Dear Doctor,
Yesterday, I had a massage in a Chinese Parlor. The masseuse gave me a normal massage on my back, then flipped me to massage the front. While she was working on my legs, all of a sudden she started giving me a hand job. In the heat of the moment, I let her continue, and she brought me to ejaculation in 10-15 mins. During the massage she had her cloths on and I didn't do anything that would get any of my part to her body parts. Obviously, her hands was all over me. After the event, I really got irritated of the situation and started contemplating scenarios in my had, what if she had STDs, what if she massaged a person with STDs before me, were the sheets clean, etc, etc.
So, here are my questions:
1- Does this event has any risk for HIV transmission?
2- Does this event has risk for ANY Std transmission?
3- I know that it is too early to test know, but should I be worried and get tested once the window period is over?
4- If this happened to you, personally, would you be watching your self for any sign of Flu/Cold like symptoms in two weeks, and if you had some symptoms would you be worried about any Std's, particularly HIV?
I know that my anxiety might be playing a role here, but I will be very happy if you can sincerely answer these questions. Thanks a lot.