Dr. HHH, thank you so much for providing this forum. It has been an invaluable source of information and reassurance.
I am 19, and a heterosexual male. My exposure, however, took place with anther male on 4/14/2007. I engaged in insertive and receptive oral sex, but there was no ejaculation. However, there was pre-seminal fluid. My partner has assured me that he is HIV negative, but I was overtaken with guilt and anxiety from the event and I have been very worried ever since. It did greatly help to find out that my 8-week tests were negative, though.
I was feeling great, but two weeks ago I developed inflamed taste buds and a tingling tongue, along with canker sores. I have had canker sores before, so it is my tongue concerns me. In addition to my tongue, I have developed what I think are sores in my throat. As far as my overall feeling of well-being is concerned, I do not feel sick at all . Currently, the canker sores are gone but the inflamed taste buds and sore throat remain. The tongue tingling comes and goes, but is not as severe as its initial onset.
Here are my questions:
1) What is your opinion on the risk of HIV transmission through pre-seminal fluid? I have read many different opinions on the matter ranging from "zero risk" to "regular oral sex risk" (which I know is very low).
2) The tongue and throat symptoms are most likely a common viral infection, right? I read from another source (I don't trust its credibility, though) that HIV can open an outlet for these infections, but that is only in patients who have had the virus for extended periods of time, correct, not just 4 months?
3) Medically, would you even recommend another test if it weren't for my anxiety about the situation?
Thank you so much for providing this forum, it truly is an outstanding resource! Enjoy the rest of your summer!