You are overthinking it. You came here for reassurance. I gave it. Please accept it and stop trying to talk me (and yourself) into believing you have HIV or were at risk. You were not. I won't have any further replies.
Thanks for the reply . Just one follow up question. Really request you to consider
Would it also be correct to say that HIV rash ( even the non itch kind) would appear all at once and not intermittently over the trunk ( ie couple of spots one day, another couple of spots tomorrow) - spots also would be slightly larger and noticeable and not size of small hair follicles . Further feeling feverish during some times of the day ( 98.5- 99) does not qualify as ARS fever... the fever would need to be continue and be at leats above 100 - is this right
Also the risk from a one time oral unprotected encounter ( I was the insertive partner) remain only thoeritical.
By way of history of sexual conduct there has also not been any other episode or sexual encounter in the last 6 months...
Here is the reply to the same question in the STD Forum:
"None of your symptoms, including your description of the skin problems, suggest HIV or any STD. And assuming you are in the US or other industrialized country, there is almost no chance of HIV infection after 2 episodes of sex, even with women of 'unknown HIV status'. See a health care provider if you remain concerned about your symptoms.'"
Although I invited you to re-post your question here, there really isn't much more to say. In response to a few points: HIV symptoms cannot start the next day after exposure; 7-10 days is the minimum. Further, the sorts of skin rash you describe do not sound like the rash of ARS, which is painless and non-itchy, generally appears as subtle red spots all over the body, and does not come and go. Shoulder and muscle pain or throat tickle do not suggest HIV. Finally, ARS almost always includes fever.
If you remain concerned, see a health care provider. You can be HIV tested starting about 3-4 weeks after the expousre, if you remain nervous. In the meantime, if you are able to identify and locate your partner, you should speak with her. Most likely you will learn that she has no reason to assume she is infected. In the meantime, I really would not lose any sleep over this. You don't have HIV.
Regards-- HHH, MD