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its the loss
after years of feeling what i thought was grief..its the loss that hurts...let me tell  ye..my charley ann...she was so beautiful...she had long blonde golden curly wrinklets...she was beautiful....iv greived...but its the loss..i cant get over actually losing her...does anybody else think there is a difference.....?
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4437866 tn?1388123224
Charley Ann sounds like a beautiful girl. I don't think anyone actually gets over the loss of a child. The bond is very strong and the heart mourns forever. With time, it get easier. But there are times it feels like just yesterday. I wish I had an answer sweets. You and your family are in my prayers.
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Hi.....the loss is so strong, and the absence of our precious child is always with us.  I think when you are grieving it's just coming to terms with what has happened, it doesn't mean you accept it, or that it hurts any less.....your baby is still gone after all the dust settles, and that loss is forever with us.  A big part of you went with your precious daughter, there's an emptiness that nothing and nobody can fill that reminds you of the horrific loss.  I wish there were more words to ease your pain, but I know there aren't.  I hope it helps to know that many of us are walking this path with you and you are never alone.
Hugs.....mammo
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1530171 tn?1448133193
No one person is able to fully understand the pain you feel,
as we all process the loss of loved ones, differently.

However, our Faith and our Connection to the Divine can help us
heal, as we find common shared space with our lost ones in Spirit.
The Spirit is timeless  and eternal.

If  we were to allow our lives to be more Spirit driven , we would manifest
mainly Peace, Love and Joy, and devastating events like death would be
  experiences and lessons for Growth.

You see, in the Spiritual Realm, there's nothing wrong, bad, negative, sad.
It is our "human" views, mostly influenced by the Ego and the lack of
connection with our Higher Self, that characterize aspects of life as such.

I have suggested the Course in Miracles (free online lessons) to many
people, going through challenges like the ones discussed in this Community.  It has truly made a difference in  my life.

God Bless you All!
Niko

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thankyou so much for your kind words...mean so much...more than you know
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