"Superficial cuts and scratches are not entry points for HIV" is an accurate statement. Maybe if a superficial scratch were unusually exposed, e.g. vigorously rubbed with HIV infected blood. But not with the sort of exposure you had.
You have a common misunderstanding about timing of reliable HIV antibody tests. A single test at 6-8 weeks is sufficient; or even at 4 weeks, when over 90% of newly infected persons have positive results. Or if your Ob has access to the newly available duo test (for both HIV antibody and p24 antigen), a 4 week test is 100% reliable. Here is a thread that discusses these issues:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1347755
Really, try to stay mellow about this. You'll be fine.
Thank you. I guess my mind is eased...sort of. I know she acted inappropriately, but then again I am quite sure she is not one who cares or stops to think about potential diseases others carry. I am not too sure what her viral load is or any of that, and I would not want to offend and bring it up to her.
I did already have the routine HIV test at 10 weeks pregnant, and I now will have to wait an additional 12 weeks for another, correct?
So, is it correct to say that the people who write "superficial cuts and scratches are not entry points for HIV" are wrong in their statements?
Sorry to bother, I am just quite upset over this whole ordeal.
Welcome to the HIV forum. I'll try to help.
The bottom line is that there is no realistic chance you caught HIV. The scratch by your friend's fingernail carried no risk at all, and saliva inactivates HIV. So even if your friend's HIV infection is poorly controlled (i.e. high virus levels in her blood etc), the mouth/saliva contact carried little or no risk. Even if here were also blood in her mouth, gum disease, etc, her own saliva would have inactivated the virus. This is one of the reasons oral sex almost never transmits HIV.
Having said that, your friend behaved inappropriately. The scratch was an accident, but nobody should ever lick another person's wound, whether or not they have HIV or anything else. It's just basic hygiene and helps prevent such skin infections like staph, strep, etc. Probably her being drunk had some role here. (On top of this, no person should exposure herself to another person's blood in this way! What if you were a hepatitis carrier, for example?)
HIV testing is routine and automatic these days in pregnant women, so if your Ob hasn't already tested you, probably s/he is planning to do so. You should tell him/her about this event; s/he may decide to test you again, just to reassure you that you weren't infected. But in the meantime, you really shouldn't be at all worried about this event.
I hope this helps. Best wishes for you and your growing family!
Regards-- HHH, MD