Welcome to the forum.
Your doctor is correct: your results are conclusive. In fact, even though official advice usually still is for definitive testing at 3 months or more after the last possible exposure, 4-6 weeks (depending on the specific test or combinations of tests) actually is conclusive. Here is a thread that discusses this in detail:
http://www.medhelp.org/posts/show/1704700
In addition, you had a sexual exposure that was extremely low risk. The chance a woman like your partner has HIV is no higher than one in many thousand. You really didn't need HIV testing at all in this situation.
So no worries, all is well.
Best wishes-- HHH, MD