grieving and lost

[ce2]

Hello ive just experience having a stillborn....its really hard for me to be happy for my friends the ones that expecting and its killing me that it is unknown why it happen...my doc did all different tests and everything came back normal!  Have anyone ever experienced anything like this? Its hard to cope with it and talk to anyone

[sara586]

I am so sorry, I to am walking in the same shoes as you unfortunately. We lost our 2nd son Ryan on march 25th this year, I was 25wks pregnant & he wasn't due til July 4th. I struggle every day after losing him, some days are a little better than others. I experience the can't really be happy for others myself, still working on that as well. I have been going 2 a support group called compassionate friends they have helped they are a support group 4 ppl who have lost a child at any age they have "chapters" as they call them all over diff states. The ppl that have not gone thru the kind of loss we have will never truly understand our pain, but if u need someone 2 talk 2 u can message me I'd be more than happy 2 talk with u or vent if u need 2.

[skyler411]

I'm sorry to say I know exactly how your feeling. I too had my daughter die 6days before my due date.and the doctors had no answers for me either. My Heart is broken over her loss.the truth is no one can understand  your pain unless they've gone threw too. I stopped talking about it to people because its so hard to have them hear my word's and look back blank and not get it! I was pregnant with a lot of my friends and it's so hard to see thier babies and be happy for them..but I think it's normal to feel that way.if you need to talk you can message me any time ((huggs))