Why do I bleed while i have sex?

Im only fourteen years old and I am sexully active. I have had sex since i was thirteen and everything seemed to be fine, but a couple of weeks ago I stared bleeding while sex. At first we thought he 'popped my cherry' because i never bled before, but it happend 2 other times too. My boyfriend says its better for him to 'fingure' me before we have sex, but it hurts when he does it, but yesterday he 'fngured' me and it didnt hurt but i still bled. And when I go to the bathroom it burns when I pee. I told my mother but she doesnt know im fully active, she knows about the 'finguring and stuff like that, but she doesnt know i have had sex. She told me she was going to bring me to the doctors...she refuses to bring me to a gynecologist.

[remar]

Even fingering is sex. I won't go into why it's a bad idea to be having sex at your age.
You need to see your Dr. It's sounds like an infection. If it burns when your urinate that's probably a urinary tract infection. It sounds like you may need meds so if your Mom will only take you to see your family Dr and not a Gyno then go. They will still know how to treat you. Take care. Remar

[concerned621]

It could be several things but it needs to be checked. Urinary tract infection, uterine bleeding, fibroids but it needs to be checked and please do not have unprotected sex and no sex if you can until it's checked.  If you are bleeding and he has any infections you could get cervical cancer or other diseases.  

If you can't talk to you mom I think Planned Parenthood will see you.  But the fact that you are having sex and can't talk to your mom isn't good sweetie.

You said something that made me think: Your boyfriend said it's BETTER for him if he fingers you.  When you are my age you will realize allowing him or anyone to have your body right now is definitely better for him and not good at all for you. It's way too early to be sharing yourself with someone you may or may not know in 5 years. Sex is amazing and it gets more so as we understand who we are.  It wasn't until my husband at age 26 that I experienced love and amazing sex. All the other times were giving myself away making it "better" for someone else. I was looking for something, someone to love me.  
I have a son, he's 20 now. He is adorable and girls have always loved him. When he was young oral sex was/is big. I explained to him for him or the other boys it might feel good but to a girl she is giving away part of who she is. She may not realize it now but she is and she will some day realize just how much of herself she gave away.  
Your mom isn't ready for you to go to a gyn and I promise you it's not time for you to be allowing anyone to have the most precious thing in the world.... YOU.