Hey Dan, welcome to the forum.
I don't know enough about AIDS and HIV to evaluate this well, however, I know that the risk is low in receiving oral sex even if only for 10 secs, when there are no cuts or open sores on your penis.
That does not mean zero risk, it's just very low.
Also the timeline in regards to your FMS dx being HIV instead, does not work, unless your negative test was inaccurate.
Please continue getting tested regularly and if possible go for some
counselling, as your high risk sexual behavior, puts you at an even higher risk category, compared to other gay men, who respect "the rules of engagement" in their sexual activities.
Yes, I've heard it many times, "it doesn't feel the same", or "I was high",
or "it was a moment of weakness" or "he lied to me-I didn't know".
It may only take one "slip" to potential destroy your life, or someone else's!
Please always keep this in mind.
I don't mean to lecture you, nor to criticize you for your orientation and lifestyle. I have friends who are LGBT and I wish for all true happiness
and good health. People have to put up with me, as I'm a huge proponent of
healthy lifestyles and wellness, using natural means and prevention.
At the end, I only do it because I care.
The cold sore and HIV connection to my opinion, would apply to a higher risk of getting HIV, as it is easier to get in the body, specially if you have an open sore. So avoid questionable and unsafe encounters, period.
Maybe post at the STD or HIV community as well, the only thing is that
perhaps most members there are not familiar with fibromyalgia.
Best wishes and I hope your test results come back negative.
Niko
i have also contracted a cold sore(first ever) as of today july 3 2013 and have read that this can be related to hiv, i do have a friend who had a cold sore and was sharing with her about a week ago so im conflicted as it could be either ?
i have finally gotten the hiv test today and have two weeks to find out but am terrified and cant help but be worried and ask these questions ,