I repeat that you could not have acquired HIV from the exposure described in your thread last year. Therefore, if you have had no other possible exposures, your symptoms cannot be due to HIV. And anyway, your symptoms do not suggest HIV. Thrush is painless, rarely causing sore throat; and I doubt your wife's sore nipples are related to any of this.
You don't mention HIV testing. You should do it. Not because I think there is any chance you have HIV, but people as anxious as you are usually gain more reassurance from negative testing than from any advice I can give. If and when you have been tested, feel free to return to let me know the outcome. You can expect a negative result.
Regards-- HHH, MD