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Please I'm freaking out

2 weeks ago, i was on holidays. I went to a sauna and i met a guy there which i don't know his HIV status. I am a male. I gave him a fellatio but no ejaculation was in my mouth. but i think there was precum i don''t know. but few days ago i bit my tongue but there was no bleeding. we kissed but he had a really bad breath. he put his finger in my anal. this is what happened. I got so depressed after this adventure. few days later i got a small herpes from stress and a small bump in my upper palate. one day later it disappeared. on my chest i have like 5 spots given that i shaved my chest before. and finally when i''m going to the toilet i don''t have diarrhea but the waste is sometimes solid and other times a little bit less solid. and i noticed very few white spots on my leg which i also shave.
So please help. I'm lost and my spirits are down.
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Dear doctor sean,

today as you said i had an HIV test and antigene and it turned up to be negative (after 22 days of exposure). i saw the doctor like you said he's going to give me ROCEPHIN 2000mg for syphillis in case there is. for other STD's he told me not to worry because there was no burning in the unrination. but in case there isn't syphillis will the rocephin have side effects ? and how much accurate is the HIV test that i did after 22 days of exposure? and do i have to worry about hepatitis or other stuff?

thank you very much and sorry about the spamming (it's psychological)
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1024580 tn?1331574121
Hello,
Thank you very much for your post and apologies for not having replied sooner.
Your sexual encounter did not involve any significant risk of HIV infection at all whatosever.  Therefore you need to try to calm down as most of the symptoms that you are experiencing are most likely to be related to your anxiety and worry.  Performing oral sex on a man mainly could involve risks of contracting throat Chlamydia and/or Gonorrhoea.  From the point of view of HIV infection, there is only a theoretical risk.  Not knowing the status of the other man, the estimated risk is between 0% to 0.006%, and if the other man was defintiely positive, the risk would be between 0% to 0.04%, and that would be with ejaculation inside of your mouth, which is not the case.  As you can see, the risk is practically zero.
Best wishes,
Dr José
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congrats on ur HIV negative test result. I will have my HIV-1 AB test October 14. Wish me luck
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Dear doctor sean,

today as you said i had an HIV test and antigene and it turned up to be negative (after 22 days of exposure). i saw the doctor like you said he's going to give me ROCEPHIN 2000mg for syphillis in case there is. for other STD's he told me not to worry because there was no burning in the unrination. but in case there isn't syphillis will the rocephin have side effects ? and how much accurate is the HIV test that i did after 22 days of exposure?
thank you very much and sorry about the spamming (it's psychological)
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936016 tn?1332765604
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Whoa! Slow down cowboy! You're not asking questions but you're spamming!!

You need to do the following:-

Go and SEE a doctor and tell him or her the full story and get a full range of STD tests including HIV and syphilis and anything else they recommend.

The main reason I'm saying this is because of your high anxiety - which is leading you to fire off all these questions. You need to just deal with it and they way to do that is to go and see a doctor.

Best wishes, Sean
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Dr. do you think it's Syphillis, because 5 days after the incident i had a  bump in my upper palate a small one and it was painless.
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Doctor i've been really much better but I still have the Itching problem.
what do you think that is from ?
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thanks for the reply doctor,
but since i came home, i'm having trouble going to the toilet for waste i feel a bit constipated or sthg like that. and yesterday i had diarreah. and yesteday night i had this burning feeling inside my nose that went all the way to my throat. (given that i felt sthg going inside my nose mosquito i think sorry for being disgusting). plus ive been feeling a little less itchy but ive been feeling a little bit itchy. given that today im psycholagically better then yesterday.
so what do you think are these symptoms ?
thanks in advance
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I kinda have done something similar to yours, followed a friend to sauna and now extremely regretting it and scared everynowadays that I got hiv!!!!!! didnt hv anal intercourse but lots of body rubbing with a guy and m not sure any of the pre-cum/semenliquid that have touched any cuts/open sore on my body.... i also rmb that he rub his penis against my butt...... um..... now i hv a few reddish 'insect bites like' spots on my arms for a few days...... its worrying and m thinking to go to get test on 28th days  are you gonna get tested too??

doctor, is it warranted??
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plus I've been feeling a little bit itchy evrywhere in my body.
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oh, and I've been having some burning under my arm pits when i get scared or when i have a panic attack.
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i forgot to mention, after i got back home i went to a psychologist because i had panic attacks and i told her my situation and told me no need to worry. But I'm still worried.
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