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abdominal / groin discomfort after anal
After having anal sex with my girlfriend, she talked me into letting her try the same on me with a 4.5 - 5 inch long glass dildo of hers, claiming the prostate stimulation would give me a great orgasm.    We used a condom and water-based lube.    I wasn't crazy about it.  There was a tiny bit of blood on the condom afterward, but probably just from a hemorrhoid or whatnot.   I've had a few normal bowel movements in the 24 hours since we had sex with no bleeding and I'm not running a fever, but I have an odd bloated feeling with slight pain in my lower abdomen / groin area which gets worse when I lay down on my stomach.    It feels like I have to go to the bathroom, but I don't.    I'm a bit of a hypochondriac and am worried I might have a perforated bowel or perforated colon or something else life-threatening.    How would I know if I have a perforation?   Is this just normal post-anal discomfort?  I don't have insurance and I don't want to have to explain this embarrassing situation at a hospital if it isn't a serious issue, but I'm a bit worried.  
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I've been to the doctor twice about this and they did x-rays and blood work and both looked normal.  I'm still having this pain in my groin 6 days after being anal-toyed by my girlfriend.  I've since learned that anal toys are supposed to be soft (we used a 5 inch long glass dildo of hers).  There was a small bit of blood afterward.  The pain worsens when I have a bowel movement.   Could I have a hernia or a torn muscle from the receptive anal?  
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