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Happy Birthday Mom

Dear Mom,

Today is your birthday and life will never be the same without. I miss you and stuggle with the reality that you are not here with me.  

Your mom died when your were only 9 yrs. old, so I can't imagine what you must have suffered too.

I hope you found both grandma and grandpa.

One day God is going to call me. Meet me at the gates from heaven and be the guiding light and show me the way.

Grief stricken,

Judy
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My moms birthday was Saturday. The first after her death this past April. I feel your pain.
                                                                                  
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Thank you all,

Today is my moms 72nd birthday and I'm already  not feeling too good.  Bad days just don't seem to end. I dread the holidays, Thanksgiving is days away and Christmas is around the corner.

Today I will be going to the cemetary early  and I know I'm going to have what I call another "moment". I miss her sooo much that at night II call her "mommy where are you?"  "Are you ok?", hoping she will come and give me a sign of comfort that all is well.

I want to wish everyone a Happy, blessed Thanksgiving and God bless you.

Judy
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Hang in there Judy and enjoy "here" while you are "here"...for someday you will all be together again.
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Hi Judy

I know how you feel because I lost my Mum 2 years ago.  Its the worst thing that can happen, especially if you were as close to your Mum as I was to mine.  

There is nothing that I can say that will make you feel better, or that will take the pain away.

If you truly belive that if your Mum is watching down on you from above, it only breaks her heart to see you so sad... and you don't want her to be sad, do you?
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