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dealing with loss of newborn

Anyone here dealing or have dealt with the loss of a newborn. My baby boy was born 9/11 and lost him the same day. How can i cope with this
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8069122 tn?1407171566
Ohh hun I'm so sorry I know that helps none but I've never been through this so I don't have any advice just letting you know you have support out there <3
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This really helps guys.. Im dealing with it one day at a time. It hurts so much. He was so beautiful. Literally. And to those who asked.. He had a rare condition which caused his kidneys to stop working before birth. And his lunhs barely developed so he couldn't breathe.
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Sorry for your lost. I hve never lost a child and i cant even imagine how hard it mcan be. May i ask what happend?
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I am sorry for your loss I lost my 2nd baby at 34 weeks she lived for 20 mins. It is a very hard thing to go threw but with lots of love and support it helped me alot I don't know if your religious or not not but I knew God was there helping me threw and I had to look at it as there was a reason God needed his Angel more than us even tho it hurts us in so many was... my grandmother lost her son when he was grown and it was hard for her because she had 27 years of memories and would have to avoid things so it would not hurt her.. we only had the opportunity to know them in our womb and the little time they were here and I know nothing anyone says make it any easier but you will heal in your own time don't loose hope and you are in my prayers even tho I don't even know you.. I'm sorry if my message is to much
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This made me cry. I cant even imagine what your going through,  even though i am a stranger id just like to say that i myself am here to support a fellow mommie and im sure all these ladies agree.  We are here for you
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Thank u guys im really trying to hold up.. Im only 20 .. No friends .. At all .. And family is kinda out the question.... Idk what to do
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I can't read this without saying something,  however I've never been through this. But I'm so sorry for your loss,  and i hope you have supportive friends and family
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I'm so sorry for your loss.  I can't even imagine the pain.... go to therapy and seek help from support groups.  I hope you find peace.
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When I was prego three years ago before this one I miss carried it was very hard my hubby laid in bed with me for days took care of me and honestly I shut the world out I'm so sorry for your loss just take it easy sweetie it will get easier
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I'm sorry for your loss :(
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Sorry for your lose
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Sorry for your loss I had a stillborn at 32 weeks the way I dealt with it was work and the support of my fiancee I have them to remove all the baby stuff and I just took it one day at a time it gets easier with time
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