had an oral sex and I am worried

[flame233]

hi , I am. 34 year old man

yesterday I an oral sexual contact with another man

basically what happened is that he inserted his penis in my mouth for a about 3 seconds and only about 3 cm deep

then i removed it  ( there was no semen ) , then he did me a hand job

sorry for being so graphical but i really doesnt want to miss any details

I dont know if he is HIV + or not but I now that he is sexually active gay man


Am i at risk of having HIV with this act and should I get tested ?

I am really worried and sleeples and reduses to have sex with my wife cause I love her and I dont want her to be at risk

thanks ..

[Randypunk]

What is the possibility of blood entering the urethra of the penis during a handjob.. Is it possible to get hiv like that.. I received a handjob and I'm really worried but I did not have any cuts on my penis and I didn't see any blood on my penis as well... But I'm really worried.. Has anyone ever got hiv Cuz of receiving a handjob.. Plz plzz reply as I am unable to do anything Cuz of this fear.

[UkraineHIV]

dont worry , and dont contact with him , just be relax you never had HIV !!
your store like my store !! dont worry and dont pay for him any dollar

[syedzainali]

Dr please do guide me I have recently received a blowjob some 10 days ago from a local street escort and after two weeks I am having a fever of 99.4 farenhiet and I am feeling quite tired all the day please please do guide me I am feeling tingling in my palm and having a lot of sweat all the time on forehead but no rashes yet
and I have done a rapid hiv test but it was negative sir please please guide me

[flame233]

thank you for your answer Dr Sean

I am planning to go to london to do a PCR test at 10 days , do you recommend this ? or should I just forget about it since you think I had no risk ?

and if I did that and it as negative , is it conclusive or should I do a test on 28 day ?

[Dr Sean Cummings]

Hello - I am sorry for the delay in responding.

I do not believe you are at risk of HIV from this because it was so brief and there was no ejaculation - so I do not believe you have been exposed to HIV.

There is - contrary to ahabib90's comments above - a small risk to people of HIV infection if they suck a male and he is HIV positive and he ejaculates into their mouth - that risk is around 1 in 5000 or so. In your case he did not ejaculate into your mouth and so I do not believe there was a risk.

You may want to consider that other diseases such as syphilis, chlamydia and gonorrhoea may be more easily spread and that you might wish to test for these before returning to sexual activity with your wife.

kind regards, Sean

[flame233]

thank you for your response

sure I am feeling guilty alot , but this is not why I posted this question ... I posted it to have a an expert openion regarding my setuation

with what I desceibed , can you say I had zero risk of HIV transmission ?

I contacted the guy And asked him to do an HIV test , he asked me to pay him 1200$ in order to take the test , I agreed to pay him , but later he refused ( may be he was not sure that I ill pay him .. may be ) , this made me crazy and worried like hell !

still , I couldnt sleep at all , when i laied in bed yesterday i kept thinking and thinking till morning !

please give me an answer asap ? risk ? should I test ?

[ghart23]

Hello there
I'll try to help. You are at NO risk of HIV here. Oral sex is NOT a risk factor. So please relax. With just 3 seconds, the chance you caught anything at all is very low. You might just be guilty and reacting this way. You can look up Dr Hansfield's comments about the risks of oral sex on this website. Hope this helps