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HIV risk with escort
Hi,
I'm a male and I did a stupid thing when I was drunk for two weeks ago. I received oral sex and gave vaginal sex to an escort from east Europe. Both protected. After a few days I got a sore throat, very mild. And again after 1 week I still had a sore throat and got headaches, pain in left testicle and pain in the lower stomach to the left just above the penis. I also been tired for a week and really stressed over this now. I also started dating a girl for a while ago and we had sex after this incident. And now she has had the same symptoms as me and I'm so afraid that I might have give her any std or HIV. Before this incident I was tested and clean. Also is she.
I'm not sure if I had any fever and not sure about rash. Had some rash that looked like a non itching mosquito bite that lasted for one hour and a couple of red rashes on my chest.
I bought home test kit that I'm going to take at day 30. And then again after 8 weeks.
So my questions.
1. Can this was a primary infection of HIV? Even if I used a condom?
2, could it be that the condom leaked fluids? Or could it break without notice?
3, will the test at 30 days be reliable? Any percentage? Also the 8 week test.
4. Have you heard of any case were HIV was transmitted when using a condom?
5, I read that a lot of people is getting sick after an incident like this, is it common that people doing things like this and get sick after the incident were all symptoms fits the primary infection?
6, if I get a rash, will I notice them as an unusual rash and not take them for usual acne or heat rash? And how common is rashes during primary HIV?
Thanks for your thoughts
I'm a male and I did a stupid thing when I was drunk for two weeks ago. I received oral sex and gave vaginal sex to an escort from east Europe. Both protected. After a few days I got a sore throat, very mild. And again after 1 week I still had a sore throat and got headaches, pain in left testicle and pain in the lower stomach to the left just above the penis. I also been tired for a week and really stressed over this now. I also started dating a girl for a while ago and we had sex after this incident. And now she has had the same symptoms as me and I'm so afraid that I might have give her any std or HIV. Before this incident I was tested and clean. Also is she.
I'm not sure if I had any fever and not sure about rash. Had some rash that looked like a non itching mosquito bite that lasted for one hour and a couple of red rashes on my chest.
I bought home test kit that I'm going to take at day 30. And then again after 8 weeks.
So my questions.
1. Can this was a primary infection of HIV? Even if I used a condom?
2, could it be that the condom leaked fluids? Or could it break without notice?
3, will the test at 30 days be reliable? Any percentage? Also the 8 week test.
4. Have you heard of any case were HIV was transmitted when using a condom?
5, I read that a lot of people is getting sick after an incident like this, is it common that people doing things like this and get sick after the incident were all symptoms fits the primary infection?
6, if I get a rash, will I notice them as an unusual rash and not take them for usual acne or heat rash? And how common is rashes during primary HIV?
Thanks for your thoughts
Sir.While doing(7/6/14) sex with a call girl my condom was broken.i imegately leave the girl and nathing to do again.im so worried about this.then next day I tested the girls hiv elesa test that was negative. But she tell me she was doing this work from last 20 days only. next day Im feeling burning or itching in my body and sore throat.then I go to a qualified dr.ha made my test hiv rns pcr or hsv1or 2 and vdrl..hsv or vdrl is positive and pcr is nagitave.he sterted my herpes treatment acyclovir 800mg and agumantin 625mg twice a day. Dr.says u have no hiv virus .on behalf of my testes I think so.after 20 days I go to another dr..that was qualified sexologist becouse im not feeling well .itching or burning are there and im feeling some joint pain and stomach problem looz motion not like dhrriya but some looz in morning or evening.and stomac pain.he continue my same treatment of herpes.he also says u have no hiv.then I go for another test on 28th day after contact Western bolt .that was also negative.i take the Madican 40 days and stop.but im feeling little burning or itching and sore throat .my dr.says this is all becose of tension. Now I want to know that tes t like this at 7th day or 28th day have some importance or not .then why im feeling burning or itchiwng sore throat and stomach pain.why my dr.give me green light. Wt can I do now.
Thanks for your answer! So you don't think I need to get tested for HIV? What about other STDs? I.e. chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhoea? Should I check these after sex with condom?
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello,
Here are your answers as follows:
1. Can this was a primary infection of HIV? Even if I used a condom?
NOT AT ALL. THERE WAS NO RIKS OF HIV INFECTION AT ALL WHATSOEVER. WITH THE CONDOM ON, THE RISK IS ZERO.
2, could it be that the condom leaked fluids? Or could it break without notice? I THINK THAT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY, AS YOU WOULD HAVE NOTICED THE CONDOM BREAKING OR COMING OFF. HOWEVER EVEN IF THAT HAD BEEN THE CASE, THE RISK TO YOU WOULD HAVE STILL BEEN EXTREMELY LOW.
3, will the test at 30 days be reliable? Any percentage? Also the 8 week test. A HIV DUO TEST IS CONCLUSIVE AFTER 28 DAYS
4. Have you heard of any case were HIV was transmitted when using a condom? NO
5, I read that a lot of people is getting sick after an incident like this, is it common that people doing things like this and get sick after the incident were all symptoms fits the primary infection? NO, THAT IS NOT COMMON AT ALL. IT IS CALLED SAFE SEX FOR A REASON.
6, if I get a rash, will I notice them as an unusual rash and not take them for usual acne or heat rash? And how common is rashes during primary HIV?
SYMPTOMS ARE IRRELEVANT. THERE WAS NO RIKS OF HIV, THEREFORE ANY SYMPTOMS CANNOT BE REALTED TO HIV SERO-CONVERSION.
Kind regards,
Dr José
Here are your answers as follows:
1. Can this was a primary infection of HIV? Even if I used a condom?
NOT AT ALL. THERE WAS NO RIKS OF HIV INFECTION AT ALL WHATSOEVER. WITH THE CONDOM ON, THE RISK IS ZERO.
2, could it be that the condom leaked fluids? Or could it break without notice? I THINK THAT IS HIGHLY UNLIKELY, AS YOU WOULD HAVE NOTICED THE CONDOM BREAKING OR COMING OFF. HOWEVER EVEN IF THAT HAD BEEN THE CASE, THE RISK TO YOU WOULD HAVE STILL BEEN EXTREMELY LOW.
3, will the test at 30 days be reliable? Any percentage? Also the 8 week test. A HIV DUO TEST IS CONCLUSIVE AFTER 28 DAYS
4. Have you heard of any case were HIV was transmitted when using a condom? NO
5, I read that a lot of people is getting sick after an incident like this, is it common that people doing things like this and get sick after the incident were all symptoms fits the primary infection? NO, THAT IS NOT COMMON AT ALL. IT IS CALLED SAFE SEX FOR A REASON.
6, if I get a rash, will I notice them as an unusual rash and not take them for usual acne or heat rash? And how common is rashes during primary HIV?
SYMPTOMS ARE IRRELEVANT. THERE WAS NO RIKS OF HIV, THEREFORE ANY SYMPTOMS CANNOT BE REALTED TO HIV SERO-CONVERSION.
Kind regards,
Dr José
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