I am a male who had unprotected, vaginal intercourse with a women who's history I do no know at all. This was exactly three months ago. The actual act lasted no more than 2 minutes. There was no other activity besides french kissing. We parted ways; I have no way of contacting her.
I have read many posts and have come to understand the mathematical probabilities. Less than 1/2000 chance if she was HIV+ X 1/1000 chance of her evening having HIV, etc. However, there are a couple issues that have caused great stress and anxiety.
1: During the actual acitivity, I proceeded to withdraw before exaculating. When I told her I was about to "cum" she said "that's the good thing, you can". That statement horrified me. Why would any girl say it was ok? I understand if she might not be worried about getting pregnant, but to not be worried about getting an STD??? That's when I stopped.
2: At about three weeks after the encounter, I developed what I believed to be thrush or somethign similar. I had noticed an ulcer in my cheek, then a patchy part on my tounge. When I scraped that off it hurt. Later that night I noticed a bit of a low grade fever. Next morning I noted a fishy odor from my groin area. I had never experienced any discharge, sores or the like on or from my penis. I felt a bit tired that day as well. All symptoms cleared up within about 2-3 days of the onset. The exact same symptoms occurred 2 weeks later and have not returned since.
3: We met at a gay event.
2 months later, I had my annual physical exam with full CBC and blood workup. I'm a very healthy individual so was surprised to have experienced that thrush like episode (I had been working very hard, stressed, little sleep during that time). I have never had any STD prior to this. I have had cankers before but not in many years.
I went for a complete STD test yesterday but my anxiety is overwhelming. I've had no other abnormal symptoms than those listed above.