Any Advise???

[shay9884]

I am 7 weeks pregnant and i messed up after my husband and i got into a fight and cheated.  I slept with guy A on march 10 and then my husband march 12. Can anyone help me with this. I know you cant really do anything until the child is born but if i still feel like it belongs to guy A.... i am going to have an abortion. i have checked those conception date calculators and its kinds of a toss up..... my LMP was April 2. Any suggestions???

[mistydawn1979]

Abortion is not the answer. If you do not want the baby then give it up for adoption. there are so many people that want babies that cannot have them. I am one of them. It is not the babies fault. Please so not punish the baby just because you do not know who the father is. Give it a chance. Please

[Alfonz]

Hi Shay 9884, this situation you are in seems like it is a dilemma for you. To me the true father is whoever it is who takes over the role of father to this child. There is no way for you to know for sure without genetic testing, but unless this is a huge issue with your husband (if you have told him) then maybe this wouldn't be necessary because it might only bring more pain. If you are able, if you aren't now you might be later, to put this mistake behind you and focus on this child as being both yours and your husbands, because he would be the only father your child would know. This is my take on the situation for what it's worth! Good Luck!