Hi Doctor. I got a erotic massage 2 weeks back in Thailand with a CSW in which the lady gives a naked body to body massage. During the massage, my penis could have touched her vagina and some of vaginal fluids might have come on my penis. She then proceeded to give a handjob. No other sexual activity involved. Also, an hour before going to massage, I masturbated myself. Now I have the following concerns which are disturbing me since that day.
- Does self masturbation result in any foreskin trauma or tear ?
- If this happened, when the massage lady gave me a handjob an hour later, my concern is that the vaginal fluids might have been massaged in to these foreskin tears?
I have read that mutual masturbation is safe but the above question of any foreskin trauma during self masturbation and further exposure to vaginal fluids during handjob is making me restless.
Like a lot of people who ask questions here -- most of you tend toward being more nervous and anxious than average -- you apparently have some incorrect assumptions about HIV transmisison. Lots of people assume that very minor exposures, for example to "just one virus", can be sufficient for transmission of HIV. It isn't true. Lots of virus (i.e. lots of infected fluid or blood) must have access to specialized cells that typically are deep inside the body.
These are the reasons only unprotected vaginal or anal sex, or overt blood sharing. transmit the virus, and why people are not at risk from shaking hands, exposure to infected fluids in the environment (e.g. public toilets), and so on never result in HIV transmission. It's also why mutual masturbation, fingering, or other hand-genital contact don't transmit HIV -- and why you need not worry at all about the event you have described. (On top of which, it is statistically unlikely your massage lady had HIV. Although once very common in Thai sex workers, HIV is now quite uncommon in them, owing to a very successful national HIV prevention campaign.) And no, cuts or nicks on the hands, penis, etc make little apparent difference. You don't need testing for HIV on account of this event, and if you have a regular partnership, you can continue unprotected sex with your partner without fear of transmitting HIV or any other STD.
Can I guarantee absolutely you could not catch HIV from such an event? No, of course not. I also cannot guarantee you won't be hit by a meteorite someday. But I would not suggest you take any steps to avoid it, nor do I suggest trying to prevent HIV by avoiding hand-genital contact. Just plan on using a condom properly in the event of future vaginal or anal sex outside a mutually monogamous relationship -- and then don't worry about sexually catching HIV.
I hope this has been helpful. Best regards and stay safe -- as you appear to be doing.
Doctor ... I will be grateful if you can answer the following question please ... to put my fears to rest ...
You mentioned in your answer that exposure to small amount of vaginal fluids in the scenario above is zero risk. But I read in an article that even 1 ml of vaginal fluid contains thousands of viruses. Is this true & still pose no risk in my scenario?
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