Of course I paid for them myself I would never expect any one to pay for my mistakes. I appreciate your timely response and I will stop testing and move on with my life. Again, thank you. You don't realize how much help you have been.
Welcome to the forum. Thanks for your kind words about it, and for being a loyal "customer". And congratulations on your responsible approach to sexual safety.
However, you are being far too compulsive about HIV testing, to a point that I am worried about your mental health (OCD, maybe?). With the level of risk you describe, it would make sense for you to have a standard HIV antibody test once a year -- or every 6 months if you can't stand waiting a full year between tests. Unless and until you have a definite HIV exposure -- e.g., condom failure in anal sex with a known infected partner -- I recommend against testing after individual exposures and against any PCR testing. I hope you have been paying for all the excess tests yourself; it would be unfair for you to be accessing public services (e.g., an STD clinic) and in effect using public resources for all this.
But to the information you really care about: it is not possible to have HIV in the face of the negative results you have had. Since your last exposure was in June, a single antibody test in September would have been sufficient to be 100% certain you are free of HIV. And of course you can't catch HIV "later on in my life" unless you are exposed to it in the future.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD