STD or HIV Worry

Hi there

Im hoping you can clear my mind please, you will probably think I'm being stupid but I just cant stop worrying about this.

Last year I went to Thailand for Christmas an new year for a few weeks. I got back last January.

Over my stay I slept with probably about 6 different girls, I wore a condom everytime I had intercorse but there is two things that are bothering me.

The first is that when I was sleeping with a girl, half way through we realised she was on her period an there was abit of blood, as soon as we realised we stopped and washed it all off, like I say though, I was wearing a condom.

The second is I was playing with a girls vagina, basically just her cliterous with my finger, she was very dry so I added a bit of saliva, as soon as I did this I remembered I had a small popped blister on the side at the end of my finger that I was playing with her with that I got from playing golf earlier that day. It popped later on early evening and this was about 3 - 4am, it was'nt bleeding and nor did I put it inside her, but like every other popped blister it was just a little bit sore, but again, I was just rubbing her on the outside and not for very long at all, and did not insert it.

I got tested pretty much as soon as i got home, probably a week or two later and it was negative. The docter said I havent anything to worry about come back in three months. I managed to hold off for six months and got tested again, it was negative again but still I am worrying like mad about it.

I guess you could say I have ocd when it comes to HIV even after the things I'v read about it, like it being quite difficult for a man to catch it off a women etc.

Im just looking for some professional reasurence to clear my mind that im being stupid for worrying or that you cant even catch it for the reasons I am worrying, thanks for your time.

[Dr. Jose Gonzalez-Garcia, MD, MRCGP, PhD]

Hello,
Thank you very much for your post and welcome to our forum.
I can assure you that none of the sexual encounters that you had, as described, would have posed any risk of HIV infection.  In addition to that, you had a negative test result after 6 months, which is totally conclusive.  Therefore my advice to you is to forget it and to move on.  You are HIV negative without any doubt whatsoever.
Best wishes,
Dr José

[Jolly1982]

Thank you very much for your answer and also putting my mind at ease, i know the test is conclusive so i dont know why im still thinking about it, i guess you can never be to carefull hey!

But just so im a little more clued up on it, the encounter with the blister on my finger posed no risk why? Am i right in saying HIV cant be contracted on the outside of the body which is why both encounters posed no risk?

Thanks again for your time an help, you're doing s great job.

[Jolly1982]

Is this website serious? I just got spam emails suggesting 10 foods to spice up my love life??? Thanks for your time