Hi Doctor!
I am writing to You like all the others with I guess a question that You have answered many times, but my anxieties are killing me..... Here it goes.
I am a married man who 8 months ago became a father to a beautiful daughter. Since she was born my wife almost stopped having intimacy with me, with all the responsibilities around the little baby i don't blame her at all that at the end of the day she doesn't fell like it..... Me myself have a stressful job .... A week ago my family went on a 3 week trip and there´s my problem. Exactly 6 days ago i went to a pay escort, there i had protected oral sex with the condom she provided but for sure intact and applied properly plus protected vaginal sex two times.....I also bout 2 weeks ago shaved my pubic area but i had no lesions, if thats of any relevance to my question. Maybe i would´t have written to You but i made the same mistake today. I went to this escort that apparently been in the business around 30 years so she certainly had a share of clients..... Anyway she had a clean shaved pubic area, gave me oral sex with a condom she provided and rolled on with her mouth bit i don't think there was a contact of my glans with her mouth and then we had sex for about 2 min, protected and thats it. Now I am freaking out.... 1st is the guild and sick feeling in my stomach coz i love my family so much and i never wanna hurt them..... 2nd the scare of HIV/STD.
- Should i be worried after those 2 exposures, the clean shaved my and her´s pubic regions could that pose higher risk?
- Should i get tested, and when is a good time?
- When my wife is back we already talked bout planning a 2nd child, should i abstain from being intimate with her?
- Has there been a case of somebody getting HIV from a protected sex ?
Doctor, i am going to appreciate your answers, help and wise suggestions.
Thank You.
Sincerely , Alex