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Very worried again.

Hello Dr, my last question was this: http://www.medhelp.org/posts/HIV---Prevention/After-so-many-symptoms--herpes-now/show/1726938?camp=27 . After i made ​​a CMIA 4th generation-768 days after and Eclia 4th generation - 865 days after , all negative "thank God."
Convinced that all my symptoms are due to something else, I had unprotected sex with my wife after the last test.
Ten days later she started with a headache, cough, coryza much, much phlegm. These symptoms lasted ten days with her. Ai returned all my paranoia, I would not forgive myself if I have never put it at risk.
Dr help me, because she had these symptoms? Too much coincidence, she gets the flu ten days after unprotected terms.
In all my posts, I said I needed 100% guarantee  to no put she at risk. Thanks.
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1024580 tn?1331574121
Hello,
I think that you need to get some psychological help as you are not over this situation yet.  All your wife is suffering from is a simple cold, nothing else.  Your guilt is still there and that is why I feel that you need some help.  You need to come to terms that you are HIV negative as your negative results were final and fully conclusive.  You need to be able to move on.  Otherwise you are going to continue blaming yourself everytime your wife sneezes.
Besrt wishes,
Dr José
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Thank you Dr, lack of consideration, may God bless you.
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Dr, answer my last question, I intend to have a child?
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Dr, in closing, I can be 100% quiet in relation to hiv? Even if I was one of the rare cases that do not produce antibodies?
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But my main fear is HIV.
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1024580 tn?1331574121
You need to consult a doctor if you are worried.
Regards,
Dr José
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Dr Sorry, I know I sure would believe in tests, but my symptoms are many.
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