Thank you doctor. I already knew the answer and did not expect any different.
I guess aside from providing us with an analysis of our risks you and the other doctors on this forum help us keep our sanity and calm our anxiety which is usually driven by guilt and shame particularly when a significant other is at risk from our lapse in judgement. I am a 40 year old business executive and have built a million dollar business from nothing. Keeping calm and rational under stress is something i am used to however this disease or rather the fear of passing it on to loved ones makes the best of us irrational as you have no doubt seen. I cannot thank you and your colleagues enough for the work you do. While a cure for this disease is being worked on all over the world your service is invaluable. Keep it up and thank you once again.
Welcome back to the forum.
As you already seem to know, you had an accurate reply on the community forum. Even without a condom, unprotected oral sex almost never transmits HIV. With a condom there was absolutely no risk. Your symptoms are not at all suggestive of HIV. You have a cold or minor allergy, nothing more.
Based on your past questions both on this and the HIV community forum, it is apparent you are abnormally obsessed with HIV despite exposures that could not possibly result in transmission of the virus. To prevent HIV here is all you ever need to know: if a bare penis (no condom) does not enter another person's vagina, rectum or (rarely) mouth; and if there is no direct blood exchange, such as by sharing injection equipment, there is no chance of getting HIV. Follow these guidelines and you need never worry -- and should not need to ask questions on this forum unless and until you have such exposures.
Best regards-- HHH, MD