unreasonable? Let me know, I am pretty flexible. I dont want it to go to waste.
Just wanted to share a little something I read today that I think the most of you can relate to....
Everyone Knows How to Defeat Infertility But YOU!
In the world of infertility it seems that everybody has an opinion on how YOU can become pregnant. This blog introduces you to some of the most common advice given by "whoever", that has helped everyone else have a child but you. These are Top 10 Common Misconceptions about Overcoming Infertility:
10. Maybe GOD does not intend for you to have children!- Disease is not the work of GOD. In the bible, GOD says "to be fruitful and multiply"! Unless someone is reading a different version than everyone else, children are a part of the divine plan.
9. After intercourse, stand on your head!- It may have worked for some, but I have not found the research to support this one yet.
8. Maybe you are not doing it right!- I've seen lots of books on the topic, but this is not rocket science, ENOUGH SAID!
7. Stop trying so hard!- This may be a valid point to some degree, but how can the desire to have children be classified as trying too hard?
6. Maybe it was just not meant to be!- the advice given by those who have children who are out of control.
5. You won't die if you don't have children!- this statement is enough to make you loose control, it's very hurtful and just plain idiotic!
4. Maybe it's in the water? What does this mean? Are pregnant women drinking from a different water fountain than those who have been trying for years? This one is just mind boggling.
3. RELAX!- This one must be in the console an infertile friend/relative handbook. However, studies do show that stress can play an important role with infertility.
2. Take a Vacation and IT will happen!- Maybe the vacation is needed to get away from the people that make these comments.
1. You can ALWAYS adopt- Some even offer the suggestion of just tricking the mind about adopting. People have heard of a select few that have adopted and then had children. Don't adopt if this is not your heart felt intention.
No matter what comments you hear from friends and relatives about how you can overcome infertility, just let it go! No matter how hurtful the comments may be, remember that these individuals are actually only trying to help. They may not know your trials and tribulations with infertility. There is no code of ethics for others to follow that explains what to say to someone going through infertility. No matter what they say and what idiotic advice they give, continue to have faith and believe that you will overcome this disease.
Nice post! I know we can all identify with it. People make comments that are hurtful and they don't even realize it.
One instance: On mother's day this past year my husband and I went to church with his family. They started handing out candy bars to all the mothers and all women who have touched the lifes of others (teachers, sisters, aunts, etc.) I took a candy bar and my husband, not realizing the impact it would have on me, said "Your not a mother." This went through me and I'll never forget it as long as I live. He didn't realize how it made me feel, but boy I let him know later that day. He sincerely apologized.
And you just get tired of people saying, "When are you two having kids?" and my reply is always like "Oh, maybe next year" or "We've talked about it". Heck we talk about it weekly and I think about it daily.
MissyZane08: Thanks for answering my questions. They did do an HSG and both of my tubes were open.I probably do need to look into seeing an RE. BUT, DO YOU ASK YOUR OB-GYN TO REFER YOU OR DO YOU MAKE THE APPT YOURSELF? I'm afraid of offending my OB GYN by making her feel like I don't think she can help me. As for insurance, I need to call and check, but I doubt they pay anything on IVF.
HI GUYS,
I AM NEW TO THE SITE, I HAVEA 2 YEAR OLD THEN SUFFERED 2 MISCARRIAGES, IM ON MY 4TH IUI AND 6 DAYS POST IUI. IM SO GRATEFUL FOR ALL YOUR POSTS, I HAVE BEEN READING FOR A WEEK AND THOUGHT I SHOULD JOIN. ITS NICE TO HERE PEOPLES JOURNEY THROUGH THE MONTH IS MUCH LIKE MINE, THE UPS/DOWNS, THIS CRAMP, THAT CRAMP.
Hi Missyzane08--
I also had an IUI last month and it didn't work... I decided to take a month off too- just to jump off the rollercoaster... I went to the doctor and he said it was ok to go off clomid/HCG shot for a month and then go back- its not something that builds up in your body... so because of that I am now drug free for one month.. the clomid made me too weepy/moody etc.. I just needed a break.... Good luck - let me know if you hear otherwise..
-Mollie
Hello, if I were you I would ask your OB who they would recommend. That is what I would do and they were more than helpful. You only stay with the RE until you are about 8 weeks along then you go back to the OB. So it isn't like they are going to lose you as a patient. When I started this journey my OB wouldn't prescribe me anything she sent me right to a RE, and she even helped me with insurance. It was the best move I made and my RE is awesome. I hope this helps!
ALL: I am currently 2 days past IUI and my bbs hurt like crazy. This was my first month on follistim the nurse said this is normal but I thought by now it would subside. Did this happen to anyone else on follistim? And if this is one of the side effects did anyone have any others. I would like to prepare myself of what to expect.
Bromthed: How are you doing? I have been thinking about you. I am praying for you always! Keep positive and good things will come. I just know it.
HI LADIES! I am a newbie to this and thought to tell my story. But firstly, good luck to all of you and I am excited to be here.
I am 37; my DH is 36. We have been ttc for about 9 months. I just did one rnd of clomid (100mg) and my 1st iui on 1/5. I did not have any cramping or effects from it. However, now I am just 3 dpiui and I am having crazy hot flashes. I have been pregnant in my 20's and remember that I did not feel symptoms until after af was due (implantation.) Has anyone here experienced hot flashes at this point? I do not want to get my hopes up but we so desperately, like everyone else here, wants a tiny bambino. (our entire family inclusive of those in India and Italy are waiting to hop a plane:) I am due to go in to dr's on 1/9 for a progesterone test.
Danielle: Welcome to our world (sad to say) This isone of the most wonderful, supportive blogs to be on! Good Luck and keep us posted :)
Dimps: I am on 112.5 Gonal F and 75 Menopur since Tuesday I am going bk on Saturday for more bw/monitoring...I did have 1 left over follie from last month that was a 12.? but re said dont worry that one should be gone about time we are ready for iui...I will post after re calls Saturday afternoon...thanks for not forgetting about me that makes a person feel nice! God Bless :)
Hi everyone… I am writing after a while... I am now 5 weeks pregnant. I have started spotting on the 7th. My doctor gave me this injection that I will have to take every 4th day in my deep muscle. (in my bottom) you will not believe how much it hurts. I will have to take 4 more…… when they give the inj it hurt and still now after 2 days its still hurting… I pray that non of you go through this…..
All ladies who got BFP this month ….. a big congratulation to all of you. And for others good luck . Lots and lots of baby dust.
And for those who r new here…. Just want to say you have found the best forum ever. These wonderful ladies are the most supportive and kind….
Hello All,
I am back in action now I had to take a month off to reflect the past 2 months and our first IUI which was a bfn. But now I am happy to say I am back and feeling better about everything. We are going to try our 2nd IUI sometime this month we just started takeing Provera to bring on my monthly so we can get started so im thinking it will happen at the end of the month or begining of Feb. My holidays were ok could have been better as im sure all of yours could have been to but things are looking up no dobut. I talked with my DR and he told me that when I do my next IUI instead of takeing Progesterone pills I will need to take Progesterone injections and if I get a BFP then I will need to take them throughout the first 12 weeks and then maybe the last 12. Dose anyone know anything about the injections or has had experiance with them?
For those of you who go BFP CONGRATS I am so happy for you and whish you all the love, and luck in the world.
For those of us that had bfn im in your boat and am hopeing for you what I hope for myself this new year a little one.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
Happy New Year everybody!!! Its been awhile since I poosted. But of course I have been reading all the post.
To all the new comers, u r all welcome. As you well know by now, you have a family that cares here. You can discuss all you are experiencing in this forum coz there will definately be someone to reach out to you.
If you got a bfn this past month or more, like I did with my 2nd IUI, please stay positive, know that ur bundle of joy is coming, all perfect and the cutest thing ever!!! Infact, I must confess that all of you ladies are so great, reading thru ur posts and seeing ur strength thru ur words. I'm so honored to know all u women of virtue and great strength.
If you got a bfp; CONGRATULATIONS!!! Might be hard, but try to enjoy all the pregnant symptoms for it only proves more that ur little one is really growing inside of you!! Pls, feel free to share what u r going thru with all of us. Sticky vibes, new mamas!!!
Bfromthed - U have been a steady source of welcome to all the new comers and I would like to commend you for being there for almost all who post in this forum, while must of us oldies went quiet. Thank you and God bless. You have been thru quite alot this past month or so and I pray that everything works out with this cycle and I wish you baby dust in ur next IUI.
Happy new year ladies!!!! I haven't written in so long. Well just to give you an update, I am now 7 weeks prego and the baby heartbeat is going strong. its at a 138 now. My bladder is constantly full and I barely eat cause I am never hungry. For those who are in the 2ww window don't stress yourself, be patient, cause in the end you will just about kill yourself with being anxious like I almost did. And for those who got their AF, don't be discouraged. I went through hell and back trying to get pregnant and I am only 26. You would think a person my age shouldn't have any issues. But thats what i said. I was told that when God thinks its my time then it will happen. It took 2 miscarriages and my right fallopian tube to be removed and 2 painful HSG's for him to realize that it was my time. So all I'm saying is don't give up. Baby dust to all and keep your heads up to the sky.
Hi , so nice to see you again…. I don’t think you remember me, but we had our first IUI in the same time, I got a BFN. Then you took a month off but I didn’t… in my second IUI I got a BFP and now I am 5 weeks…; I am also taking the injection. I have 3 more to go. They are painfullllll :(... get ready my friend…. My Dr told me I might not need to take them again in the end … but that depends….. I am wishing you all the best…
Sorry I have not logged on in 2 days...threw dh a bday bash so I was extremley busy...
Glad to see that some of you are back:) Went to re's office Saturday and he upped my Gonal F to 150 and I go back on Tuesday for more bw/us...the last time I was on 150 remember I had the 21 follies and still bfdn! so here we go I will keep you guys posted God Bless to all DO NOT LOSE YOUR FAITH...the devil is busy and will temp you and God hears our cries...in th ebible it says be fruitful a reproduce so follow his word and keep the faith and when you pray repeat it back "God you said be fruitful and reporduce" and we are just trying to follow your wishes! :)
hi! dont know if you remember me or not but i had one iui last febuary it ended with a miscarriage at five weeks did another iui in october and it was bfn and know we are getting ready to try again either feb or march.
i just found out today that a family friend who is 18 just found out she is pregnant and she was not planning this i wish it was that easy for me it is not only emotionally but also finacially tuff we dont have alot of money but having a baby is the only thing i think about and everytime it fails i want to give up but i dont because i know it will happen i just have to keep trying. DOES ANYONE HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM I DO THE RE SAID I HAVE LOW PROGESTERONE LEVELS THAT IS ALL THEY CAN FIND WRONG IF SO WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR THIS
BABY DUST TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
Welcome back sweetie...glad to see that you will be getting started again...have they tried to give you progestrone medications? I would do some asking...good luck! :)
Hi Ladies,
im now 8 days post iui, no symptoms yet, possibly very mild cramping but nothing major. Im just praying hard and imagining the egg implanting in my uterus. 4th time will b e a charm. ok, stay positive and baby dust to all.
bfromthebed: glad you are back in the game and one of those many follies will be your baby this month.
Hello! Well I am 7 dp IUI and my chest is still killing me I have been living in a sports bra the last 3 days. I think it is way to early for them to hurt this bad the nurses at the RE office said that it could be a reaction for the follistim but they are still hurting pretty bad. I just went this morning for my progesterone test so I will call in this afternoon for my results. I hope that is ok. Well I hope all that are in the 2 WW are doing well and not going to crazy. The first week for me went fast hopefully the next week goes by just as fast.
To all new comers welcome welcome welcome. This site is amazing and the most supportive around. I don't know what I would do without these woman. They are absolutely amazing and a great support system.
Thank you all Ladies for being you! I don't know what I would do without you!
AF came today for me after a month break. My 2nd IUI was in December. My DH is not ready for us to do another IUI, so looks like we are going to take another month break.
How do I feel about this? I really dont know. Usually, my Cycle is 23/24 days but there was a 3/2 days delay and u know what that did to us - our hopes were up but now, with AF here......I'm trying not to feel sorry for myself.
Anyways, good luck to all of you ttc!!!
I am not even 1dpiui (2nd iui) and feel so hopeless. I have been reading your post (some have made me laugh, some have made me cry, and some have made me yell at the computer "your pregnant")
We have been trying for our 2nd child for about a year, it took 2.5 yrs to conceive our daughter. I will be 36 tomorrow and I don't want to wait any longer the more I think about it the more I cry. I have undiagnosed infertility, but do have PCOS and MTHFR (clotting disorder).
My trigger shot makes me so sick and then I get to look forward to the Prometrium that makes me feel pregnant and sick. My last go around, I was so sure I was pregnant that I think I tested 6 or 7 times (each with a BFN).
I am so glad that I found this site and there is someone that understands what I am going through.
When I did my first IUI last month my breasts started hurting about 48 hours post IUI and they hurt for the next twelve days of until AF showed. I sure hope you get a BFP!
Waitingfornumber2: I have undiagnosed infertility too. Actually though my OB GYN thinks it is my husband, his sperm count is high, but it is abnormally thick. They have him taking mucinex. We have tried for about thirteen months now. We did an IUI on December 6, 2008. We took a cycle off and we're going to try again the end of January. If we don't have any luck by May I think I might go to an RE. I'm willing to go further if we have to. I don't have any children yet, but I'm just 24. What finally worked for you when you got pregnant with your daughter?
We are seeing an RE and have been since October, I didn't want to waste anytime. My DH has not been checked again, he was before #1 and everything checked out fine. I found out I was pregnant with my daughter while I was in between cycles of clomid. We were waiting for my AF so that we could start clomid again with iui.
Don't give up and don't discount that you are "just 24". When you are ready, your ready. If you haven't been checked for MTHFR you might what to ask your OB to have you checked. It's a blood test and it also checks for a handful of other disorders. I swear that it was because I started taking a baby aspirin and extra folic that allowed me to get pregnant.
Hi - I'm new to this site. Your stories are wonderful and heartbreaking but alway hopeful. I just had my first IUI - I'm 9 dp IUI - 50 mg clomid, ovidrel shot and on prometrium. I've had a lot of symptoms mimicking pregnancy (cramping, sore bb, mostly) but I'm trying not to get my hopes up since these are likely caused by the prometrium/progesterone. I have my pregnancy test this Friday. Hopefully we get a BFP! Trying for a while now. Sometimes I kick myself for waiting for so long. I'm 35 and DH is 35. Your positive thoughts would be much appreciated. Baby dust to everyone!!!
I am pretty sure I had the same problem thats why I had both of my miscarriages. I asked about that after my iui was done and they gave me some pills called estima. Its a progesterone pill. they told me it would help with the implantation and also help not to shed my uterine lining and it worked. So if possible ask for that or any other type of progesterone. I hope I helped. Good luck!
Hello everyone,
I haven't posted for a while but read your posts often. You are all such a wonderful and supportive group of women. God has a plan for all of us and unfortunately, we have to be patient and wait for our turn.
Congratulations to all that have been blessed with a postive pregnancy - I wish you a wonderful 9 months.
I have had 4 BFN IUI's. The last was this past September. We took a few months off and started saving and preparing for IVF in the new year. Just before we were going to start, I had a change of heart and wanted to try one last IUI. For some reason, in my heart, I felt that one last IUI was the way to go. I am 35 and my hubby is 36 and we have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We've been trying to conceive of 16 months. So, I am currently being monitored and I've been on 75 units of Gonal-F for the first 5 days. Yesterday, they decreased my dosage to 37.5 units because I have 4 good sized follicles and many smaller ones. I am most likely going to do back to back IUI's starting either tomorrow or Thursday. If this doesn't work, we will go ahead with IVF in late February or early March.
Bfromthed: I have been reading your posts. You are a wonderful and caring person and I have you in my prayers. It will happen for you.
Thank you again to everyone for being so supportive.
Well I received my progesterone tests results and it came back a 10. So I don't have to go on progesterone but it went down from the previous 2 months which were 19 each month. I hope this isn't an indication tha tthe iui didn't take this month. But I am trying to stay positive. I have 7 more days to go in this wonderful 2 week wait.
Bfromthed:
How are you doing this cycle? Thinking about you?
jlynn13: Thanks for getting back to me. I am still in pain it isn't any worse but not any better. I just hope and pray that it is all for good reason.
Kisstin: How are you feeling? How is the pregnancy so far.
i will ask about that the first time i was on progesterone suppositories but they dont think my lining was thick enough for implantation and the second iui i hurt so bad afterwards i think they might of overstimulated my ovaries but that time i was on tomoxifin and my lining was great so hopefully third time is a charm.sorry i havent been on here in awhile how many iui have u done and did they work
I am doing good. Going here in about an hour to hear the heartbeat for the first time. I CANT WAIT. I have been scared because I hurt my back really bad a week ago and couldnt walk and had to have an adjustment done by the Chiro. I am sure everything is ok because now I feel great. Have been having crazy dreams like I did when I was pregnant with my daughter. I just cant wait to hear that little heart beating away for the first time. Its soo reassuring. I cant believe I am 16 and a half weeks already, time is flying... I think its going faster because I am in the midst of potty training my daughter also.. fun fun fun.
Let us know when you test. I cant wait to hear the results. I am praying for a BFP for you.
I have been trying to concieve since Nov of 2006 no luck on my own. Went to an infertility Dr. in November 2007. Started Clomid for 3 cycles no success only 1 follicle each cycle. So we decided to try the injections. A series of 2 shots a night for 7 nights. I was on the Follistm 75 mg for 5 nights and 5mg of lupron to control my period. I went to the Dr. on the 6th day I had about 19 follicles all the same size 16 to 17mm!! I am not sure if that is a good thing or not. She then reduced me down to 37.5 mg of follistm for the next 2 nights along with the lupron. The morning before the IUI I took my last shot the ovidrel shot. The next morning I had my IUI, that was on Jan. 7th. That night I was in SO much pain. I called the Dr. and she said it was because I had so many follicles that when they burst to drop the egg they all have fluid so my abdomen was full of fluid, she was also worried my ovaries were hyperstimulated. As of today I am feeling much better I was on bed rest up to yesterday. Also my nips hurts, my breasts have enlarged, and cramping all symptoms of pregnancy. I know it is probably just the results from all of the hormomes. Its just an evil game, you get your hopes up and then you call your Dr all excited for them to tell you different. I go in tom. for an ultrasound to make sure everything is ok. Then Beta on the 21st.. Has anyone else had the problem of so many follicles and results were good?
Thank you for the post..we are here to support each other this is dream that we all have and when dreams don't come true especially those that seem that we should be able to acheive we need each one another.
I went to re's office today and e2 is 247 on the right I have a 12 and a 10 (I have a tube there) on the left I have a 10 (no tube due to tubal preg) continuing Gonal f 150 and 75 Menopur and back on Thursday for bw/us looking like iui number 5 will be this weekend! :) Hugs and God Bless
Darcy: 2 cycles ago I had 21 follies and still bfn so don't get tied up in the numbers...look at most of the bfps on this site they have 1 or 2 and still have success so don't get tied up in the numbers....good luck and keep us posted:) Baby Dust!...take it easy!
I'm new to the site and would like to express my thankfullness to all who have shared their stories. I have been trying to get pregnant for 5 years. I have a 7 yr old son and my fiance has a 13 yr old. I am a professional model and feel i'm ready to take time away from my career to have a family. We have tried the ovulation calander, and now taking fertility drugs...still no luck...any suggestions?...i welcome all comments
Welcome...this is the most supportive and wonderful place to be in this situation! What exactly are you trying?? iui ivf? Are you on injectables? Keep me posted!
I too am waiting for number 2, i saddly had 2 mc ttc my second child and now i am told i have old eggs, im almost 30. so im on my 4th iui and the doctor said we have to hurry if im going to have another baby.Like that doesnt add to the montly stress. But im very hopeful, i know its going to happen, its just a matter of when.
I too felt pregnant and tired on the prometrium and very hard to take care of a child, and i felt guilty taking knaps for a week and then i wasnt even pregnant. I decided to stop taking the prometrium and now just use the vaginal crinone, or prochieve, it is supposed to be more effective and you don't get the systemic side effects of fatigue, moody, etc. the only down is it starts to leak out a little afer about a week, but id rather taht then be tired and not even pregnant. so check with your re and see what they say.
to all: im 10 days post iui, some twinges of cramps here and thier, bbs still feel fine though so im trying to be positive and not think af is coming. Im so excited to be pregnant. Praying like crazy. ok, baby dust to all.
Glad to see you are being upbat from all the post some ladies bbs dont ever get sore so don't just count that as a definite symptom...good luck sweetie and keep us posted...me back to re's office tomorrow for more bw/us:)
Hi I am 8 dp IUI and my bbs have been absolutely killing me since my iui was done. So I am hoping that all this pain is for good reason. This month I can honestly say I will be p*ssed if I am not preggers. I think I am passed the whole crying part now I am jsut getting down right angry.
I also started with mild cramping today I hope and pray so much this is a good sign. This whole process is really starting to get to me. I have been very good lately but I don't know what happened my happy switch has been turned off and now I am just getting angry.
Sorry for the vent. Sometimes I am sick of just thinking about all of this too much but I can't help it. Anyone else feel this way.
bromthed: How has your bw/us been going so far? How is this cycle going for you?
Kisstin: Thanks for your words of encouragement I really need them these days. It always happens to me. The first week post IUI I am always optimistic then after the first week my optimisim starts to fade and that is what drives me nuts. Please tell me I am crazy for feeling this way?
Thanks for the kind words.. Its nice to know you can vent and someone is there to respond and help. I saw the Dr. today for an ultrasound. It looks like 5 follicles have bursted out of the 19 so that is good. She said my abdomen has alot of fluid in it and my left ovarie is still enlarged. She said other then that everything looks good. I go for my beta on 01/21 countdown.. I cant stand the waiting. I asked her if I could take a home pregnancy on sunday or monday. She said she would not advise it because she has had a patient take a home pregnancy that came back negative. The patient was upset and went out drinknig. Come to find out she was indeed pregnant. So just because the pregnancy test says negative there is still a chance.
I am new to this site. I am also in my 2WW waiting period. I am on 3dpiui. This is my 5th IUI, 2 resulted in pregnancy but m/c both at 6ww in 2008. Don't know the reason why? Did not have any pregnancy symptoms only sore bobs both time. I have no family here is US so I just kept to myself. I have mix feelings. I can't feel happy anymore about BFP because now I worry what will happen next but again its very hard to see BFN. Hoping this is the year for all of us. I am joing this site in a hope of getting support from all of you and to express my feelings. I am so scared.
Darcy she is absolutley right....in 06 I took a hpt 5dp af was due and just didnt feel right so went into re's office the next day and hcg was 533 you know a hpt should have picked that up!!!!!!!!!! Good luck and stay positive!
dimps; things are going slow but well I went in yesterday and had 2 on the right...10, 12(tube there) and 1 on the left (no tube there) 10 so they had me to continue the Gonal 150 and 75 Menopur and I go back in the morning for more bw/us...so I will post after they call in the afternoon with the plan...
i know how you feel, i too an very happy and optimistic first week post iui, then i start to have cramps and other symptoms that make me question weather its baby cramps or af coming cramps. I took last month off cause of cysts an i was really pissed and cried alot about it but it actually helped me because i didnt think about this for a whole month, i ate what i wanted, no clinic visits to upset me. So this month i am very optimistic but still guarded as i don't want to get my hopes up too much and then crash as usual. It will happen for all of us, it just takes forever. I don't know, its a very hard process. I look at people with 3 kids and just envy how easy it was for them and the peopel that spontaniously find out they are pregnant without even trying. I fell like i will never have that joy of getting prego in a relaxed mannor. Anyway, thanks for your support.
To befromthebed: how was clinic?
Hope2009: had had 2 mc too and i know what you mean. I will not be happy untill a baby makes it to 25wks.
Did you know the reason for your infertility or was it unexplained? I guess the reason I ask is because 1) we have unexplained and 2) I'm not very confident in IUI just because it failed our first time.
We are getting ready to do our second IUI the end of this month. My husband is confident that it is just a matter of time. Right now I'm on cycle day 29 and 75% of my cycles are 28 days. So I did sort of get my hopes up. I've been thinking it will start for 48 hours now. I took my temperature and it was low, like 96.8. I figured it I was pregnant it would probably be much higher (98ish). Anyone ever been pregnant and had low temps?
i've been stressing out lately and i've been so depressed.
iui was unsuccessful and iam taking a month off, i do have my right fallopian blocked from an ectopic pregnancy, but i did have 5 good follicles on my left side. now the doctor has asked me to repeat some bloodtests which i have done almost a year ago.
most of the tests have got to do with my thyroid. one year ago my anti- thyroglobulin was high and i wasnt treated. could this be causing my misscarages and my infertility????
Thanks for your words of encouragement and it is so nice to have someone else feel the same things as you. I have 5 more days left and the symptoms of af are there. My bb's are still killing me and I have been getting mild cramping. I hope it isn't af but I can't tell anymore. It is all so frustrating. I just hope it is all for good reason. But each day that passes the more pessimistic I get. What day are you on right now? How are you feeling? What meds have you been taking?
Thanks again for all your support!
bromthed: How are you doing? How did the bw/us go?
There are a lot of newbies to this site! This is great. I read the posts almost everyday, but don't always have something to post.
I thought I would let you know my status. Still not preggo.... yet. I am hoping it works this month... as I do all the other months.
My RE changed my meds a bit. She calls it a cocktail approach, in hopes that it works this time. The Clomid can thin the lining as well as change the mucus. My lining has always been great, however she is thinking that the mucus might not be as good. She said there was no way to test that, but thought it would be best to switch from 100 mg of Clomid, to 50 mg of Clomid with one shot of Follistim AQ 150 mg. I take the Follistim later today...but have noticed this week that I feel more "wet" than normal. (sorry tmi).
Go in Monday for U/S- and am hoping that I have some good follies. Last month I had 2 30's, and one 27. If all looks good on Monday, then U/S will either probably be Wednesday.
Anyway, good luck to all of those in the 2WW! I hope you all get very sticky BFP's!!!
Anyone about to go into the 2 WW?
I have not been on in about a week but try to keep up with everyone's posts.
Quick update on me...2nd failed IUI cycle in Dec (5th iui all together). DH and I met with RE Tuesday to discuss next step. Looks like IVF is it as there is male factor. He has history of low count but the numbers are all over the place. Back in Oct, thought we would have bad sample but after being on clomid, dh's $s were great and still no BFP. So RE decided to continue clomid for him for Dec cycyle and numbers were awful. Count so low after wash that RE decided to not have me come in for 2nd iui day after but to bd on our own...no BFP
Now it looks like we will be doing IVF with ICSI as that takes away the male factor.
Total costs looks like it will be about $15,600. My dh is freaking out. May wait until Jul or Oct ivf cycle to start in order to save up the $$$.
We do not want to finance 100% and have credit card bills galore with 2-3 kids, lol...But if that is the route we have to take, that'll be fine as we aren't the first and won't be the last.
I am wishing all of you luck this year. I will be checking in on you guys and also posting updates on myself...
Heard babies heartbeat on Tuesday......... how refreshing. It took a little while to find but once we did it was a beating away. I will be finding out what I am having on Feb 10th... I cannot wait. Lets pray for girl heeehee.
Hi, Oh that is so wonderful please keep us posted on what the sex is? That is so wonderful!
Well I am scheduled to go to the RE office on 1/22 (next Thursday). But on Tuesday 1/20 it will be 2 weeks exactly from the IUI and I was thinking of testing that day. The last two cycles I got my af two weeks to the day from the IUI in the afternoon it was just spotting but I always knew it was coming. SO on Tuesday morning I think I will take a hpt and then see. What do you think? I don't know if I could bare to take one earlier than that because I don't want the dissapointment of another BFN. What do you think I should do? As of today my bbs are still killing me and I am getting mild cramping and I have had a constant head ache for the lsat two days. Not a bad one jsut an annoying one. I hope they are all good signs.
You are having all the same signs that I did right around the same time. I had the cramps but I knew they were earlier than usual and the headaches (which I still get the headaches). I also was getting charlie horses at night really bad. Those signs sound excellent. You could take a hpt Tuesday morning. I took mine exactly 14 dpiui and it was positive so I think you should be ok. I will be praying hard for you. All your signs sound good.
It is so true about some people not knowing about the world we exist in...It can br really trying but faith in God and support from groups like this help to make the ordeal that much more bearable :-)
I am 7dpiui and have little symptoms as well...The sore boobs can be from the trigger shot as that makes your body feel pregnant. The progesterone may have something to do with it as well. I know it is hard, the 2ww, but try and stay occupied so that the time can pass by smoothly...I know, I know, easier said than done :-)
Keep us posted on your progress...btw, i have my beta on 12/30....praying and finger crossed for a bfp...but still taking it one day at a time :-)
Wish u all the best. Lots and lots of baby dust….
Ok, I am being a little too ungrateful. We have our health, parents and siblings by our side. God has been kind to us. No complains…… when it is the right time god will give us the gift.
I am so glad that all of u r here. This is a wonderful forum. All of u give me the courage to go on….
BIG HUGs and baby dust for all.
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL.
Merry christmas and a (very Pregnant ) happy new year....
missy: try and stay positive in 06 with my first pg I did not get bfp til 6 days after af was due and i took a hpt the night before i went in for b/w!!! and that was the ONLY sign I had was a late cycle! God Bless I just returned from the mall! :)
welcome to this forum. Like you said it is an amazing site so welcome onboard and enjoy.
Has anyone ever done clomid, injectables and ovulated (I know I did b/c my progesterone was 52) and not gotten AF? I'm not sure what to make of this all....I'm currently 17dpiui. I may test again tomorrow but I just hate seeing BFN!!
jll: I did do clomid and injectables this cycle but I dont have my progestrom checked til monday.
I am 12dp IUI and I don’t have any symptoms? one in a while I have AF like crams, it lasts for 10/15 seconds and that’s about it? I am taking progesterone but my BB’s don’t hart …. Does this mean my IUI didn’t work…. I am just toooo afraid to take a hpt. I don’t want to see a BFN. My beta is on 1/3/09. did any one get a BFP without any symptoms?
Baby dust and good luck.
B74: Welcome...Good luck to you and keep us posted!
babyday: welcome if you google pregnancy with no symptoms there are 100's of women that have no symptoms at all but a late af is the clue! Good luck baby dust and sticky vibes to you tooo!
To Missyzane08....I also had cramping around day 9piui and on and off ever since. I assuming it all has to do with implantation.
ALL:
Well I went to the RE this morning for my bw & us. I am starting 150 of Follistium tonight. Then I go back in on Wednesday for a check up on it. Anyone else take this drug? Any side effects I should know about?
It's been a while since I've posted. I took a couple of months off. I was having a hard time with all those crazy meds. I felt it was only a matter of time before one of my loved ones would haul off and slap me. I just had my 2nd iui on 12/26. Today is 3 dpiui. This time my RE added 150 u. of Bravelle to the 150 u. of Menopur I took the last time. Took the injections for 7 nights. Now I'm in the 2 week anxiety driving wait!
It's amazing how many people are posting and in the 2ww. It is truly such a comfort to know that there are many of us facing the same obstacles.
Bfromthed: I periodically check in and have followed your posts. I am praying for you.
natty: I was wondering what happened to you...welcome back in the dreaded 2ww...thanks for the prayers
All: I was just curious about some things and called re's office...I asked could high progestrone levels make you tired and they said yes so thats why they dont really count on that for a preggo symptom...I know im only 7dpiui and that is the only symptom besides these minimal cramps that I had this a m for about 2 minutes...I have been having butterflies like tickling all day but they are all through my tummy...I don't know what to make of all of this I am just praying and hoping that this worked this time!
jll0802: Great numbers mommy!!! Keep me posted...I don't have sore bbs just sensative nips...so I will post if anything develops:) Stick vibes....and don't become a stranger we need the encouragement!
Unfortunately, I am now contradicting myself and when I o'd...my OPK never came back positive at home, but now thinking back, I think I did on Saturday 12/20 because I remember having some "signs" but when I took the test, it didn't show positive for o. Which would have been 3 days early!! I normally do on day 11. That would have only been day 8! I also took the trigger shot on Monday 12/22 and had iui on Wed 12/24...now I'm totally thinking that I missed the mark!!! Can anyone give me any positive feedback on my freaking out a bit???
I too did iui and go for my bloodwork on Jan 2nd. I am really nervous and want it to work. I've had SUPER sore breasts from 3dpiui, been sleeping more and increased appetite. I have been bloated since 3dpiui and have veins on the side of my belly, upper thighs and breasts.
I've been placed on progestrone suppositories and estrace - so I don't know if the symptoms are 'fake'.
I really hope everyone in here gets a BFP!
To EVERYONE:
What are some of the symptoms you guys are feeling?
My beta is on the 1/3/09. I will be very very disappointed if I find out that actually it’s a BFN. Please tell me is it normal to get AF like crams and still be pregnant?
Another thing is I don’t have any major symptoms. My BB’s r fine. I am just a little nauseous, and tired….
Thank you - its so good to have some support from women who are also going through the same struggle.
B, my iui was 12 days ago (I hada double). I test on Friday and am really nervous. My bbs hurt, especially on the sides and the middle.
Late last night I had cramps for approximately 10 - 15 secs - but they didn't seem like AF cramps. I am on 100mg of progestrone suppos. twice a day.
I am getting so tempted to just go to a walk in clinic and ask them to do a blood test! They normally give the results the next day! Friday seems really far away.
I am already feeling depressed.
Babyday: That is GREAT! You should take another one tomm - it may get darker!!!
To all: I hope we all have double pink lines in 2009!
Hope all is well. We are all in this together and it is good to have people to feel, share and understand the struggles of infertility.
With that said, I did my bloodwork and u/s this morning and RE's office called me to let me know the results. They are unfortunately a BFN. Suprisingly, I am ok. Still have not told my DH yet but it is what it is.
I hope those remaining in the cycle get their BFPs and those that did already, MUCH CONGRATS to you and your family.
Two more days until the new year so let's start off on a positive note :-)
Meeting with the RE on Tuesday to discuss the next step...Will keep you posted.
baby dust to you all!!!
xo,
marline
spoc: all of that sounds like implantation things so keep the faith...that is allllll positive signs...stay focused and dont become pee stick addicted...lol God Bless!
All: I took a hpt today just to see if it would be neg to see if the trigger shot was out of my system and it was I know its too ealy to look for bfp because I am on cd 24 and only 8dpiui so I am just waiting my time out and still symptomless today but still faithful and hopeful...
Thank u sooo much for ur support. I didn’t take a test today. I will wait till 3rd because I don’t think I can take a BFN. I had 2 miscarriages before and the cramps that I am getting r a little strange (they r quite instance).
Do pray for me… I will keep u posted.
A happy new year to all…
Lots and lots of baby dust…
All: cd25 and 9dpiui I woke up this a m with a temp of 98.1 which is only up .1 from yetsreday but I do have mild cramping that comes and goes and mild lower back pain...I have to work today and tomorrow but I am wishing everyone a blessed, safe, prosporus, and baby filled 2009!!!!
I am in tears as I write this - I got a bfn this morning - its been 13dpiui. I went bed to bed and cried.
I kept staring at the stick to see if another line would come up - but it didn't.
Its so hard to keep going. I have no signs of my period. I've called my fertility clinic and asked them to test me tom instead of Jan 2nd.
I can't even stop crying.
I really pray that all you women get a bfp - we would all make great mothers.
Me
EVERYONE-
I hope all of you in the 2ww are able to find a few moments of anxiety-free living during these stressful days!! I had cramps 3-6dpiui. My bbs are a little sensitive, but I'm taking 2 100mg progesterone suppositories so it's probably a side-effect. Although last month I didn't feel nearly this tired and sensitive. Keeping my fingers crossed that this is all of our months!! Hang in there...our wait is almost over. To those who've been blessed with BFP's for their New Year, CONGRATS!! You will all make wonderful mother's!! To those who got BFN's, stay strong, the New Year will bless us all with beautiful healthy babies!!
Remember, amongst eveyrthing else, we are a few hours away from witnessing a NEW YEAR. That in itself is truly a blessing. I know this infertitlity business seems to get the best of us. Just know that we are not alone in this ordeal. We will all be blessed with our miracles one BFP at a time. :-)
Here's to hoping you all have a wonderful New Year.
xo,
marline
All: Happy new Year may God sprinkle all blessings upon you and yours in 09!
spoc: Most of us in this forum know what u r going through. There r some things in life that is not in our control. We can only try our best hope for the best and pray….. we will have to be strong ( actually I am saying this to myself) we both still have hope as I found out that many women didn’t get a BFP till the 16th day…. Hmmmmm and there is always next time ……. Right ?!!?
Thank you for your kind words. I know you're right - we always have next month and should'nt give up hope.
Babyday - Maybe the 'spotting' that you are experiencing could be old blood?? I go in for my b/w tom and will know for sure what's up. Are you feeling any other symptoms? Sore bbs, nausea?
Bfromthed: I started feeling AF cramps on day 11, 12 and 13. But they are not frequent. I am noticing my bloating has also subsided. The veins are still very obvious - but I think I am a veiny person to begin with :-(
Hang in there B - because I hear a lot of women have AF like cramps but then their AF never comes :-)
Have any of you tried Vitex, baby aspirin, B6 & B50??? I am looking into that.....
Actually, has anyone here tried vitex??
Happy new year and may all you ladies get your BFP and then have a healthy pregnancy in 2009 :-)
Bfromthed: thanks for making me think positive. i don't know if i want to test tomorrow which is my 14dpiui. Maybe i should wait a few more days. I am soo scared just thinking about it. Happy New Year to you all and lots of BFP in 09.
i lost my first pregnancy at 27 weeks, and i had 2 misscarages after that including an ectopic pregnancy, i have been trying to have kids for 5 years, and will all these problems it feels like hell. i had iui 4 days ago, and now i have to wait 14 days to see if it is going to work out for me this time. since i did the iui i've been having ovairian pain and i have a bloated stomache as if iam 3 months pregnant is that normal??? anyway i really wish you all the best and sooner or later you are all going to become mums! everything happens for a reason and it all happens in the right time, just keep youselves relaxed and stress free if you can !
spoc: The only extra vitamine I take is prenatal and folic acid let me know if you hear anything on the other med...at this point we will do whatever...:) Keep me posted with your progress...
I am very worried….
I am hoping and praying that tomorrow u will have a BFP. I have my beta on the 3rd that means I will get the report on the 4th.
Lots and lots of baby dust and a very happy new year.
p.s for last 6 hrs i had no spotting. please pray for me....
Lily: I had my first I iui 14 days ago and will go for b/w tomorrow - my clinic gives the results the same day so I'll find out tom if I am or not. In regards to the symptoms, I've had SUPER sore breasts and belly was VERY bloated. 4dpiui I had stabbing pains in my uterus and that stopped....from 2dpiui to 10dpiui I've had twinges, weird cramps on both ovaries. I've also been eating a lot but today everything seems back to normal. I don't care to eat and my bloating has subsided.
After the back to back iuis, I have been placed on progestrone suppos. and estrace. There is a possibility that ALL of my symptoms are due to the meds :-(
Missy: Please stay positive (its really hard) but I keep telling myself that God will bring our miracle soon - maybe its not ready to come be with us just yet :(
Babyday: I soooo want to tell you to POAS because I think the line may be darker - but at the same time if its not that would just break your heart. The fact that you had a faint line is awesome. In regards to the cramping, I had AF like cramps...but they are very subtle. And back pain. The bbs are still sore.
Bfromthed: If I am not preggers this month, I plan to do the following 'recipe' for the month of Jan. They say Vitex helps balance hormones and promotes mutiple egg growth during ovulation (I think that what I read) and baby aspirin helps thin out the blood which increases blood flow to your uterus...so here is a recipe that I found:
Whole Cycle:
1 prenatal vitamin daily
1 baby aspirin (78 to 81mg) daily
1 50mg B6 vitamin in the morning
1 B50 complex in the evening
From day of cycle day to ovulations only:
2 Vitex 500mg in the morning
2 Vitex 500mg in the evening
The most important ingredient:
Positive thinking and a prayer!
I have read a lot of women have had positive results with vitex and baby aspirin....and the dosages are in moderation so I plan to try this next.....anything for a BFP!
I am now about 9 1/2 weeks along after a successful 2nd iui. My DH has zero count so iui with a donor was our only chance to have a child. I am feeling pretty good. I am tired and hungry ALL the time but have had very little nausea. The downside of no nausea is that I'm keeping everything I eat down so I'm already getting a bit of a pooch in my belly. We heard the heartbeat on 12/23 and go for our 3rd u/s on 1/6.
I will be praying for all of you. For those that are new to the site, you have picked a great spot for love and support. Everyone on here is wonderful. Have a wonderful New Year and remember - THIS IS YOUR YEAR!!!!!!!
I've read a lot of posts about women that barely have any symptoms.....you never know....you may be one of those that don't feel anything before a BFP :-)
Sometimes I think its better to have no symptoms then fake ones that come through meds :-(
Molson,
Congratulations to you and yours :-)
It would be great if you can tell us what you felt before you got your BFP? I know I would love to know and so would Bfromthed :-)
I forgot to answer your question.....you can get Vitex at a local GNC or any other health store. Its less then $10.00 and I've read from the other posts that it does not have any side effects...but then again all women are different and our bodies may react differently.
I am definately trying it for my Jan cycle.
Happy New Year. Well at least I hope it will be a happy year.....we all get that special gift we all hope for. I am 6dpiui. This is my 2nd iui and unlike the first, I am not experiencing any symptoms either apart from the fact that my DH and I both had the stomach flu for a couple of days that ended yesterday. This was my first new years without any kind of alcohol. I am trying to stay hopeful. I went for my progesterone test yesterday. My RE said that he would call me if my level was low so I could start the prog. suppositories. No call so I guess that is good. It's funny how you start the 2 ww so hopeful. It really gets hellish in the middle of the 2ww when you start to analyze every minute detail of what you are experiencing. Today at lunch, I mentioned to my DH, that every woman I look at is pregnant! So frustrating.
Re. Vitex - aka Chasteberry. I actually bought it and took it for one day before I saw my RE for the first time. He said he did not advocate herbals as there has not been enough published data to prove the efficacy for fertility. When you research the drug, there is a lot of info about Vitex related to both fertility and menopause. For fertility, it is said that this herbal aids the pituatary and hypothalamus glands - each of which is reponsible for the production and release of various hormones that stimulate egg production. The reccommended dosage is 3.5 to 4.2 mg. daily. Typical side effects are headaches and abdominal upsets. It is also prescribed in Europe for PMS (something I will definitely consider taking when all is said and done).
Aspirin - My RE does reccommend 81 mg. daily. Data shows that in addition to helping ovaries respond to procedures such as IVF by improving blood flow to the uterus and ovaries, it also boosts your immune system. Studies have also shown that taking a baby aspirin daily helps women develop more and stronger eggs.
FYI.....I am not a physician. Most of the above info, I read on-line or in books such as Getting Pregnant by Niels Lauersen, MD.
Lastly, I ache reading some of the posts by those of you who feel like your getting your AF's and can only relate to that deperate sadness. Don't give up hope. I know that pit of despair. It *****! I am 39 and have been ttc for 9 months. I never thought I wanted children until a couple of years ago. Naturally it has become the center of my existence.
Stay strong ladies. G-D speed to us all in our quest.
I am new to this group. I am on day 9 since I had my IUI. This is my second time doing this and it has been all natural both times. The first time I tried the IUI in November was a very trying time. I had no idea what to expect and pretty much obsessed until I ended up getting my period a week early.
I was curious if someone would be so kind to explain to me the lingo you use on here. I do not know what AF means or POAS. I am actually not sure what BFP or BFN means other than positive or negative. I'm sorry if I sound ignorant.
My situation is a little different than the other ladies on here but I do completely relate to all of you as well. I am in a same sex relationship and been with my partner for 7.5 years. We decided to try to have a family after we bought a house and I finished my undergrad.
Anyways, I have been through a gammet of tests and everything looks good. I had an HSG and was cleared. My doctor at the IVF clinic said I didn't need meds for the first few times. I am wondering why not though because it seems a lot of women do take meds.
I go for a blood test on 1/6 like a few of you. I am excited and nervous because I am fearful of receiving my period. So far it's different from last time in that I don't feel as anxious.
Any reassurement or advice would be so wonderful!
Thank you
Thank you for all your information. I think I'll try it in Jan.
Hi Bfromthed,
I just returned from the clinic and they will be calling me with my results in the afternoon. I am so nervous.
Missy,
I am sooo sorry. Its is really tough, in just a couple of hours I might be posting my news of a BFN :-(
Please stay strong.....your time will come...this is a test to make us stronger women :-)
Me
2009 will be our year I feel it! Welcome to all new comers. This is a great site and one that I love to be on. The women on it are wonderful and super supportive they have made the last few months bearable.
I hope you all had a wonderful new years! And I am only praying for good things to come in 2009 for all of us!
Missy - I'll send you a note
All - crazy thing happened around 10 pm last night. I had the strangest "cramping" in my lower abdomen, it felt like it was right at the front towards my belly, not deeper in my body. Kinda "shooting" like that almost took my breath away...not completely painful, just very strange. I felt it go up a bit, then down to, well, you know...it lasted about 5 seconds. It definitely was NOT gas (tmi) unless that feeling has all of a sudden changed. :) I don't know. It was just very weird and something that I had never felt before, ever. I was hoping that it means something positive, like implantation or something, but you know how every little thing makes us think of something or another...
any suggestions?
Oh, something that has really helped take my mind off of things for a bit of time...playing Wii. I go back to work on Monday, (1st grade teacher) so playing games has actually helped me not obsess while playing. But as soon as the games are over, I head right back to the computer.
Kel
I too should be hearing from the clinic between 12 and 2. I am trying to stay strong but my hearts hurting.Are you feeling any cramps?
I wasn't feeling any cramps this morning but they've kinds started back up this afternoon. A little part of me is hoping for a miracle but a big part of me knows that when the nurse calls and tells me 'its a negative' I'm going to break.
But just like all of you, I will pick myself back up and despite the pain, stand in line to get on the roller coaster for this cycle.
Me
My doctor did 2 IUI cycles with clomid. Now this cycle I am doing Follistim & IUI (which will probably be Tuesday or Wednesday). The doctor said we will try this twice then if it doesn't work we will move on to IVF. I have unexplained infertility so the doctor said for that the highest success is with IVF. But thankfully my inusrance is covering all of this so we have to exhaust the cheaper options first before moving on. I hope this helps!
Just got the call, the iui failed.
Feeling down and heart broken.
Me
MY DH AND I HAVE DECIDED TO TAKE A MONTH OFF OF GOING TO RE AND MEDS, I REALLY NEEDED A MONTH TO JUST FEEL LIKE MYSELF, WITHOUT CLOMID IN MY SYSTEM.
IT IS ALL SO EMOITIONALLY DRAINING THAT I NEEDED TO TAKE TIME TO JUST...BE.
GOOD LUCK TO YOU IT WILL HAPPEN FOR US ALL!
HUGS !!
I am so sorry! I know there are no words that help..... Be strong and don't give up.....
Thank you for your kind words....
Still very teary eyed...but I keep telling myself that there are worst things that can happen.....we have our loved ones and need to appreciate them.....most important....WE NEED TO APPRECIATE OURSELEVES AND RECOGNIZE THE LENGHTS WE ARE GOING TO, TO HAVE OUR MIRACLE...(trying to give myself a pat in the back)...
Mollie: Have you heard yet.....please let me know...praying for you...
Jen: This was my first IUI...I too am taking a break in Jan from the meds....but will try vitex and baby aspirin....lets see what that does...I've read a lot of positive posts with that...rightnow I am just waiting for AF to come so I can start....have you ever tried vitex?
I think I'll eat something now....didn't eat anything out of nervousness....
I think I am out of the race this time...11dpiui no symtoms but all opposites...lots of energy, no sore bbs, and my temp has started to trend down...last time my progestrone was over 50 (it is 58.3 this time) and I got bfn it took me 41 days to have af because my progestrone stayed so high! This is iui number 4 and I wish we could afford to goto ivf! I also broke and took a hpt and it was bfn...If this cycle is truly a bust I think we are going to try two more times and thats it it's becoming too taxing mentally and I am 3 months from being 36 years old! God Bless :)
Bfromthed:Today is my 17dp IUI I am going for my beta…. Though I promised my self I will not do hpt. I did it….. it was a BFP … I am hoping that the blood test will give the same result… after 2 natural pregnancy which ended up in miscarriage and 1 failed IUI I am hoping that this time god will be kind enough to give us a baby…
I am talking to much… ok now... I am coming to the point.. this time I had NO Symptoms. Nothing…. Only thing was.. as I said before I only had intense cramps in my lower abdominal (13dpiui and 14dpiui). Crams lasted for 10/15 seconds. The whole time my BB’s were fine and I have shifted to a new home so can’t say there was any lack of energy.
So please be positive… till AF comes there is hope….
lots and lots of baby dust
Hugs!! You give us hope.
all: today I am having all af symptoms no cramps just irritability and everything else that goes with her coming...she is due Tuesday the same day I am supposee to test but I have a feeling she will come before then and my temps wentt from 98.1 to 97.2 this morning...im a little sad but already prepared to try again next month!
Congratulations, after all the darkness you may have faced...you are finally seeing your light.
Bfromthed,
I am so sorry about your af like cramps..my af is due either this weekend or on Monday. I have already started taking baby aspirin and will start the fertility blend from GNC immediately. I've read great review from it....especially from women over 30....when I read that I though about you...
Mollie,
Its always heartbreaking to get a bfn...we put so much emotions and money into these attempts and when they fail its really tough.
Mollie....perhaps you can look into Fertility Blend.....it has great reviews and apparently increases fertility by 33%....(atleast thats what I read)...
Me
PrayersDreams: thanks for all your encouragement, it meant alot.
spoc/molliegirl: i know exactly how you feel, it does hurt bad, a pain i have no words to explain. This is our year and i pray we all get positive results sooner than later. Good luck to you all.
Babyday: you have won the new years best gift. I am soo happy for you. You deserve it. You will remain in my prayers all through your pregnancy. You shall make the worlds greatest mommy.
M
Thank you sooooo much. I couldn’t have survived last few months without your support and encouragement. All of you are wonderful.
I will keep you posted.
new year will bring joy and happiness for all of us.
Lots and lots of baby dust….
I'm new to this forum. I've been reading your comments and I too am in the dreaded 2ww! I'm 12 post iui! This is our 4th one. Diag-PCOS did 4 rounds just clomid no luck, Had HSG tubes are open. Then moved on to IUI w/clomid and HCG DH has great count and motility. I'm 31 and he's 33. We are so praying for our miracle! I've had really soar nips for the past couple days. I've had that before and then still got AF.. I think it's side effect from progesterone leves. Did b/w 6 days post iui Projesterone was 26.
I wish you all the best of luck and hope you all get your BFP's!!!!
i was reading the forums yesterday and im glad that most of us share the same experiences.
i had my 1stIUI on dec27 and will be back for blood test on the 13th Jan. Fingers, eyes and toes crossed!
during this 2ww, my breasts are so sore and i have slight cramping at night. no other symptoms than that.
the nurse advised me not to cycle, swim and jog. anyone has any idea about this?
I'm new to this forum. I've been reading your comments and I too am in the dreaded 2ww! I'm 10 post iui! This is my 1st one and I am scared my bata in 8/1.
I wish good luck for all of us, may god help us .
Bfromthed and Mollie - I am assuming you two ladies are in the States...so you will be able to get Fertility Blend. I just found out Canada does not sell Fertility Blend because Health Canada has not approved some lame ingredient thats in it!!!!
CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS!!!
I am going to start with the Vitex recipe this month...I've read lots of success stories with it.....
Arrggghhhh
i got my beta, 17dp IUI its 706 :) my doctor thinks its a high number :)
lots and lots of baby dust ....
All: Well I am out of the race this month af started this a m I am heart broken yet again but still encouraged to start the next set of meds :) Sticky vibes and congrats to all the bfps! :) Can anyone tell me what the "fertility blend" is...is it just the baby asprin and vitex? I want to start is asap
I have a question. I have now been on clomid for 8mos first 4 was with OB so no ultrasounds or anything just bding every other day. Last 4 with RE doing IUI. Has anyone else experienced weight gain on clomid? I feel like I don't even have control over my body. If this month doesn't work out we are on to IVF. They said that is our next step. We REALLY were hoping not to have to go that route but we'll do whatever it takes. I still have a little hope for this month I haven't officially started yet but feel like it's coming. I have feeling by tomorrow or Tuesday it will be here? The good thing about doing IVF is I get a month to be on bc. Level off my hormones which is much needed!
Congrats to those who got there BFP's! That is great news! Always gives me hope to hear of others who got there miracle!
Lucky: Be careful with the clomid it can thin the lining which we need a nice fluffy place for or miracles to implant! Good Luck :) I did not have weight gain with Clomid just headaches!
I am just catching up with the posts. I am so sorry to hear. I am praying for you! Stay positive and think happy thoughts.
babyday: Congrats to you! That is wonderful news and your beta was nice and high. Keep us all posted and I hope you have a very easy 9 months ahead.
As for me. I went yesterday morning for my last ultra sound and I have 3 follies again 2 on my left side that are 17 & 18 in size and one on my rigt which is 19. So I gave myself the trigger shot last night. Now I go in tomorrow 1/6 for my IUI. So my 2ww will start tomorrow. I feel like I jsut got out of the wait yesterday. This time is flying by. So hopefully January is our lucky month!
Dimps Good luck with the IUI fingers crossed for you
As for me I am somewhere in the 2WW didn't test or anything this month for ovulation. I was sick on Friday with the stomach bug -- how horrible that was -- and then lastnight I was neaseated again and then this morning I have been feeling that way -- I am due for AF I think on the 11th (since my cycles seem to be 32 days long) but I felt like I ovulated on 12/23 well had the ovulation pain and the EWCM so maybe it was more like xmas eve. I don't know at this point all I know is I want a BFP and a lil baby to hold.
Good luck to everyone!
What type of procedure did you do? Are yuo on injectibles? This was my first month with the injectibles. I am hoping first time works. They were such a pain to do everyday. My RE already told me that we are only going to do this twice with IUI then move on to IVF. I am unexplained so this is even more frustrating because the RE can't figure out why I am not getting preggers.
Well I will be in the waiting game soon enough then I really start going crazy! GOOD Luck to you!
I did in the past do IUI with clomid and 1 iui with injectibles didn;t get pregnant either time.
Sorry to hear about the BFN's. I am 10 dpiui. I had some slight bleeding this morning. Feel's like af is on it's way. I am starting to feel really down. I was told that one should expect af exactly 2 weeks from trigger shot. Does anyone know if this is true?
( actually I think u are one of the most kind hearted women I have ever known and I was hoping to go through this nine month long journey with you).
I am hoping and praying that you will get the gift very soon and all of us in this forum…. We will be together in our nine months journey …
Lots and lots of love …
nattydivine: I have heard the same thing about getting your af 2 weeks from the trigger shot. But for me personally i get my af exactly 2 weeks to the day that my IUI is done.
I'm really benefitting from hearing all your stories. I don't wish for anyone to be going through this but it's nice to have people that understand! Today I'm 14 piui and AF is on it's way.. Started spotting last night and will officially start probably by tomorrow :( I'm very dissapointed as this was our 4th IUI. Our RE said our next step is IVF. I too am considered unexplained infertility at this point and they said the our chances with IVF are much much better. Unfortunately my insur does not cover it so we are dealing with that! I know we can do 1 but if that doesn't work than I don't know what we will do! It's A LOT of money and so worth it to get our miracle but we don't have the luxury of doing a bunch! I'm hoping and praying that we all have some postive experiences early this year!
Baby dust to everyone and I'll keep you all in my prayers :)
I have a couple of questions, maybe some of you can help me understand.
First, what does vitex and baby aspirin do? (Right now the Dr. just has me on prenatal vitamins.)
Second, I notice lots of people talk about "beta levels" and going back between IUI and af or taking preg test. My Dr. never even mentioned this (I'm not going to an RE, just a regular OB GYN) What are "beta levels"?
Third, does anyone know an estimate on the cost of IVF and are there payment plans or do they want the total amount up front?
Thanks for the info.
bfromthed: Getting a BFN, AF, is a feeling we can't explain for a "healthy" female to understand. I am soo sorry to hear about your af showing up. I thought crying would help but it didn't so i stopped. God has plans for each of us i know that. Let us all be strong and this too shall come to pass.
First of all a belated Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all of you,I am sorry I haven't been on but I have went through all the posts to keep up to date with everyone.Congrats to all of you that finally got you BFP!!!!
Hugs to all who haven't YET!
As for myself I found out christmas eve it didn't work this time,it was so depressing for me and ruined my christmas.I was so sad!I got AF on Boxing day and stayed in bed the whole day crying.
Anyways i am already into my next cycle I started Gonal F again and went for my first round of B/W today and my estrogen is at 883,they were like wow at RE's office.I take gonal tonight again along with orgelutron shot to stop me from ovulating and go for B/W and U/S tomorrow to see how many follies are coming out to play this month.I am staying positive....well as much as what I can.
I'll keep everyone posted with my news and still love reading everyone's posts as it gives me so much faith and I know I am not alone.
(((((big hugs)))) to all
Jenn
On another note, I have an appt on the 13th to finally hear the baby's heartbeat and I am only like 5 weeks away from learning the baby's sex. I cannot wait.
I am praying for you all to get BFP's!
Anyone else out there get this uncomfortable on Follistim?
Well I test 1/22/09. So hopefully it worked this month. I am trying to be optimistic.
I will keep you posted. I am very hopefully right now but it is also only day 1.
Were your bbs sore on teh follistim I am very sore there also?
dimps1978 good luck in the 2ww about time you find out we should be done or alomost ready for the next iui...I will post after re calls with med plan for this month :)
What was your dosage of follistim. I was on 150 for the first two days then I only had to take 75 the other 4 days. So I guess my eggs were growing pretty quickly. I am still in pain. It is just such an uncomfortable feeling I hate it. But hopefully it will work this month. I think third time is a charm (at least I hope). The RE said this morning that it is normal for my bb's to be sore. Because they said the drugs are stronger. And boy do they hurt. It is insane that started yesterday actually.
Bfromthed: Thanks for the well wishes. Good luck this month and remember stay positive! Happy thoughts will get to the end result. I know this is all so painful but hopefully our little miracles will happen soon. Good luck I will be thinking of you this month.
I just wish we could get preggo so bad. Our insurance doesn't cover IVF- except for $5000 lifetime. Doc says it is about $15,000 so I am not sure we are ready to go that step yet. We are going to continue IUI's for now. Doc suggested switching from 100 MG of Clomid to 50 MG of clomid and one Follistim shot. Insurance doesn't cover the shots either, so that would cost about $100.00 for the one shot.
Anyway, I go in tomorrow to make sure that all of my cysts are gone, because they had measured so big at the U/S prior to IUI.
Welcome, babydust, and goodluck to molliegirl, spoc, babyday, gagnon1977, and jfisch!
Dimps1978:
They started me out on 100 this time because in 05 I did 150 and they said they didnt want me to move quite as fast because I had IUI on cycle day 10 that year. This time they started me on 100. Well the 100 actually made me move really slow. I did 100 for 5 days, then 150 5 days and then 225 4 days and then the trigger shot Friday at 7 am and then the IUI that next day at like 10 am so I had IUI like 27 hours after trigger shot. My cycle ended up being VERY long and my belly button was soooo purple and black and blue around it from all the shots and I thought for sure it wouldnt work because it was soo different from when I did it in 05 but it did. They say you react differently to the meds each month.
I'm really sorry that your IUI didn't take. Are you planning on doing more?
I had my very 1st IUI on Christmas Eve. I took a HPT this morning and it was negative. I did do it at 13 post IUI, so a part of me is HOPING I might still get a Postivie, but the other part of me just "knows" that it didn't work. This is my 1st IUI and my dr.s office is reasonably priced for it, but the place that did my husband's analysis, blood testing, and wash was $$$$. I'm not sure I can afford to keep doing it. The only good thing out of this was the fact we learned that I am "OK" and more than likely it is my husband's medication that is causing the unexplained infertility. The day of the IUI (he didn't take his meds) the count was way higher than the day of the analysis.
it's so nice to know that there are others out there who are in the same boat. I feel like I don't have anyone to talk to about this as it isn't a usual topic to bring up w/ people.
if it's just slight bleeding 10dpiui, it could be a good sign. somtimes you might get slight bleeding when implantation is happening, and that happens 6-10 days after fertilization.
anyway i wish you all the luck and keep your hopes up !
All: Went to re's office today and and Im starting Gonal F 112.5 and 75 Menopur tonight until Saturady then back for more bw/monitoring...I will keep you guys posted! :)
Good luck! It is great to be able to talk to someone in the same situation.
noel5670: I hadn't heard that conception rates are higher 6 months post lap. That keeps me hopeful. My DH and I are in the same boat as far as alcohol and caffeine. We don't have as much fun these days. His sperm count was excellent the first time I did iui. Per the RE, he had been taking L-carnitine, zinc. "C", and B-Complex. This last iui, he was taking his vitamins daily and his sperm count was half of what it was last time. Stay on your DH to take his vitamins.
Good luck all.
Everyone Knows How to Defeat Infertility But YOU!
In the world of infertility it seems that everybody has an opinion on how YOU can become pregnant. This blog introduces you to some of the most common advice given by "whoever", that has helped everyone else have a child but you. These are Top 10 Common Misconceptions about Overcoming Infertility:
10. Maybe GOD does not intend for you to have children!- Disease is not the work of GOD. In the bible, GOD says "to be fruitful and multiply"! Unless someone is reading a different version than everyone else, children are a part of the divine plan.
9. After intercourse, stand on your head!- It may have worked for some, but I have not found the research to support this one yet.
8. Maybe you are not doing it right!- I've seen lots of books on the topic, but this is not rocket science, ENOUGH SAID!
7. Stop trying so hard!- This may be a valid point to some degree, but how can the desire to have children be classified as trying too hard?
6. Maybe it was just not meant to be!- the advice given by those who have children who are out of control.
5. You won't die if you don't have children!- this statement is enough to make you loose control, it's very hurtful and just plain idiotic!
4. Maybe it's in the water? What does this mean? Are pregnant women drinking from a different water fountain than those who have been trying for years? This one is just mind boggling.
3. RELAX!- This one must be in the console an infertile friend/relative handbook. However, studies do show that stress can play an important role with infertility.
2. Take a Vacation and IT will happen!- Maybe the vacation is needed to get away from the people that make these comments.
1. You can ALWAYS adopt- Some even offer the suggestion of just tricking the mind about adopting. People have heard of a select few that have adopted and then had children. Don't adopt if this is not your heart felt intention.
No matter what comments you hear from friends and relatives about how you can overcome infertility, just let it go! No matter how hurtful the comments may be, remember that these individuals are actually only trying to help. They may not know your trials and tribulations with infertility. There is no code of ethics for others to follow that explains what to say to someone going through infertility. No matter what they say and what idiotic advice they give, continue to have faith and believe that you will overcome this disease.
One instance: On mother's day this past year my husband and I went to church with his family. They started handing out candy bars to all the mothers and all women who have touched the lifes of others (teachers, sisters, aunts, etc.) I took a candy bar and my husband, not realizing the impact it would have on me, said "Your not a mother." This went through me and I'll never forget it as long as I live. He didn't realize how it made me feel, but boy I let him know later that day. He sincerely apologized.
And you just get tired of people saying, "When are you two having kids?" and my reply is always like "Oh, maybe next year" or "We've talked about it". Heck we talk about it weekly and I think about it daily.
MissyZane08: Thanks for answering my questions. They did do an HSG and both of my tubes were open.I probably do need to look into seeing an RE. BUT, DO YOU ASK YOUR OB-GYN TO REFER YOU OR DO YOU MAKE THE APPT YOURSELF? I'm afraid of offending my OB GYN by making her feel like I don't think she can help me. As for insurance, I need to call and check, but I doubt they pay anything on IVF.
I AM NEW TO THE SITE, I HAVEA 2 YEAR OLD THEN SUFFERED 2 MISCARRIAGES, IM ON MY 4TH IUI AND 6 DAYS POST IUI. IM SO GRATEFUL FOR ALL YOUR POSTS, I HAVE BEEN READING FOR A WEEK AND THOUGHT I SHOULD JOIN. ITS NICE TO HERE PEOPLES JOURNEY THROUGH THE MONTH IS MUCH LIKE MINE, THE UPS/DOWNS, THIS CRAMP, THAT CRAMP.
I also had an IUI last month and it didn't work... I decided to take a month off too- just to jump off the rollercoaster... I went to the doctor and he said it was ok to go off clomid/HCG shot for a month and then go back- its not something that builds up in your body... so because of that I am now drug free for one month.. the clomid made me too weepy/moody etc.. I just needed a break.... Good luck - let me know if you hear otherwise..
-Mollie
ALL: I am currently 2 days past IUI and my bbs hurt like crazy. This was my first month on follistim the nurse said this is normal but I thought by now it would subside. Did this happen to anyone else on follistim? And if this is one of the side effects did anyone have any others. I would like to prepare myself of what to expect.
Bromthed: How are you doing? I have been thinking about you. I am praying for you always! Keep positive and good things will come. I just know it.
I am 37; my DH is 36. We have been ttc for about 9 months. I just did one rnd of clomid (100mg) and my 1st iui on 1/5. I did not have any cramping or effects from it. However, now I am just 3 dpiui and I am having crazy hot flashes. I have been pregnant in my 20's and remember that I did not feel symptoms until after af was due (implantation.) Has anyone here experienced hot flashes at this point? I do not want to get my hopes up but we so desperately, like everyone else here, wants a tiny bambino. (our entire family inclusive of those in India and Italy are waiting to hop a plane:) I am due to go in to dr's on 1/9 for a progesterone test.
Help?
xxoo baccha dust to all
Dimps: I am on 112.5 Gonal F and 75 Menopur since Tuesday I am going bk on Saturday for more bw/monitoring...I did have 1 left over follie from last month that was a 12.? but re said dont worry that one should be gone about time we are ready for iui...I will post after re calls Saturday afternoon...thanks for not forgetting about me that makes a person feel nice! God Bless :)
All ladies who got BFP this month ….. a big congratulation to all of you. And for others good luck . Lots and lots of baby dust.
And for those who r new here…. Just want to say you have found the best forum ever. These wonderful ladies are the most supportive and kind….
to all: im 6 days post iui, no symptoms yet still. not sure if thats good or bad.
befromthe bed: how is your cycle going, i know you were in day 1 a few days ago and then it was very short.
I am back in action now I had to take a month off to reflect the past 2 months and our first IUI which was a bfn. But now I am happy to say I am back and feeling better about everything. We are going to try our 2nd IUI sometime this month we just started takeing Provera to bring on my monthly so we can get started so im thinking it will happen at the end of the month or begining of Feb. My holidays were ok could have been better as im sure all of yours could have been to but things are looking up no dobut. I talked with my DR and he told me that when I do my next IUI instead of takeing Progesterone pills I will need to take Progesterone injections and if I get a BFP then I will need to take them throughout the first 12 weeks and then maybe the last 12. Dose anyone know anything about the injections or has had experiance with them?
For those of you who go BFP CONGRATS I am so happy for you and whish you all the love, and luck in the world.
For those of us that had bfn im in your boat and am hopeing for you what I hope for myself this new year a little one.
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
To all the new comers, u r all welcome. As you well know by now, you have a family that cares here. You can discuss all you are experiencing in this forum coz there will definately be someone to reach out to you.
If you got a bfn this past month or more, like I did with my 2nd IUI, please stay positive, know that ur bundle of joy is coming, all perfect and the cutest thing ever!!! Infact, I must confess that all of you ladies are so great, reading thru ur posts and seeing ur strength thru ur words. I'm so honored to know all u women of virtue and great strength.
If you got a bfp; CONGRATULATIONS!!! Might be hard, but try to enjoy all the pregnant symptoms for it only proves more that ur little one is really growing inside of you!! Pls, feel free to share what u r going thru with all of us. Sticky vibes, new mamas!!!
Bfromthed - U have been a steady source of welcome to all the new comers and I would like to commend you for being there for almost all who post in this forum, while must of us oldies went quiet. Thank you and God bless. You have been thru quite alot this past month or so and I pray that everything works out with this cycle and I wish you baby dust in ur next IUI.
Baby dust all!!!!!
Good luck and lots and lots of baby dust…..
Glad to see that some of you are back:) Went to re's office Saturday and he upped my Gonal F to 150 and I go back on Tuesday for more bw/us...the last time I was on 150 remember I had the 21 follies and still bfdn! so here we go I will keep you guys posted God Bless to all DO NOT LOSE YOUR FAITH...the devil is busy and will temp you and God hears our cries...in th ebible it says be fruitful a reproduce so follow his word and keep the faith and when you pray repeat it back "God you said be fruitful and reporduce" and we are just trying to follow your wishes! :)
i just found out today that a family friend who is 18 just found out she is pregnant and she was not planning this i wish it was that easy for me it is not only emotionally but also finacially tuff we dont have alot of money but having a baby is the only thing i think about and everytime it fails i want to give up but i dont because i know it will happen i just have to keep trying. DOES ANYONE HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM I DO THE RE SAID I HAVE LOW PROGESTERONE LEVELS THAT IS ALL THEY CAN FIND WRONG IF SO WHAT ARE YOU DOING FOR THIS
BABY DUST TO ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11
im now 8 days post iui, no symptoms yet, possibly very mild cramping but nothing major. Im just praying hard and imagining the egg implanting in my uterus. 4th time will b e a charm. ok, stay positive and baby dust to all.
bfromthebed: glad you are back in the game and one of those many follies will be your baby this month.
To all new comers welcome welcome welcome. This site is amazing and the most supportive around. I don't know what I would do without these woman. They are absolutely amazing and a great support system.
Thank you all Ladies for being you! I don't know what I would do without you!
How do I feel about this? I really dont know. Usually, my Cycle is 23/24 days but there was a 3/2 days delay and u know what that did to us - our hopes were up but now, with AF here......I'm trying not to feel sorry for myself.
Anyways, good luck to all of you ttc!!!
We have been trying for our 2nd child for about a year, it took 2.5 yrs to conceive our daughter. I will be 36 tomorrow and I don't want to wait any longer the more I think about it the more I cry. I have undiagnosed infertility, but do have PCOS and MTHFR (clotting disorder).
My trigger shot makes me so sick and then I get to look forward to the Prometrium that makes me feel pregnant and sick. My last go around, I was so sure I was pregnant that I think I tested 6 or 7 times (each with a BFN).
I am so glad that I found this site and there is someone that understands what I am going through.
Waitingfornumber2: I have undiagnosed infertility too. Actually though my OB GYN thinks it is my husband, his sperm count is high, but it is abnormally thick. They have him taking mucinex. We have tried for about thirteen months now. We did an IUI on December 6, 2008. We took a cycle off and we're going to try again the end of January. If we don't have any luck by May I think I might go to an RE. I'm willing to go further if we have to. I don't have any children yet, but I'm just 24. What finally worked for you when you got pregnant with your daughter?
Don't give up and don't discount that you are "just 24". When you are ready, your ready. If you haven't been checked for MTHFR you might what to ask your OB to have you checked. It's a blood test and it also checks for a handful of other disorders. I swear that it was because I started taking a baby aspirin and extra folic that allowed me to get pregnant.
RCtrying
I haven't posted for a while but read your posts often. You are all such a wonderful and supportive group of women. God has a plan for all of us and unfortunately, we have to be patient and wait for our turn.
Congratulations to all that have been blessed with a postive pregnancy - I wish you a wonderful 9 months.
I have had 4 BFN IUI's. The last was this past September. We took a few months off and started saving and preparing for IVF in the new year. Just before we were going to start, I had a change of heart and wanted to try one last IUI. For some reason, in my heart, I felt that one last IUI was the way to go. I am 35 and my hubby is 36 and we have been diagnosed with unexplained infertility. We've been trying to conceive of 16 months. So, I am currently being monitored and I've been on 75 units of Gonal-F for the first 5 days. Yesterday, they decreased my dosage to 37.5 units because I have 4 good sized follicles and many smaller ones. I am most likely going to do back to back IUI's starting either tomorrow or Thursday. If this doesn't work, we will go ahead with IVF in late February or early March.
Bfromthed: I have been reading your posts. You are a wonderful and caring person and I have you in my prayers. It will happen for you.
Thank you again to everyone for being so supportive.
Bfromthed:
How are you doing this cycle? Thinking about you?
jlynn13: Thanks for getting back to me. I am still in pain it isn't any worse but not any better. I just hope and pray that it is all for good reason.
Kisstin: How are you feeling? How is the pregnancy so far.
Let us know when you test. I cant wait to hear the results. I am praying for a BFP for you.
I went to re's office today and e2 is 247 on the right I have a 12 and a 10 (I have a tube there) on the left I have a 10 (no tube due to tubal preg) continuing Gonal f 150 and 75 Menopur and back on Thursday for bw/us looking like iui number 5 will be this weekend! :) Hugs and God Bless
Darcy: 2 cycles ago I had 21 follies and still bfn so don't get tied up in the numbers...look at most of the bfps on this site they have 1 or 2 and still have success so don't get tied up in the numbers....good luck and keep us posted:) Baby Dust!...take it easy!
I too felt pregnant and tired on the prometrium and very hard to take care of a child, and i felt guilty taking knaps for a week and then i wasnt even pregnant. I decided to stop taking the prometrium and now just use the vaginal crinone, or prochieve, it is supposed to be more effective and you don't get the systemic side effects of fatigue, moody, etc. the only down is it starts to leak out a little afer about a week, but id rather taht then be tired and not even pregnant. so check with your re and see what they say.
to all: im 10 days post iui, some twinges of cramps here and thier, bbs still feel fine though so im trying to be positive and not think af is coming. Im so excited to be pregnant. Praying like crazy. ok, baby dust to all.
I also started with mild cramping today I hope and pray so much this is a good sign. This whole process is really starting to get to me. I have been very good lately but I don't know what happened my happy switch has been turned off and now I am just getting angry.
Sorry for the vent. Sometimes I am sick of just thinking about all of this too much but I can't help it. Anyone else feel this way.
bromthed: How has your bw/us been going so far? How is this cycle going for you?
Kisstin: Thanks for your words of encouragement I really need them these days. It always happens to me. The first week post IUI I am always optimistic then after the first week my optimisim starts to fade and that is what drives me nuts. Please tell me I am crazy for feeling this way?
dimps; things are going slow but well I went in yesterday and had 2 on the right...10, 12(tube there) and 1 on the left (no tube there) 10 so they had me to continue the Gonal 150 and 75 Menopur and I go back in the morning for more bw/us...so I will post after they call in the afternoon with the plan...
To befromthebed: how was clinic?
Hope2009: had had 2 mc too and i know what you mean. I will not be happy untill a baby makes it to 25wks.
We are getting ready to do our second IUI the end of this month. My husband is confident that it is just a matter of time. Right now I'm on cycle day 29 and 75% of my cycles are 28 days. So I did sort of get my hopes up. I've been thinking it will start for 48 hours now. I took my temperature and it was low, like 96.8. I figured it I was pregnant it would probably be much higher (98ish). Anyone ever been pregnant and had low temps?
iui was unsuccessful and iam taking a month off, i do have my right fallopian blocked from an ectopic pregnancy, but i did have 5 good follicles on my left side. now the doctor has asked me to repeat some bloodtests which i have done almost a year ago.
most of the tests have got to do with my thyroid. one year ago my anti- thyroglobulin was high and i wasnt treated. could this be causing my misscarages and my infertility????
Thanks again for all your support!
bromthed: How are you doing? How did the bw/us go?
I thought I would let you know my status. Still not preggo.... yet. I am hoping it works this month... as I do all the other months.
My RE changed my meds a bit. She calls it a cocktail approach, in hopes that it works this time. The Clomid can thin the lining as well as change the mucus. My lining has always been great, however she is thinking that the mucus might not be as good. She said there was no way to test that, but thought it would be best to switch from 100 mg of Clomid, to 50 mg of Clomid with one shot of Follistim AQ 150 mg. I take the Follistim later today...but have noticed this week that I feel more "wet" than normal. (sorry tmi).
Go in Monday for U/S- and am hoping that I have some good follies. Last month I had 2 30's, and one 27. If all looks good on Monday, then U/S will either probably be Wednesday.
Anyway, good luck to all of those in the 2WW! I hope you all get very sticky BFP's!!!
Anyone about to go into the 2 WW?
I have not been on in about a week but try to keep up with everyone's posts.
Quick update on me...2nd failed IUI cycle in Dec (5th iui all together). DH and I met with RE Tuesday to discuss next step. Looks like IVF is it as there is male factor. He has history of low count but the numbers are all over the place. Back in Oct, thought we would have bad sample but after being on clomid, dh's $s were great and still no BFP. So RE decided to continue clomid for him for Dec cycyle and numbers were awful. Count so low after wash that RE decided to not have me come in for 2nd iui day after but to bd on our own...no BFP
Now it looks like we will be doing IVF with ICSI as that takes away the male factor.
Total costs looks like it will be about $15,600. My dh is freaking out. May wait until Jul or Oct ivf cycle to start in order to save up the $$$.
We do not want to finance 100% and have credit card bills galore with 2-3 kids, lol...But if that is the route we have to take, that'll be fine as we aren't the first and won't be the last.
I am wishing all of you luck this year. I will be checking in on you guys and also posting updates on myself...
xo,
marline
bfromthed:
How are you doing this cycle?
Dimps1978:
When do you test?
Well I am scheduled to go to the RE office on 1/22 (next Thursday). But on Tuesday 1/20 it will be 2 weeks exactly from the IUI and I was thinking of testing that day. The last two cycles I got my af two weeks to the day from the IUI in the afternoon it was just spotting but I always knew it was coming. SO on Tuesday morning I think I will take a hpt and then see. What do you think? I don't know if I could bare to take one earlier than that because I don't want the dissapointment of another BFN. What do you think I should do? As of today my bbs are still killing me and I am getting mild cramping and I have had a constant head ache for the lsat two days. Not a bad one jsut an annoying one. I hope they are all good signs.