i had "low risk" behaviour on New Year 2007(01/01/2007) with a gay man.He licked my body with his saliva, and at that time, my body was very sensitive and had some fresh cuts. we did some handjobs, his precum (a lots) was on my dickhead(uncut), however, no anal, no oral.
on day 8(08JAn2007), i got flu-like sick in the morning,something like lump in my throat,and very tired. in the afternnon, i got high fever, nightsweats, all these symptoms lasted for 5 days, recovered12or13/Jan.2007. i went to the local health centre, the nurse told me that does not look like Flu, she did some oral sample test for mono, the result comes back with Negative. on day 14(14/Jan/2007)i went to test for HIV(antibody), also negative, i know it was too early.
i was really scared by my symptoms, cos i never had this before, the info on website, ARS timing is very differ, someone says starts on day 7, someone says takes 2 weeks to occur.
i asked him to have a test on 16/Jan/2007, was negative, but nurse told me that his paper only can tell he was negative before Oct/2006.
1. if someone experience ARS, the antibody test can detect the antibody during illness? or must wait for another weeks?
2. ARS timing? occuring on first week or at least 2 weeks later?
3. i am going to have a test today, 52 days. do you think would be reliable?
4. the AIDS help line lady (Finland)said i have small risk, do you think so ?
Many thanks for your time, Dr.H. i am so scared please give me some hints about my illness.