Advise about Anal Fissures & Hemorrhoids

I hope someone out there can give me some advice/insight...
Approx 3.5 weeks ago (after some heavy lifting- moving furniture) I developed a very painful hemorrhoid, I experience some bleeding.  After 4 days I went to the doctor (a dr i have never been too and would not prefer to go back to - did not seem to know what she was talking about).  Based on a visual exam (pain was too intense to do any further exam) She told me that I was experiencing both hemorrhoids and anal fissures.  She had to call in another dr (who did not examine me), he prescribed proctosol hc 2.5% and recommended stool softeners and sitz baths. A follow up appointment was not recommended or scheduled.  It has been 12 days since that appointment- while I am much better than I was I am still experiencing moderate to severe pain 90% of the time.  The problem felt like it was on my left side, over the last few days I have started to experience mild pain/discomfort on the left side of my vagina, my perineum also appears swollen and is somewhat tender.  Deification has improved, it is not regular yet and pain is increased afterward.
Should I been 100% better at this point - is it normal to take nearly a month to recover from something like this or could there be something more serious going on?  I have experienced hemorrhoids only once before - mild pain, went away in a few days.  I am otherwise in good health and shape.