Is this hemerhoids or?

Hello

To make a long story short, I had a sexual encoutner with another guy, what follows shouldn't be the result of an STD, especially since nearly the entire time was protected.

My question is though, there's like this flappy thing, just feels like it's hanging there, and it's itchy when you touch it. It just feels like it's hanging there.. If I put toilet paper and dab on the anal area it's lightly red. I'm wondering what it is? Lube wasn't used the whole time, and although it didn't really hurt, I guess it was too much.

What should I do? What do you recommend. I haven't gone #2 in the last 3 days, because I've been trying to wait for things to heal -- although I know the longer I wait, the harder it will be ultimately -- so I'm at a loss?

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[kfla2009]

Sorry guys these 2 images are much better

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