The potential for transmission probably begins a few days after acquiring the virus and remains high for a couple of weeks. That interval--the first 2-4 weeks after acquiring HIV, before a person's antibody test becomes positive--is the period of maximum HIV transmission.
That doesn't mean you were at high risk. You have to add up the odds that her Nigerian partner had HIV; the chance he infected her; and the chance that you caught it during a single episode of unprotected vaginal sex, if she was infected. Those figures suggest a very low risk for you.
Good luck-- HHH, MD
So what you are saying is that if she was infected, that no matter how long after the intial infection she can transmit the virus to others?
I don't know how to say it more clearly than I did. A person with HIV becomes infectious for others a few days after acquiring the virus, and remains infectious for the rest of his/her life. The level of infectiousness varies widely and tends to be highest in the first few weeks.