Undiagnosed Abodominal Pain

[JustHealing]

Hello, I'm new to this community and i'm in hopes for some answers. I'm 24 years old, I recently lost my mom in June 2015. I know i've suffered from a lot of stress with that whole situation.  My stomach has been in pain for about 8-9 months now which started in March of 2016. In June 2016, I've had incarcerated umbilical hernia surgery. I understand that pain will be associated with the surgery however I have other symptoms that worry me..

My symptoms include:
-Pain in abdomen moves from the left to right as the day progresses
-Bloating under my belly button down (usually whole pelvic area) usually everytime I eat
-Constipation or Diarhea
-Either have loose stools or small & inconsistent
-Feels like a swelling in the lower ab near my pelvis to the left of the line that runs down your stomach (under belly button)
-Feelings of discouragement because of the this whole thing just want to continue with life and make my mom proud (idk i think it's anxiety) Also, get headaches almost everyday and feeling of nervous

I come to this forum in hopes that someone can help me or lead me in the direction for help!

If i've left out details that are important please ask and I will describe more. I've never dealt with hospitals on my own.

Currently, after this 9 month kick in the butt! I recently found a job which i've started today! I'm just hoping to find relief so I can enjoy my new job and continue with this New Year!

Thank you sooooooooo much in advance to anyone who responds!

I've been praying so much I just want to get better!