encounter-help

[sidd_9]

Hello respected Doctors,

                           have been here before, but now for a different situation. Cutting to the chase. I had a encounter with a female part time escort yesterday.She was African American 29 years.She said she is healthy mother of 2 and last week got here results and is free of any STD's.
We had a mutual body rub, lip kissing and she licked my scrotum for a good 5 mins. It was deep in her mouth, but no part of the penis tip or shaft was in her mouth at all.

i was too nervous so did not have penetrative sex. She gave me a handjob and licked my scrotum again till i came, just outside on the bed (not contact of secretion in her mouth, just her hand).

she did say she did not have any oral STD's

1. what are my chances of getting HIV?

2. Am i at a risk for getting herpes/syphilis or any other commoner STD's?

3. do i need any STD test done and if so when?

4. Can i continue with unprotected encounter with my wife?

I am a little freaked out since i am married.

thanks a lot for your time.

regards

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

No risk.  Don't confuse anxiet/guilt/shame over a regretted sexual choice with STD risk.  They aren't the same.  Try to move on.  That's all for this thread.

[sidd_9]

sorry for being a little repetitive, but my only concern is she doing oral sex on my scrotum. Is this no risk for any other STD's with her saliva/oral cavity  being in contact with my genitals ?? (i know HIV is unlikely)

thanks

[H. Hunter Handsfield, M.D.]

You keep returning to the forum with variations on the same questions.  The answers are the same.  You are splitting hairs as if the minor differences between one exposure and the next make some difference.  They do not.  The basics of STD/HIV prevention aren't very complicated:  without unprotected (no condom) penetration of your penis into a partner's vagina, rectum or mouth, there is no risk.

To your specific questions:

1,2) Without penetrative sex, there was no risk of HIV or any other STD.

3) Therefore, no testing is necessary or recommended.

4) Based on this exposure, there is no reason not to continue unprotected sex with your wife.

HHH, MD