need help and i got a baby

[fearabouthiv_007]

hello experts
i am 28 male i was done the tourch test on may 2010 the following result

1)hsv-1 Igg postive value 9.11 in range 0.8-1.2
2)rubella igg postive value 44.34 in range 7-13
3)cytomegalovirus igg postive 2.74 in range 0.8-1.2,
thats all are postive

Note:-HIV negative 7 month test ELISA

now what my qus?
1)i am un married this much virus available my self i am going to do a marriage?
2)if i am complete the marriage i pass the those virus in my wife also?
3)after complete the marriage we got a baby? if its posible without those virus and disesas?
4)last 2 month i take the teblets aciylovir {herprex}300, rovamaicine per day 2 tablet and maltizor vitamin tablet
5)Next month my family arange the marriage for me ? if qus 3 is posible i go to marriage other wise i go to stop the marriage?
6)those viruse i have when it will come the high rish for me?what i do ?

My thought is in my self this much probs have i dont want kill any one thats why i ask urs please suges my next step of life?
Please help me any one advance thanks for ur ans

[fearabouthiv_007]

Dear friend........,
                    
                       I’m 28yrs old man, I’ve that virus CMV,HSV-1, RUBELLA.,
i'm already check the HIV (tridot) test after 16 months it's also -ve,
In this time, next month I go for marriage.,

1.How I prevent my wife without those viruses?
2.can ‘I get the baby without those viruses? If is it possible?

Kindly say brief explains I need

[crackerjack4u2]

Hello again,
I'm sorry to hear of your recent outbreak, and am glad you are still taking your medications for your conditions as your doctor has ordered.

If you had both HIV tests(Elisa and Western Blot) done after 6 MONTHS  from your possible sexual exposure then hopefully the results are fine. From what you posted it looks as though the Western Blot was done at around the 4 Month mark following time of possibly exposure, but not after 6 Months.  Am I reading that date correctly?   Like I mentioned before there is what is called a 6 month window, following exposure to HIV, your body might not produce antibodies to the disease and it might not show up on tests until after that 6 month time frame.      

I suggest discussing with your doctor his thoughts on everything you are asking here today because he knows everything regarding your history, treatment etc.  I also recommend continuing the treatments exactly as ordered by your doctor, discussing any precautions you need to take especially during outbreaks when you become sexually active again, whether or not you need to repeat any further HIV tests now or in the future, and have other tests such as the CMV and Rubella Igg done per your doctor's orders.
Good Luck and God Bless.

    

[fearabouthiv_007]

Dear friends

As we discussed in early, i went on hospital and took the test. The test result followed
Date 03/01/2011

a)Complete blood count
1) Haemoglobin   Result 14.0gm/dl - in normal range 14-18 gn/dl
2) Total count (WBC)  Result 10.8K/uL - in normal range 4-11 K/uL

b) Differential count
1) Neutrophils            - Result 55%      - in normal range 40-75%
2) Lymphocytes         - Result 40%      -in normal range 20-45%
3) Eosinophils             - Result 03%     - in normal range 01-06%
4) Monocytes               - Result 02%      - in normal range 02-10%
5) Basophils                - Result 00%

PLATELET COUNT      - Result 357k/UI - in normal range 150-400k/UI

c) VDRL                      - NON REACTIVE

d)HBsAg (ELISA)           NEG (0.35)                NEG: 1.00
d)HIV (ELISA)                NEG (0.22)                NEG: 1.00

Above the result my last sexual date to around (Jan 2011) 11 month result

My encounter Date 07 Feb 2010

Below the result sexual date to (May 2010) 3 months result
Take the Tourch test
1)hsv-1 Igg                       positive value 9.11             in range 0.8-1.2
2)rubella igg                     positive value 44.34           in range 7-13
3)cytomegalovirus igg       positive 2.74                     in range 0.8-1.2,
that’s all are positive

My last sexual date to till date (11 monts) I check my blood test

1. Hiv (elisa)                  4 times  result negative
2. Hiv (Tri dot)                3 times  result negative
3. Hiv (Western blot)      1 times   result negative
All are negative.

Friends
Now my question is;
1)In this case possible hiv? i need any other blood test?
2)Now i am normal person?
3)now i going do on marriage?
4)my doctor say again u go to on cmv and rubelaa igg blood test this need?

Last weak one out brake on my kip thats come on sore and my Tongue also come on white last 2 to 3 months, i am also take lot of tablets

kindly answer my question ASAP

[crackerjack4u2]

Hello,
Your HIV test is negative right now.  I recommend you be retested with both the Western Blot and Elisa test one more time.    The Western Blot is the more DEFINITIVE test for HIV than the Elisa.  It can take up to 6 months after exposure for your body to build up antibodies to the virus and show a Positive result.   With the Western Blot being done at 4 months, but not after 6 months, you may not have built up those antibodies yet so your test at 4 months could have read Negative when you were in fact Positive.  But the Negative results at 4 months hopefully will still be negative now. Redoing it NOW that the 6 month window has passed will tell you with  Certainty whether you are or are not HIV positive. This way you will know for sure, it can ease your fears if negative again, and allow you to live your life, and/or take necessary precautions if needed.  


To answer your question about marriage and whether or not to get married is complicated. It's hard for me to just say Yes or No on this under the circumstances but I will try to give you the best answer I can.

My opinion is to First RETEST. Find Out the Final Results First-Because this will be so much easier to give you a Yes or No answer with the results of a Western Blot and Elisa done after the 6 month window.  Your results should be in long before your arranged marriage next month if you get it done now.  

People with HIV marry everyday, but Precautions and Protection Must Be used to prevent infecting your wife.  If you are Negative Again Now this will not be an issue.
So Please find out.  

What I would recommend about getting married depending on the Results Is:
If Negative tell her about your other viruses, get married if she agrees, have babies and enjoy your lives together.  If Positive tell her about All your viruses, that you have HIV, and the possible risks to her and let her decide if she is willing to accept those risks before marriage.

If you are Positive for HIV you should always use condoms to prevent possibly infecting your wife with the virus.  This will force you both to make a difficult decision with wanting to have your own babies.  You both will have to decide whether to risk infecting your wife, and in turn she could infect the baby as well, not to have children at all, or whether or not to adopt children instead.  

I'm sorry I could not be more helpful on your decision or say Yes or No for sure,  but I feel I must protect everyone who is to be involved and would like to let you know whether babies will be possible in your future as well.  I know you want that as well by your post.   Please Go Get Retested one last time to be sure, and I will be Praying the results will be Negative.  Let me Know What You Find Out Please.  God Bless Brenda

[fearabouthiv_007]

dear friend

Thanks for u and thanks for once again your valuable time spend for me

Friend., i saw your answer i feel very happy, ur very great!

i have 2 questions

1.i have this much virus. possible hiv? (after 4 months western blot negtive and 7 month elisa negtive)

2.finaly what is your opinion simply u say, i am go on marriage or not just say ur opinion?

once again thanks for u

god bless you

[crackerjack4u2]

Hello,
Ok let me try to answer your questions.  I don't mean to offend you but your post is very difficult for me to understand so if I misread something please tell me and I will try again.

HSV-1- can be transmitted and is most contagious during outbreaks(when blisters or symptoms are present) it can be spread as well when viral shedding occurs (without symptoms) and is present about 5% of the time. When that 5% of the time it is present during shedding you will not know it because you will not be symptomatic. During outbreaks it is recommended you refrain from oral sex at all and continue treatment of the acyclovir etc. as you are now.  It also can be transmitted even by lightly kissing like a mother and child would,  it does not have to be open mouth deep kissing to spread it.  

Rubella- If you currently do not have the measles outbreak you will not spread it.

Cytomegalovirus or CMV-  80% of adults in the US have this virus even if not symptomatic which most are not,  it is found in urine, blood, saliva, semen, cervical secretions, and breast milk. The symptoms of active or prolonged infection are chills, high fever, severe tiredness,  a generally ill feeling, enlarged spleen, and headache.  It usually does not cause a problem in healthy people but can in infants, elderly and immuno suppressed people.  The best way to help prevent spreading this is Good Hygiene, Condoms,and Frequent Hand washing.  Children can catch it if the person with the virus has hand to mouth contact with the infant.  Infected mothers can spread it to her unborn babies as well.  

Ok I've given you the information on the viruses, and how they can be spread.  So let me sum it up by answering your questions above in order for you now to make it easier to understand.  

#1 (No answer required)

#2 HSV- Yes, most likely during outbreaks and 5% of the time when not symptomatic or having an outbreak.  

Rubella, No, unless you are currently broke out with the measles.    

CMV-Yes, when symptomatic and non symptomatic-which most people are non symptomatic.
May help be prevented if precautions are taken as described above.  

#3 Yes you can have a baby even though you have these viruses, and yes it is Possible to spread the CMV, and the HSV to the baby if the necessary precautions that I described above are not followed. Your wife if becomes infected can possibly spread the CMV to baby as well.

#4- The treatment you are on is good and treatment needs to continue per doctors orders.

#5 I don't know anything about arranged marriages but if that's you cultures' tradition and you want to get married then Go For It.

#6-As far as the viruses becoming a higher risk for you or them.  That most likely won't be a problem because of the type of viruses you have.  People live long and happy lives everyday with HSV and CMV, as long as they follow their doctor's treatment orders.  Neither of these viruses are life threatening unless you become immuno supressed.   The only way your risk will likely increase or you'll get worse is if you get something else like HIV or Cancer or something that causes your immune system to be lowered for some reason along with what you've already got.  Otherwise, you will most likely do fine.    

Should you have any Outbreaks-(blisters in your mouth) or Symptoms(that I listed above) with them, you do need to again see your doctor, continue your ordered treatment and ensure you are using all the recommended precautions that I listed for you to implement during outbreaks in order to keep your wife and baby safe.  

I know you are concerned for others (possible future wife and future children especially) by what you wrote in your post.  I commend you for questioning your viruses, and the risks before going into marriage, you are very thoughtful for doing this.  I believe she will be very lucky to have a considerate husband like yourself.   I'd like to also suggest that if possible you let her know about your viruses and the possible risks, before marriage, if you decide to go forward. It's entirely up to you whether you do or not, of course, but I think that it would be yet one more thoughtful deed on your part to her.

I Hope This Helps Answer All Your Questions, Let Me Know If It Didn't Please.  
Good Luck and God Bless Brenda

  

[fearabouthiv_007]

hey waht u sey i dont have HIV till 8 month test reread my post please ?

[mstanfordrn42]

I am afraid we have cultural differences here so I am not going to be much help.  I have no idea about an arranged marriage.  But you can definitely pass HIV onto your wife if you have unprotected sex.  Talk with your doctor about this.