Iv recent had surgery to remove an ectopic pregnancy and my right fallopian tube.
My partner has been great, mostly, but now appears to have thrown himself into work to deal with everything. Im glad he has a way to cope but I now feel so alone with no way to cope. All it takes is seeing babies/pregnant women or anything to do with this n im a complete mess. Im so down n alone even when he does pay me any notice im grumpy n not worth being around...
I'm sorry about your loss. I know its hard but time does heal. I myself had a partial tubal and needed a d&c in July of 2012. I'm now expecting. But the loss still hurts. If you ever want to chat feel free to email me or I did start a group called Maternity Ward. A lot of the group have had a loss pregnancy. Myself included. Great bunch of women with wonder words of support. Stop by. We will help you.
I am sooooo sorry. I can feel your pain. My DH does the same. I know exactly what you mean. I had a D&C too, and now I don't even want to go back to my OB's office for post-op follow-up. That place reminds me too much of past memories... I hope time heals. I've dealt with many losses before. Losing a baby while she's connected with you from inside definitely the most painful one~~
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