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I am a male from Chinese . I have some experience with some Sex workers (female) since long time ago. They just perform oral sex for me (with condom) and I ejaculated .

In one circumstance , I went to toilet and have a bowel movement (release faeces) , then I clean up my anal with paper tissue and there is a small point of blood on the tissue. That means there is a cut on the anal. Few minutes , I forget the time interval  already , the sex workers use her tongue rimming my anal suddenly and my anal feel little pain ( not so pain) , then I stop her . Then continue on oral sex with condom . After ejaculation, I have vagina intercourse with condom for 20 sec ,  I am not sure the condom have broken or not.

Question:
1. Am i put myself in risk if she kiss or put her tongue into my anal if my anal have a cut ?
2.i get symptoms like diarrhoea (always have some faeces come out easily) and my leg is numb after that and lasting for few years , but I can walk and run , just some unfeeling appear on my leg . Is it related to HIV or I worried too much?
3. Am I put myself in risk for the 20sec vagina intercourse? Is the condom easily broken after ejaculation as I am not sure it is broken or not ?
4.in your opinion , performing oral sex by others  without condom do not put myself in the risk ! Is it different from Chinese , as some newspaper said Chinese guy resistance to HIV is weak?
5.Do I need a test  ? Can I move on in overall ?
Other question not related to above situation:
4.If no wearing condom for just 20sec vagina intercourse(with my friend) with no stimulating the pennis , just put inside the vagina with no ejaculation,  How much risk is it ? Can I move on?
5. Is the window peroid for this test( HIV 1&2abs & p24 ag ) 28 days or above ?
6. Am I over reacting In overall?



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hello,
Thank you for your post.  Here are your answers:
1. Am i put myself in risk if she kiss or put her tongue into my anal if my anal have a cut ? NO RISK OF HIV; THERE MIGHT BE A RISK OF OTHER STIs LIKE ANAL CHLAMYDIA OR GONORRHOEA, AS WELL AS SYPHILIS.
2.i get symptoms like diarrhoea (always have some faeces come out easily) and my leg is numb after that and lasting for few years , but I can walk and run , just some unfeeling appear on my leg . Is it related to HIV or I worried too much? NO, IT IS NOT RELATED TO HIV INFECTION.
3. Am I put myself in risk for the 20sec vagina intercourse? Is the condom easily broken after ejaculation as I am not sure it is broken or not ?
THERE WOULD BE NO RISK IF THE CONDOM REMAINED IN PLACE AND INTACT.  HOWEVER IF THE CONDOM WAS BROKEN, THERE WOULD BE RISKS, INCLUDING HIV, EVEN THOUGH LOW.
4.in your opinion , performing oral sex by others  without condom do not put myself in the risk ! Is it different from Chinese , as some newspaper said Chinese guy resistance to HIV is weak? RECEIVING UNPORTECTED ORAL SEX DOES NOT POSE RISK OF HIV INFECTION
5.Do I need a test  ? Can I move on in overall ? YOU WOULD ONLY NEED A TEST IF THE CONDOM WAS NOT INTACT.
Other question not related to above situation:
4.If no wearing condom for just 20sec vagina intercourse(with my friend) with no stimulating the pennis , just put inside the vagina with no ejaculation,  How much risk is it ? Can I move on? IN THE CASE OF THE LADY BEING POSITIVE, THE RISK WOULD BE LESS THAN 0.1%
5. Is the window peroid for this test( HIV 1&2abs & p24 ag ) 28 days or above ? YES, IT IS.
6. Am I over reacting In overall?
PROVIDED THE CONDOM REMAINED IN PLACE AND INTACT, THERE WOULD BE NO HIV RISK AND YOU WOULD NOT NEED TO GET TESTED.

7.If the workers kiss and suck my nipple by her month  . And also rub my body by her mouth . I am afraid of her saliva contains blood bring me to have a risk ? NO, NO HIV RISK
8. Refer to  some news , the doctor said rimming anal is a risk if there is cut in both the mouth and the anal ! Are there any cases happen? And I know some case have not announced the reason to catch HIV . Is that rimming anal will be one of the reasons? THAT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY TO BE THE CASE AND IT IS NOT CONSIDERED A SEXUAL PRACTICE INVOLVING HIV RISK AS PEOPLE DO NOT BECOME INFECTED THAT WAY.
Best wishes,
Dr José
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Sorry for post again!

8. Refer to  some news , the doctor said rimming anal is a risk if there is cut in both the mouth and the anal ! Are there any cases happen? And I know some case have not announced the reason to catch HIV . Is that rimming anal will be one of the reasons?
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7.If the workers kiss and suck my nipple by her month  . And also rub my body by her mouth . I am afraid of her saliva contains blood bring me to have a risk ?
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