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Hand Job - Massage Parlour
Dr Hunter,
I had been to a message parlour in the first week of March' 09. The intention was not to have sex but just some relaxation but it ended up in a hand job. Want to be a bit narrative.
We did a bit of hugging kissing . I was naked and lying on her body with she wearing a panty . she was always wearing it during the act.i didnt have any kind of sexual intercourse(vaginal,anal,oral) - no insertion. Then she started applying massage oil on her palms and applied the same
on my penis in and out by peeling out the foreskin. She held my penis with her two fingers and started giving the hand job for sometime and then i felt but uncomfortable and i finally masturbated. I didnt visibly see any blood in her hands(meaning like she was bleeding) and i also didnt have any cuts and i wasnot bleeding.
After this act i was really depressed. After about a week i went to my primary care physician and told about this and she said that i was fine.
I even called up a hospital where they do hiv counselling , visted their department and talked about this problem.
They siad that i had no risk. I even got tested in the first week of april (32 days after the incident) and came out negative.
what if she had small amount of blood in her fingers and that entered into my urethra or the genital. Did i put myself at risk.
Also During my encounter with the massage girl i briefly played with her breasts and sucked her nipples but i think that i never got any milk out of that sucking. Is there risk involved in sucking her nipples.
I am getting anxious as i have been some kind of tingling sensation and dryness in my mouth for a bout a week. I can assure 100% that i never had any kind of sex with the massage girl.
1) Tingling sensation and dry mouth is that a hiv symptom.
2) How goods are the results after 32 days
3) I looked at my tongue and it looks normal. For watever activities i had described , was i at risk .
Do i need to get tested again at 4 months
I had been to a message parlour in the first week of March' 09. The intention was not to have sex but just some relaxation but it ended up in a hand job. Want to be a bit narrative.
We did a bit of hugging kissing . I was naked and lying on her body with she wearing a panty . she was always wearing it during the act.i didnt have any kind of sexual intercourse(vaginal,anal,oral) - no insertion. Then she started applying massage oil on her palms and applied the same
on my penis in and out by peeling out the foreskin. She held my penis with her two fingers and started giving the hand job for sometime and then i felt but uncomfortable and i finally masturbated. I didnt visibly see any blood in her hands(meaning like she was bleeding) and i also didnt have any cuts and i wasnot bleeding.
After this act i was really depressed. After about a week i went to my primary care physician and told about this and she said that i was fine.
I even called up a hospital where they do hiv counselling , visted their department and talked about this problem.
They siad that i had no risk. I even got tested in the first week of april (32 days after the incident) and came out negative.
what if she had small amount of blood in her fingers and that entered into my urethra or the genital. Did i put myself at risk.
Also During my encounter with the massage girl i briefly played with her breasts and sucked her nipples but i think that i never got any milk out of that sucking. Is there risk involved in sucking her nipples.
I am getting anxious as i have been some kind of tingling sensation and dryness in my mouth for a bout a week. I can assure 100% that i never had any kind of sex with the massage girl.
1) Tingling sensation and dry mouth is that a hiv symptom.
2) How goods are the results after 32 days
3) I looked at my tongue and it looks normal. For watever activities i had described , was i at risk .
Do i need to get tested again at 4 months
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
There is no connection between B12 and HIV transmission risk or the reliability of HIV testing.
This is the sort of question you should be asking of your doctor, not here. I said this thread is over. This is not a counseling service for people with unreasonable anxieties who cannot or will not accept the advice they already received. If you post anything else at all, the entire thread will be deleted without further reply. And do not start a new thread with the same questions, which would meet the same fate, without refund of the posting fee.
This is the sort of question you should be asking of your doctor, not here. I said this thread is over. This is not a counseling service for people with unreasonable anxieties who cannot or will not accept the advice they already received. If you post anything else at all, the entire thread will be deleted without further reply. And do not start a new thread with the same questions, which would meet the same fate, without refund of the posting fee.
Doctor,
Please excuse me for starting this thread again. I was very much convinced that i would not get hiv from the activities that i had mentioned in my previous posts. But recently i had got a general blood checkup done by my primary care physician and to my surprise we found that vitamin B12 content in my blood was low. The doctor is also clueless of what would have caused this. Could you please let me know if
hiv infection can bring down the vitamin B12 level in blood. I'm really very worried. Please help me.
For watever activities i had mentioned its been five months only.
Please excuse me for starting this thread again. I was very much convinced that i would not get hiv from the activities that i had mentioned in my previous posts. But recently i had got a general blood checkup done by my primary care physician and to my surprise we found that vitamin B12 content in my blood was low. The doctor is also clueless of what would have caused this. Could you please let me know if
hiv infection can bring down the vitamin B12 level in blood. I'm really very worried. Please help me.
For watever activities i had mentioned its been five months only.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
See my reply above: "Your symptoms do not suggest HIV". Tingling of the sort you describe is usually a physical manifestation of anxiety, sometimes specifically due to hyperventilation. It it not an HIV symptom.
This thread is over. Accept the reassurance you have been given and move on. If there are any more comments, this thread will be deleted. Do not try starting a new thread with the same questions; it would meet the same fate, without reply.
This thread is over. Accept the reassurance you have been given and move on. If there are any more comments, this thread will be deleted. Do not try starting a new thread with the same questions; it would meet the same fate, without reply.
Thanks Doctor for your responses. I just wanted to know if tingling palms is a symptom of hiv/std. I'm getting this tingling sensation in both my hands especially in the palms.
Please clarify
Please clarify
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Although I am answering your question, it is not because you requested me by name. Dr. Hook and I take questions interchangably, without regard to requests for one of us or the other.
Questions about hand-genital transmission and non-intercourse exposures in massage parlors are among the most common of all questions on this forum. You could have saved the posting fee by reading the important Disclaimer message and searching for other questions like yours.
As for all the other similar questions: HIV is not transmitted by hand-genital contact, and the large majority of women who give massages in commercial parlors do not have HIV anyway. Your symptoms do not suggest HIV. You did not require HIV testing after this event, but in any case your negative result at 1 months is strong evidence you did not catch HIV. You were not at risk for HIV and do not need further testing.
Regards-- HHH, MD
Questions about hand-genital transmission and non-intercourse exposures in massage parlors are among the most common of all questions on this forum. You could have saved the posting fee by reading the important Disclaimer message and searching for other questions like yours.
As for all the other similar questions: HIV is not transmitted by hand-genital contact, and the large majority of women who give massages in commercial parlors do not have HIV anyway. Your symptoms do not suggest HIV. You did not require HIV testing after this event, but in any case your negative result at 1 months is strong evidence you did not catch HIV. You were not at risk for HIV and do not need further testing.
Regards-- HHH, MD
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