Thank you! I know they are but it is just really hard because my family is gone. the only family i have left is my mom and her side of the family and we do not talk. so its hard but im hanging in there.
I am glad I was able to help out. They may be gone physically, but they will live in your heart forever and they will be looking out for you.
Best wishes,
Neta
thank you for your advice, support, and condolences. I knew I was blessed but I never thought that they were blessed as well. you put my grief into a new perspective for me. thank you!!!!!
Losing a loved one can be tough, but cherishing his/her memories and keeping him/her in your heart will help you go on. Take one day at a time and if you want to cry, do so. Grieving is different for everyone, but keep in mind that even when your dad and your nana are gone, you have two angels watching over you and that one day you'll meet again.
I lost a dear man who was like a dad to me almost last September and I still miss him. I tend to talk to him and although he doesn't answer me, I know he's listening and helping me out. He was a great man and he took me in as if I was his own daughter. I was blessed to have him in my life and I know that someday we'll meet and have one of our long chats like in the old days.
So, take your loved ones in your heart everywhere you go, and time will help diminish the pain. It may never go completely away, but it will lessen as time goes by and you'll be able to go on with your life.
Also, they were blessed to have you with them since you loved them so much and took care of them, too.
Neta
Thank you for you condolences and support. I know I was blessed to have my dad and nana in my live. I know they loved me so very much. It is just hard because all I have left of them is there estates. They both left everything to me. I dont want the money I just want them. I am trying to take it one day at a time. My nana was always my vice when the important days about my dad came around. So its like I have no one to turn to. My boyfriend is so supportive and he lost his dad as well. He always tells me how he is soooo sorry that I have lost all my family and he is very supportive. Thank you for the advice.
i'm soooooo sorry...i forgot to mention your dad that you are grieving also.
you are soooooooo blessed to have had two such caring and loving ppl in your life.
one day at a time sweetie...one day at a time.
as the mother of three sons, who have fought addiction issues, let me first off commend you on 3 years of sobriety. that is awesome.
saying goodbye to someone that we love sooooooo dearly, is never an easy thing to do. it is downright painful. i wish there was an easy answer on how to get through it...but as you well know, there isnt.
just as you did with addiction...take it one day at a time. your nana may be physically gone...but it sounds as if you have such wonderful memories to treasure. let those memories carry you through this hard time.
you now have a "special" angel sitting on your shoulder, watching out for you. talk to her...just as before, she's always there to listen. my dad has been gone for a little over 2 years and i still feel his presence all around me. i talk to him almost daily...it helps me get through some very tough times. i can no longer hear his words of wisdom...but i can now feel what he is saying.
nana is not "gone" forever...she is just waiting on you :)
kim