Bleeding gum and the other symptoms time line

[Soooootired]

Hi 

last week I went to a Chinese spa and during the massage session, the Chinese girl started to like me then she kissed my ears and my nick and was offering me to do a hand job for me and after starting the hand job she bended and kissed the top of my dick and I got angry and stopped her because I  didn't want to have an oral sex...... three days later I went to the dentist to do a filling to my tooth and clean the other teethe but the doctor told me that I had a bleeding gum and this is because I had an infection because a strange virus entered  my body and he advised me to use a salty water for the bleeding gum, my questions are:

1 the massage girl kissed the top of my dick when she was really horny, am I at risk? What is the chance?
2 I had the first HIV symptoms after 3 days of the possible exposure... is this related the virus which might entered my body
3 what is the time line between the the bleeding gum and the other HIV symptoms like fever, headache and the other know HIV symptoms....how long I will wait to feel them?

I'm so worried please help

Thanks a lot in advance

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

Welcome to the forum.  Thanks for your question.

This was a zero risk event with regard to HIV, which is not transmitted by kissing and rarely if every by oral sex.  In addition, it is very unlikely your partner had HIV anyway.

As for your inflamed gums, I don't know what "strange virus" your dentist was thinking about, but HIV does not do this. Even if you had caught HIV (I reemphasize that it was impossible from the exposure described), symptoms from HIV do not start sooner than 10 days later; and HIV doesn't cause gum inflammation.

Continue to work with your dentist about your mouth problem.  You can ask him for more information about what sort of virus he was taking about.  But you do not need HIV testing.

I hope this has helped.  Best wishes--  HHH, MD

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

See above.

[Soooootired]

Hi Doctor, 
Maybe because of my english is not that good, i got things mixed up, so let me summarize things:

Possible HIV exposure was one week ago
The other party only kissed my ears and nick and the top of dick for a nano second but nooooo blow job or sex
Three days later I had a bleeding gum with no other symptoms 


My question
Am I at risk from has described if yes why the dentist did inform me  a virus entered my body and when the other symptoms will follow the bleeding gum one? As for today I have only the bleeding gum

 Thanks