Bad experience at trying to clean myself.

I went to a message parlor this past Saturday (11/20/10). The lady put baby oil on me. Then she wanted to have sex for money. I said oral only. She got a condom that was tucked in her braw. The condom was wraped in a tissue. She grabed my penis and put the condom on. She gave me oral for a max of 2 minutes and I came. She took the condom out with some napkins. I touched the bed and felt liquid in my hand. I BELIEVE THIS WERE HER VAGINAL FLUIDS).  With the same hand I grabed a Kleenex tissue  and put some alcohol ( she gave me a bottle of rubbing alcohol to use).  I attempted to clean my penis head. Again I grabed tissue and put some alcohol on it and rubbed it against the inside of my penis hole. The Kleenex was not folded and it was very thin. I felt the sting. Now I am worried, if the condom was any good, had holes, expired, type of condom, and brand. In addition I am worried might have mistakenly put some vaginal fluids in my penis and penis hole (the mucus membrane) . I AM SURE I MUST HAVE PUT SOME VAGINAL FLUIDS ON THE INSIDE OF MY PEE HOLE! THE MUCUS MEMBRANE.
Now I feel a slight sting/burn when I peen. This started on Wednesday and it does not happen overtime. I went to a doctor about 7 months ago and he told me I had an infection and gave me cypro. It currently does not feel as bad as before.
I know I have some sort of herpes in me in genital area. The day of the incident and the day after I felt the familiar tingling in my penis head and urethra. If I was having an outbreak.
If I had an untreated ngu, chlamidia, gonoreah, etc. from months ago that was unsuccessfully treated, would that change your assessment?
  However I just want to make sure you undertand that I not only touched my penis head BUT ALSO OPENNED MY PENIS HEAD BY SQEEZING AND RUBBED THE INSIDE OF IT AND CLOSED. The was mystipid attempt at cleaning my self. And the inside is a mucus membrane.
I am uncircumcised. I did touch my self. In the foreskin.

[Dr Sean Cummings]

Good Morning,

From what you say I do not believe you have been exposed to HIV even if the lady who performed oral sex on you was HIV positive.

HIV is a fragile virus and does not survive for long outside the human body and responds poorly to cooling, heating, drying etc. Unless you have unprotected penetrative sex with this lady you would not have been exposed to sufficient amounts of HIV to become contaminated (assuming that she was HIV positive which of course we do not know).

The quality of the condom in this instance is irrelevant since you did not have unprotected vaginal penetrative sex with. You will not become HIV positive through receiving oral sex - especially with a condom irrespective of the quality of the condom.


Applying alcohol gel to your penis will be unpleasant and will sting. Don't do it again.

If you remain concerned then go along and see a doctor and have some STD tests for bacterial STD's.

I do not believe, at all, that you 1) were exposed to HIV or 2) that you acquired HIV.

best regards, Sean

[C121249core]

Am I being Paranoid??

[C121249core]

Please note that I did Not have vaginal sex with this person. Nor did I put my finger in her. Just stupid attempt at cleaning myself as stated above. Plus the condom we used for brief oral might have been deteriorated.