Kathy, first ask your doc when you can do a colon cleanse. He may want you to wait until the tube is removed and you are healed. Search the web for Colonix as an example of what really is in your colon and how it can cause problems. A very educational website! Until then, you can surely take Fibercon nightly. It is fiber you take every night and I'm sure they won't mind if you did get regular even now.
My colon cleanse changed my life. I now stay on the fiber (every morning) and take 2 Fibercon tablets each night. You'll be amazed how years of constipation can be changed and how regularity can change your health and your life! Good luck to you!
I've always had slow transit constipation - pretty much since birth. Over the years that resulted in an extremely redundant colon. After years of C, the colon simply stretches and stretches to accomodate all the extra stool, which makes transit time even slower, and you're in a huge vicious circle. I had to have nearly 2 feet of sigmoid colon removed due to adhesions, but I could afford to lose that piece, and it certainly improved transit time.
I wouldn't jump into surgery until you're completely healed from the abcess, have the ileostomy reversed, and see how things go from there. I suspect your surgeon is talking about removing only the sigmoid portion of your large intestine and not the entire thing. Definitely have him explain the particulars of what he is planning to do, and why it needs to be done. A second opinion wouldn't hurt at all, particularly since you are unsure about proceeding with the colectomy.