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So lately my bf has been putting himself down because when we make love he only lasts about 10 minutes. I tell him everytime not to worry about it and its not a big deal. I love him for him and how long he lasts in bed but he still feels bad.....is there anything I can do??? He said that he used to be able to go for hours and that he thinks I am just to much for him.
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Thanks..... We have done foreplay for a long time before actually having sex it still don't help.....I'm perfectly happy and satisfied with 10 minutes......he says he just can't get enough bc I'm that good and he is so in live with me
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Reassurance always helps. You just have to let him know that you're okay with everything...and sometimes showing you are okay with it helps too ;) He should like that part...But it happens, not everyone is perfect in bed.
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10 minutes is plenty for most people. Tell him to let up on himself, going for hours is something most people get tired of really quick.
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try more time spent on foreplay so he can be sure you are satisfied before he gets started also i have heard if he masturbates first then by the time he gets going again it should last longer. maybe something on tv to distract him otherwise if he really is concerned i guess see a doctor...
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