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Real afraid after contact with a sexworker


I am a man,heterosexual, 35 years, married for 08 years without extra marital relationship, free from disease. I´ve read several times the posts before to scribe this one.  03 days ago I traveled to Sao Paulo for a work conference and went to a nightclub sex costly. Do not drink alcohol infirm drop of reason not to lose. I met a young sex worker and spent just one hour together. The same appeared to be very careful and methodical, measured my penis before beginning the act to find the best condom, asked us to remove any props that might scratch as watches, bracelets and ask we  to took a shower before we start sex.
I put the condom first with all the right techniques, then sucked her breasts, her navel, I received protected oral sex, and practiced insertive vaginal sex also protected. There was no kissing on the mouth , anus or vagina. By removing my penis from her vagina, I noticed that it was absolutely nice, normal integrity, with sperm inside and two drops of blood on the outside of the condom that covers the glans. The drops didn´t came from me. I removed the condom and no signs of blood stain on me elsewhere. Again we separate bathroom, new washing, put new condom and got new protected oral sex from her and vaginal insertive protected. Ejaculated inside the condom and outside her vagina because of the risk of rupture, and make new separate bathroom hygiene.
I am so afraid it was the first (and last) that have relationships outside of my marriage. And all this was much more frightening than pleasurable for me. I am convinced that I have no emotional structure to another time.
I am a pacient in treatment generalized anxiety disorder with clonazepam and paroxetin, and didn’t sleep fine in three days, I have no appetite and tachycardia. I got some evidence to be tested for this ocasion?  I´m afraid just thinking in to be tested. God bless you.

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Dear Doctors Garcia, Hook, Handsfield, Cummins.Even with negligible risk, which came negative ELISA recived now, after six weeks. I would like to thank from the heart for the helps that you have provided me in six weeks of pure misery I have lived, because I read almost every post sent while this time. Do not you know they are important as they are renowned doctors from US, Spain, UK, all pHD and book editors etc. .. in a specialty that deals with emotion and destroys one, depriving us to talk about it with people you love most. In my country a consult whith a specialist of your level would cost 444 USD, where a minimum wage costs 333 USD, and only in big cities. I would like to remind you that even the other side of the planet, you continue to be instruments of God for help through the Internet. Congratulations and thank you.
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Thank you very much Doctor. I'm sure that I took my lesson. Best whishes to your life.
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Hello,
Thank you for your post.
Both episodes of sexual intercourse were fully protected for oral and penetration.  That's safe sex, especially because you are sure that the condoms remained in place and intact.  Therefore there is no risk for you at all whatsoever and you do not need testing.
Best wishes,
Dr José
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...intact AND well posicionated...sorry by my poor english, I'm a foreing.
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Sorry Doctor that's me again. Just for say the after the end of the two events the condons were intact e well posicionate from basis to glans. Thank's.
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