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Hiv or something??

Hi doctors,
I am heterosexual male,Frustrating and regretting in my life after a mistake in my life after an protected sex  unprotcted oral sex with unknown status girl 5-1/2 months ago.. I was sex with my wife in October for couple of days and I moved to new place met new partner which is first time meet without knowing anything her status I have participated in unprotected oral and protected vaginal sex(she only provided condom), 1 week after incident I was feel dry mouth, sore on penis, slight fever, hairy white tongue started ; continuously so many symptoms added one by one include low grade fever running everyday(still running,no stop), generaliEd lymph nodes, sore throat started from 3 month feel,the lymph nodes feel pain, rash on sholderS, scalp,on/off tingling of feet and hands, thrush,twitching of legs,buttocks(4-12weeks), went so weak, mild pain under right lower ribs(May be lever), joint pains, fatigue and a lot.
I have visited 2 ID dr for near 8 times they done lab test which
1.hiv pcr RNA quantitative (quest dia) at 5,16 weeks not detected
2.hiv EIA antibody negative at 2,8,16 weeks
3.oraquick home swab test negative at 5,8,12,15,19 weeks negative
4.all std negative, CBC (5 times)normal

1.What should I do or where should I go to get diagnose for everyday low grade fever, painful swollen lymph nod symptoms?
2.because I had sex with multiple sex partners, I convinced May be have hiv ;do I need any further hiv or std tests at 6 month mark to confirm the symptoms are not due to hiv?
3. Symptoms all resembles hiv and I had sex with multiple partners but negative hiv test . What should I believe(test or symptoms)? But definitely some virus playing and ruining in my body.
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
This will be my final answer to your persistent, repetitive, anxiety-laden questions.  You do not have HIV. If you choose to believe the internet (Google) over my assessment, that is up to you.  You do not have HIV.  You need to give up on this concern and move forward seeking the true origin of your symptoms.

Further questions will be deleted without comment.  EWH
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Dr last question
I don't seen anybody (in google search) with fever swollen lymph nodes same time having negative results everybody who have lymphnodes turns to hiv anyhow sometime.. It's so scary for me to test now at 6 month mark.. Feeling sick mentally and don't understand what to do.. One side physical symptoms with pain and other side mentally feeling sick to understand results...

As you are experienced dr please tell me how much probability the 3-1/2 month negative will turn to positive now or future exclusive who is persisting with continious fever and swollen lymphnode and sore throat sysmptoms ??

Is there medication or cure for my unknown disease??

Thanks a lot for your support to me
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
You do not have HIV.  If there are continuing symptoms, rather than needlessly worrying about something you do not have, I recommend finding a doctor you feel good about and working with him/her to find out their origin.  EWH
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almost 6 months of continious symptoms I have to worry a lot because those were causing so much trouble for my work and day to day life, if there is no cure (no Medicean) for my disease I don't understand where is my life is heading to? And for what I have to live in this earth? I don't know...
But with a lot of hopes praying god to become natural health human being
Please suggest me what to do to heal my symptoms or any tests needed??
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
What part of "You do not have HIV was unclear"

1.How much probability of 3-1/2 month negative test turn to positive in future 6 mon or 1 year? Is there any case recorded like that??

This does not happen.

2.generalized swollen lymph nodes means acute hiv infection(every where I see in google).. I got lymph nodes and it's painful what should I understand ? As experienced dr what you suggest me??

There are many other illnesses which can cause lymph node swelling.  Swollen lymph nodes are a non-specific response to any number of stimuli including infections due to bacteria and viruses, allergic reactions and autoimmune disease.  Of all persons with swollen lymph nodes only a tiny proportion of them have HIV.

3. In your entire  dr history did you seen any patient likee me bothering with  these many symptoms and normal blood results?

Yes, it is common.   You do not have HIV

EWH
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Thank you dr.. But I hope you understand the symptoms are really bothering me a lot and I can't able to concentrate my work. Getting sucisidal thoughts..regretting in my life
1.How much probability of 3-1/2 month negative test turn to positive in future 6 mon or 1 year? Is there any case recorded like that??
2.generalized swollen lymph nodes means acute hiv infection(every where I see in google).. I got lymph nodes and it's painful what should I understand ? As experienced dr what you suggest me??
3. In your entire  dr history did you seen any patient likee me bothering with  these many symptoms and normal blood results?

I believe in god, it's god punishment to me for having multiple sex partners in life.. But I promise no sex anymore with unknown; lesson learned.
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300980 tn?1194929400
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Welcome to our Forum.  I will try to help by adding my assurances to all of the assurances you have already had that that you do not have HIV form the exposures that you mention.  Your tests prove this.  

Einstein said something along the lines of "one definition of insanity to do the same thing again and again and expect different results." In your case, continuing to try to prove that your symptoms are due to HIV is a waste of time.  

In answer to your specific questions:
1.What should I do or where should I go to get diagnose for everyday low grade fever, painful swollen lymph nod symptoms?
You should continue to work with a doctor you trust.  In some instances it takes time for things to declare themselves.  Once you have a doctor you feel good about, going from doctor to doctor will only cause them to need to start from the beginning.

2.because I had sex with multiple sex partners, I convinced May be have hiv ;do I need any further hiv or std tests at 6 month mark to confirm the symptoms are not due to hiv?
No further testing is needed. You have been tested repeatedly with reliable tests. It is time to believe the tests.'

3. Symptoms all resembles hiv and I had sex with multiple partners but negative hiv test . What should I believe(test or symptoms)? But definitely some virus playing and ruining in my body.
When tests are symptoms disagree, the tests are virtually always right.

I hope my comments are helpful. EWH
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